should I go through with this personal session?

[DontAskJusTckle]

Two hours seems pretty long for a first time session. I would recommend working up to that. Say, start out with a 30-minute session, and if that goes well, then an hour.

 

[Em Es]

$350 for a two hour session sounds like a bargain

ndj101982, before she retired three or four years ago New York City's premiere dominatrix was charging something like $275 for just one hour to dominate you or switch with you. I don't know if the girl you're seeing switches (or if taking turns with her even interests you) but either way $350 for two hours sounds more than reasonable. (Were that domme I mentioned still working, her fee could be $300 or more per hour by now.)

Sure, $350 is a lot of money for most people. But if you really need the action and can't get it for free, the option of tickle-for-pay beats no option, right?

 

[GQguy]

I say save your money. Invest in yourself. A new gym membership. Some new clothes. Classes at the university. A dance class at the local dance studio. A cooking class....or even a trip to Vegas with the fellas. $350 can go a long way. The biggest drawback in my humble opinion is that it's a rare experience you can't even brag and story tell about. That's one of the great things about leading an interesting life....you can attract new interesting people by relating stories of your good times. I'd pay $350 for an hour of hang gliding which will provide a story to tell at dinner parties for decades than to pay some girl to make me hot and bothered for the day.

Sure the girl is cute....but $350 dollars cute? Nah.

You sound like a solid guy. Why pay for what you can get for free? When a girl is into you just having your love and attention is plenty payment for whatever you like in the bedroom.

Invest in yourself. Live an interesting life.

GQ

 

[WorkInProgress]

NDJ: Sorry I misunderstood; I drew the wrong meaning from the word "producer," I think. Now that I understand, I'd say, it really boils down to a question of whether this is what you want to get for $350. You've got strong opinions from people for and against, but none of them are you. Only you are you. Only you know.

 

[Authorsfreedom]

Do it! I would!

 

[mabus]

I say save your money. Invest in yourself. A new gym membership. Some new clothes. Classes at the university. A dance class at the local dance studio. A cooking class....or even a trip to Vegas with the fellas. $350 can go a long way. The biggest drawback in my humble opinion is that it's a rare experience you can't even brag and story tell about. That's one of the great things about leading an interesting life....you can attract new interesting people by relating stories of your good times. I'd pay $350 for an hour of hang gliding which will provide a story to tell at dinner parties for decades than to pay some girl to make me hot and bothered for the day.

Sure the girl is cute....but $350 dollars cute? Nah.

You sound like a solid guy. Why pay for what you can get for free? When a girl is into you just having your love and attention is plenty payment for whatever you like in the bedroom.

Invest in yourself. Live an interesting life.

GQ

I was going to say HELL YEAH, ....but as always, GQguy makes a lot of excellent points. I guess it depends on how much money you have, and what you wish to spend it on.
I've gotten tired of getting burned by crappy video clips, so I've bought less and less......til now I may buy one every two months....if even that.

I'd rather spend the $12 on a tickle clip, toward a $12 rack of ribs with fries and a drink.
I'd rather say "Mmmmm,, those were some DAMN good ribs!" instead of "Ehh, her ribs were barely ticklish....crap!"

Shit, $20 for a 10 or 20 minute, mediocre tickling clip, or an $8 zoo ticket that'll last me 2 hours, and a meal anywhere in town after, sounds more fun these days.......

So, if you're RICH, go for it! In fact, she is DAMN hot. I wish she'd do more stuff. Go for it, and then see if you can divide the time and tickle HER afterwards!! If $350 is a drop in the bucket.

If not, maybe not worth it. I wouldn't pay that much, even for her. I'd rather use GQguy's advice, and meet someone for much cheaper, and end up with about 30 or 40 years worth of private tickle sessions.......along with the quiet walks in the woods, her grabbing on to me during a scary movie, me killing the cockroaches while she hides under the covers, and every other small thing that makes marriage great.

On a good day you can watch her in sexy lingerie, wearing stockings with her shoes off...if that's your thing...just putting on make up getting ready to go out, and it'll be hotter than a private session with an unknown model...and it's FREE, because she's your wife!

 

[socktickler86]

and it's FREE, because she's your wife!

The hidden costs of ownership are horrible.

Honestly though, all these arguments against it have their merit, however think of it this way. You can probably think up a thousand reasons not to do something. To add to it, those reasons can all be a risk in of themselves. A new gym membership? Might as well burn the money. A class at a university? And learn.... what? A dance class? cooking class? All things you could be useless or regret just as much as this little session.

 

[GQguy]

The hidden costs of ownership are horrible.

Honestly though, all these arguments against it have their merit, however think of it this way. You can probably think up a thousand reasons not to do something. To add to it, those reasons can all be a risk in of themselves. A new gym membership? Might as well burn the money. A class at a university? And learn.... what? A dance class? cooking class? All things you could be useless or regret just as much as this little session.

I feel you, but let me illustrate my point better.

I think paying for a session is like using a bandaid to seal a leaky pipe. It works for a little while but doesn't solve the deeper issue. I think everyone has thought about paying to satisfy their fetish or sexual desire. We as men NEED that contact. And that contact does not come easy. The "session" will make our buddy feel good for a day or two....but a couple weeks later he'll still be at square one longing for that contact. I use "contact" so that it applies to all things us men desire in intimacy...be it tickling, sex, or being grabbed during a scary movie.

The advantage to the session is that it is an end's in and of itself. After the session...mission accomplished! You feel great. (especially if you got a happy ending). The gym membership, dance class, cooking class, hang gliding ect...are not ends in themselves. You can do all of these things and still be lonely. But it's an INVESTMENT towards riding one's self from that lack of female contact. Women in general like and want to settle down with a guy that is healthy and in shape. Women in general would prefer a man that is more cultured than a man that is not. I suggest that a man that desires contact...be it sex or tickling invest in activities that help him meet and attract women. The reality is if a woman TRULY likes a man she will put up with the tickling or whatever kink he has. If she deems the man not worthy of performing the kink....she won't. Simple. Sorry boys that have the crazy fetishes...you'll REALLY have to win her over but hope is not lost.

I say take the cash and invest it in something that will have you meet women and attract women. Don't use my suggestions because they are useful for the women I want. Figure out what YOUR dream woman wants and appreciates and be the man to deliver. If you like a countryl girl....buy a lifted truck and invest in some good boots! If you like a career woman....get a degree. If you like the girls from jersey shore......get a tan and lose a few brain cells...don't forget to know how to "feel the beat". You get the idea.

But that's the way I see things and my humble opinion. What is fact however.....is that as more guys spend more on these escorts and not on their life skills......there is fewer competition when it comes to attracting quality women. More for me. More for those on the path of self improvement.

GQ

 

[ndj101982]

I feel you, but let me illustrate my point better.

I think paying for a session is like using a bandaid to seal a leaky pipe. It works for a little while but doesn't solve the deeper issue. I think everyone has thought about paying to satisfy their fetish or sexual desire. We as men NEED that contact. And that contact does not come easy. The "session" will make our buddy feel good for a day or two....but a couple weeks later he'll still be at square one longing for that contact. I use "contact" so that it applies to all things us men desire in intimacy...be it tickling, sex, or being grabbed during a scary movie.

The advantage to the session is that it is an end's in and of itself. After the session...mission accomplished! You feel great. (especially if you got a happy ending). The gym membership, dance class, cooking class, hang gliding ect...are not ends in themselves. You can do all of these things and still be lonely. But it's an INVESTMENT towards riding one's self from that lack of female contact. Women in general like and want to settle down with a guy that is healthy and in shape. Women in general would prefer a man that is more cultured than a man that is not. I suggest that a man that desires contact...be it sex or tickling invest in activities that help him meet and attract women. The reality is if a woman TRULY likes a man she will put up with the tickling or whatever kink he has. If she deems the man not worthy of performing the kink....she won't. Simple. Sorry boys that have the crazy fetishes...you'll REALLY have to win her over but hope is not lost.

I say take the cash and invest it in something that will have you meet women and attract women. Don't use my suggestions because they are useful for the women I want. Figure out what YOUR dream woman wants and appreciates and be the man to deliver. If you like a countryl girl....buy a lifted truck and invest in some good boots! If you like a career woman....get a degree. If you like the girls from jersey shore......get a tan and lose a few brain cells...don't forget to know how to "feel the beat". You get the idea.

But that's the way I see things and my humble opinion. What is fact however.....is that as more guys spend more on these escorts and not on their life skills......there is fewer competition when it comes to attracting quality women. More for me. More for those on the path of self improvement.

GQ

I totally feel ya. It's like when we see a clip sometimes on here, get super horny, then buy the clip. It satisfies are immediate need, but after you watch it and of course jerk off to it, you're kind of like...."so I just basically spent 12 bucks to whack off."

Note: Not that I'm discouraging buying clips here, but let's face it, we've all said that once or twice after buying a clip and once the arousal comes down we are pissed we just spent the money.

 

[socktickler86]

@GQguy:

You make a point but you seem to be implying that this would be the end of his chances with women if he does this. This could be a one time thing.

Watch him be like "oh by the way I'm a big time executive, my pants cost $350, money is nothing".

 

[ndj101982]

@GQguy:

You make a point but you seem to be implying that this would be the end of his chances with women if he does this. This could be a one time thing.

Watch him be like "oh by the way I'm a big time executive, my pants cost $350, money is nothing".

LOL, if I was a big time executive and had lots of money I'm sure I could tickle all the girls I'd be dating and they'd be okay with it 🙂

 

[GQguy]

@GQguy:

You make a point but you seem to be implying that this would be the end of his chances with women if he does this. This could be a one time thing.

Watch him be like "oh by the way I'm a big time executive, my pants cost $350, money is nothing".

Nope. Not implying that at all. This could be a one time thing. But it's like the guy that drinks because he hates his job....He feels good that night....but the next day his job still sucks. There are some that will go to school instead of hanging out at the bar(GQguy loves the bar btw) but what are the odds? Most guys will rather drink than focus on the issue at hand....the guy is under educated and his efforts aren't appreciated. So the cycle remains. Same goes for us. The guy that drops that kind of cash could in the end say..."that wasn't worth it, i'm going to get a girl that likes me" but the odds are he'll say "that was cool, damn no girls on the TMF have hit my PM box...time to save for another session". If this wasn't the case there'd be no way that an uneducated woman that is mediocre in attractiveness could charge 175 dollars an hour for tickling. Am I the only one that finds that absurd? I'm getting off of point though.....

The guy must stop the cycle. $350 goes a long way. I assure you...he wouldn't hesitate about going through with the session if he didn't appreciate the value of the $350.

350 equals =

6 dates with dinner for two and drinks
A new spring wardrobe
A years membership at the gym
A class at the community college
A down payment on a lower end car
2 sets of tickets to that show she likes
A years membership to a dating site
A pair of tandem sky diving jumps
ect ect ect

Now if you're living the life you want to live...and CASH and TIME are not a limited comodity...by all means indulge! But for most guys we could spend our cash wiser....and we could spend our time better. I know I can! And i'm constantly trying. I am FAR from figuring it out....but i'm on the path brothers.


GQ

 

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

So when is this supposed to happen?

 

[WorkInProgress]

LOL If I ever try to write a musical play about this site, this thread will certainly be the material for one of the songs.

Don't think twice, just go for it.
But what'll you have to show for it?
Ecstasy is worth the cost.
But when it's done, your money's lost.

And a few more stanzas and choruses...

 

[guitarman]

That is a shit load of money!!! :/

 

[maniactickler]

That is a shit load of money!!! :/

Thats actually a good deal for two hours.

 

[miskiduk]

Hell, haven't you done it yet?
Hurry up, she'll be getting cold soon.

 

[Vidian Vixen]

Go for it! Im sure it will be a blast 🙂

 

[c7_assassin]

350 equals =

6 dates with dinner for two and drinks
A new spring wardrobe
A years membership at the gym
A class at the community college
A down payment on a lower end car
2 sets of tickets to that show she likes
A years membership to a dating site
A pair of tandem sky diving jumps
ect ect ect

GQ

Well, yeah...but it's also what you spend

Filling up your car eight times.
Going to McDonalds once a week for about a year.
Getting drunk about seven times.

Also, you can't say it's any more of a waste than someone spending money on acupuncture, massage, aromatherapy, chiropracty, hypnotherapy, or feng shui. She's a pro; he's buying her professional services. And unlike most of the above, he'll actually get something for his money.

 

[guitarman]

Thats actually a good deal for two hours.

Really??

I just did a little converting and it comes to around £225. For 2 hours with this lass? Fair enough if you have the money and you don't think you'll regret it later on. I mean the money of course, not regretting the experience. Im sure you'll have a right laugh =D

 

[GQguy]

Well, yeah...but it's also what you spend

Filling up your car eight times.
Going to McDonalds once a week for about a year.
Getting drunk about seven times.

Also, you can't say it's any more of a waste than someone spending money on acupuncture, massage, aromatherapy, chiropracty, hypnotherapy, or feng shui. She's a pro; he's buying her professional services. And unlike most of the above, he'll actually get something for his money.

You're missing it buddy. He goes to the escort to because he wants to get intimate. I'm saying spend your cash on something that will get you closer to a woman that he can date and be intimate with. Acupuncture, massage, aromatherapy, chiropracty, hypnotherapy, or feng shui don't satisfy his need for intimacy....nor does it help him meet women that also might satisfy that need. Those services are not in the same realm as registering for a dance class with 2-1 guy girl ratio where the instructor encourages each male student to dance and interact with all 50 females in the room before the 2nd week of class. Sure...he might not get a number..but his odds of meeting a girl he likes VASTLY improve by making moves like that.( I actually participated in a class like this...twice!!)

I'm saying that he should put that cash aside....and spend all of it on dating. Not on massage....or video games...or bills. Just dating. I'm sure that any guy that invests $350 well can find at least ONE date. Will she tickle him like the dom?......Hmmm. Don't know. But I do know though that if a girl is REALLY into a guy she'll do anything to keep him. I can't think of a girl that if I really wanted her to tie me up and tickle me....wouldn't though.

 

[ticklebrowse26]

I agree with a lot of GQ's points. Self-betterment may help you out more in the long run.

On the ooooother hand, you could see this as equivalent to going to a really really high priced therapist for a few hours. If this helps your mental health... this could be a big plus.

 

[StoneColdTruth]

I say if you can honestly say you feel the price is fair and that it will really make you happy, go for it. You cannot take the money with you right?