Shy Lee's/Ler's?

[ShyMale]

Hi all! Just first of all want to say hello to everyone, I'm new here ya see 🙂

As my name implies, I'm a very shy person. I'm a male lee, and I was wondering whether people like or dislike tickling/being tickled by shy people. Do you see it as a good or bad thing?

Just curious to people's thoughts on the matter...

🙂

 

[PomPom]

I think shy 'lees are cute, so no I wouldn't have a problem tickling one!
Besides I'm a very shy switch so I can't really judge.

 

[shygirl5]

i don't think i'd like to be tickled by a shy tickler. i like aggressive, evil tickles, or ticklers that love to verbally tease anyways. LOL as my name implies i am quite shy, which makes me somewhat able to hold in my laughter better, i think. 😉 it takes a good tickler to make me laugh out loud. i'd love to meet up with other ticklephiles one day, but i think i'd be more of an observer at first. i'd probably be blushing, giggling and cowering in the corner for the most part. i still find it uncomfortable to say the word "tickle" when talking about it in real life with other ticklephiles.

 

[darkscar]

I am a shy person myself but it goes away after i get to know someone better. I do have the same problem with saying the world tickle or tickling out loud. I don't have a problem with aggression when I tickle someone, I be passive or aggressive when i tickle, so that is not a problem. I just have problems meeting new people.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I definitely prefer being tickled by an aggressive person. I like a mouthy lee, but I don't mind a shy one, either.

 

[waitin2btkled]

Hi all! Just first of all want to say hello to everyone, I'm new here ya see 🙂

As my name implies, I'm a very shy person. I'm a male lee, and I was wondering whether people like or dislike tickling/being tickled by shy people. Do you see it as a good or bad thing?

Just curious to people's thoughts on the matter...

🙂

My question for you is, when you get comfortable here and start being the tickler or ticklee....

What do we call you? .... can't be ShyMale anymore....

 

[Tickleslave83]

I'm a shy lee but I'm prefer an aggressive and confident ler who views my shyness as her advantage.

 

[Toptickler]

As an aggressive ler, I happen to find shy lee's a perfect contrast.

 

[ShyMale]

Thanks for the replies, it seems that being shy isn't much of a problem for people!

@waitin2btkled

Lol, to be honest I think I'm going to be shy forever 😛 Always have been, always will be.

 

[watermellon]

I'm quiet till I get to know you. Kind of on the introverted side anyways

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I agree... shy ticklees are cute and absolutely a joy to tickle. 😀

Especially when I get them so good, that they insist on revenge. Then... Ooooo Watch out!

 

[BMoreTklr]

I would say I'm a shybrid ler...meaning, generally I'm low key until I get to know people, but if someone else manages to out shy me, then 2 shy people together kinda sucks so I try to liven up the conversation/mood etc. With that said, when tickling a more outgoing lee, the shy side of me comes out. When tickling a more shy lee, the more outgoing side comes out as I try to help the lee be more comfortable with the situation. Lee's that are too shy though can be a bit frustrating......kinda makes me feel they don't really want to be in the vulnerable position they're in and I'm some kinda creep that should be on Law & Order: SVU hunted down by Benson and Stabler.

 

[Deleted member 94322]

A shy lee would be adorable! <3

In my opinion they'd be so much more fun to tickle. :3

 

[TickVix]

Being shy is a good thing because that means you're not super aggressive in your approach and what lee wouldn't respect that? At the same time, once the ice has broken continuing to be too shy may be perceived as not being confident in your abilities. So I tink a good balance of both shyness and being comfortable can nevergo wrong 🙂.

 

[knudus]

A shy lee trying to appear self confident is mums!

I dont think i would enjoy a lee who wasnt just a little shy, think about it, this woman will be restrained and made helpless, more or less undressed, made to wiggle, laugh and scream by someone who gets turned on by it!

 

[Deleted member 94322]

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[tommytikl]

but i think i'd be more of an observer at first. i'd probably be blushing, giggling and cowering in the corner for the most part. i still find it uncomfortable to say the word "tickle" when talking about it in real life with other ticklephiles.

I was the same way at my first NEST or two. I just sat and watched mostly nut the people from those first NESTs are still good friends today.


Btw, if you are a shy lee, consider a blindfold to avoid self-consciousness.
You can't see what's coming and will just have to focus on the touch and not where they are touching.

If you go to a gathering and you are shy. Do everything you can to overcome your shyness and say hello to ppl.

 

[tommytikl]

I'm quiet till I get to know you. Kind of on the introverted side anyways

Yep, then you can't get me to shut up! LOL