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She just said "Why do you like tickling me so much?" You say...?

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method11236

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Any ler with wandering fingers has been in this position before. Maybe you're out on a date or getting intimate or just chillin with a ticklish pal. You get a little excited and tickle more than appropriate for most people. Then you get asked the harmless, but to someone with a closeted tickle fetish, the worst question ever: "Why do you like tickling me so much?"

Uhm..uh...why not? Why do you laugh so much? Cause you're cute?

CAUSE IM A NATURAL BORN TICKLER! AAAHHHH!!!

Ok, so I reply in all of those ways except one. How do you reply?

Cheers,

Meth
 
Maybe try something straightforward and honest without being too detailed, like, "It's just a lot of fun for me, I hope you enjoyed it."

If she asks why is it fun, then say there's no explanation for what you enjoy, why do you like the taste of chocolate.
 
I admit I do feel bad for strict-lers sometimes. It must be *so* much harder to explain that you like to tickle than to explain thet you like to BE tickled - in the latter case, the answer is simple: "It feels good," and people generally accept that (in my experience; your milage may vary). But when you're wanting to be the ler, it's a lot harder to explain. I'm part ler and I have trouble explaining it myself. 😉 That's why its handy to be both - if you're part lee you ask for it first, then when you give it back its just "due revenge". 😉
 
VERY Helpful!

milagros317 said:
Maybe try something straightforward and honest without being too detailed, like, "It's just a lot of fun for me, I hope you enjoyed it."

If she asks why is it fun, then say there's no explanation for what you enjoy, why do you like the taste of chocolate.
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Milagros, thank you. You're a wise man with a studied response. Certainly helps me beef up the arsenal.
 
She says: Why do you like tickling me so much?

I say: Because you have such a cute giggle.

Because I like the feel of you squirming and struggling against me.

Because I'm a European man, with Russian hands and Roman fingers.

Because I love being tickled and hope you do too. When done right, it feels great!

Because it makes me really hard. [This if we've been intimate, and if she's comfortable talking about sex.]
 
I recently was asked this from a girl who wanted to know why i wanted to tickle her. i just said because its fun! she said oh ok. i think she thought maybe it was a way to get a cheap feel or something naughty like that. 😱
 
No, it is NOT the worst question ever. I might've thought so at one time, but that's so long ago.

"Why? Well, I'll tell you, but, do you promise to keep it a secret?"
"Sure".
"Because, when you tickle a beautiful woman, good fortune would surely come your way..."
"Hmmm..."

Or, the simpler way out...

"Because I love to hear laughter in my world. Laughter is Life."

Don't be the one who will nervously change the subject, or do the Ralph Kramden 'huminah huminah huminah'...life is too short for that shit. Smile. Act like doing what you like to do is the most normal thing in the world.

Make delicious lemonade out of the lemons, gang.
 
If a girl asks me something along those lines I always like to say, "Hey, it's your own fault - you're the one who's all cute and giggly. How am I supposed to NOT tickle you?"
 
Good answers, gang.

But I just can't take that kind of risk. I think it would be safer to assassinate anyone who may be on to my love for tickling. If she says, "Hey, you sure like tickling me", I just pull out the chloroform and duct tape.

I joke, but in the past, this is only a slight exageration from how I would have reacted to anyone who even brought up tickling in conversation. Someone else from the TMF told me the other day of how even hearing the word tickle made them nervous. I totally felt that way, as if everyone in the room thought I was some freak who liked tickling. I probably went my entire life without even saying the T-word.

Anybody else feel like this?


Cheers,

Meth
 
method11236 said:
I joke, but in the past, this is only a slight exageration from how I would have reacted to anyone who even brought up tickling in conversation. Someone else from the TMF told me the other day of how even hearing the word tickle made them nervous. I totally felt that way, as if everyone in the room thought I was some freak who liked tickling. I probably went my entire life without even saying the T-word.

Anybody else feel like this?


Cheers,

Meth
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yes! to this day it can still be a bit of a taboo thing. now, i'm comfortable with my fetish, but there are people in my life who i really don't want to know about it, or at least the greater details. there have been times my fiance would begin to mention it in conversation, but then she would see me in the background making a cutting throat motion rather frantically.
 
Usually what I do is turn it around on her and make it into a compliment somehow... specifically, get her to think that the reason you enjoy tickling her so much is because you enjoy tickling *her* not, that you enjoy *tickling* her. IE, "why do you like tickling my feet so much?" - "because they're too pretty not to touch, and your laugh is beautiful."

Believe it or not, I've also been asked this question of prospective dates. When I get the opportunity to screen them first (usually because they've answered a personal ad I place on Craigslist looking for ticklish women) and I ask them if they're okay with tickling, they ask me why I want to do it. I usually say something like the chocolate comment - in fact, the exact analogy I used was, "do you like chocolate ice cream? you do? good. Now, imagine never having chocolate ice cream again. You'd survive, but you'd miss it. Same with me and tickling."

That seemed to work for her.

Matter of fact, I had a date today... *beautiful* woman. We went bowling, of all things, and the chemistry was there, so we were ribbing one another and flirting between frames. At one point she was sitting near me and said something cute, so I reached out a finger and lightly tickled her under the arm. She giggled and said, "I'm extremely ticklish." I winked at her and said, "yea? sounds like fun." You should've seen the look on her face. Flustered her so bad she guttered her next throw.

Be confident, be charming, and make it all about her. Remember, you're not weird... and besides! She's letting you tickle her, so she must enjoy it, right? If she asks you why you like tickling her, ask if she likes it. If she says she does, tell her "there's your answer".

The possibilities are endless.
 
If you can talk about it in the open with whoever, so much pressure is off of your shoulders.. Just recently found this out after years off hiding it.. You feel kind of like a king.. I'd say most of the people in this world are freakish about something anyway, and tickling is nothing really.. Say what you really feel about it, its what your looking for anyways.. Be free my friend...
 
2 more cents from BLUE_THUNDER

well there are two ways to deal with it. admit its something you enjoy and be honest, or just blow it off as "just wanted to hear ya laugh" and pass it off like no big deal. trust me, once you've been gunned down in aerial combat once or twice it loses its sting. but you never want to "out yourself" like at a bar or restaurant or something, but at home in a more intimate environment. one of my favorite sayings is "she'll get over it, or she wont" ,either way it is your life, just be cool and im sure things will work out fine with time. my 2 cents.........BLUE_THUNDER

www.myspace.com/bullitt_mustang this is me



" c'mon man , you gotta set that thing down, we got two choppers full of S.W.A.T. guys here........"
 
well my girlfriend is really ticklish, and i tickle her all the time. she doesn't mind it, tho. it's more playful for us. she did ask me once why i liked to tickle her so much. i said "i like hearing you laugh." she just giggled. so, nautrally, i tickled her.
 
Yarrg, I got hit with this one before. To tell you the truth, I wasn't real happy about it. I was kind of embarrassed at the time.

I agree with whoever said to just "... because it's fun!" That is, unless you to chose to get into the whole tickle fetish thing.

A girl I dated in high school, who used to tickle me all the time, said she liked tickling people because it was fun. So I'd say that's an unacceptable enough answer.
 
when HE says "why do you like tickling me so much?" I'm going to say "because you have a beautiful neck and a nice chest and I love to touch it. Besides, that smile and laughter is divine!!!!"
 
One g/f I had asked me that once while I was tickling her feet. By that time, she didn't mind me doing it, I think the curiosity had simply gotten to her. I told her something along the lines of how her feet were simply too cute to leave alone, how much I enjoyed making her laugh, how I loved the feeling of my fingertips along her soles, THEN....countered with my own question:

....would you like to tickle MY feet after I'm done tickling yours?

Problem solved....
 
joeshushu said:
I am a pervert please don't call the authorities. Thank you so much
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LOL. And the winner is......Joeshushu! Sorry, I don't have anything useful to contribute. I just thought this was funny 😀
 
milagros317 said:
Maybe try something straightforward and honest without being too detailed, like, "It's just a lot of fun for me, I hope you enjoyed it."

If she asks why is it fun, then say there's no explanation for what you enjoy, why do you like the taste of chocolate.
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i like his opinion on what you say lol, seems almost flawless to say...and it's not like you're lying or anything, just not telling the complete truth.
 
If a guy asked why I liked being tickled or tickling him I would say:

"It's hot. Didn't you know that? *pats his head* Are you out of the loop, sweetie?"

or

"Um... it turns me on. *innocent smile*"

or

"I like being tickled (tickling you). It's the fun, easy way to have a hot guy on top of you (be on top of a hot guy) and not get pregnant! *fake, TV smile*"
 
Iishieboo said:
If a guy asked why I liked being tickled or tickling him I would say:

"It's hot. Didn't you know that? *pats his head* Are you out of the loop, sweetie?"

or

"Um... it turns me on. *innocent smile*"

or

"I like being tickled (tickling you). It's the fun, easy way to have a hot guy on top of you (be on top of a hot guy) and not get pregnant! *fake, TV smile*"
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yeah but see, i think a girl can get away with that more than a guy could...if a guy said that then the girl might think he's weird or creapy or something but if a girl tells a guy that i dont' think he'll care as much.
 
tklr5150 said:
"Hey, it's your own fault - you're the one who's all cute and giggly. How am I supposed to NOT tickle you?"
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I love that I wish donovan would have said that to me!!!...when i asked donovan before he knew i liked tickling he said..."Because you didnt tell me to stop."...lol
 
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