Ticking is one of my three oldest kinks. Others either developed alongside it, or were inspired by partners over the years.
Bondage - an obvious adjunct to tickling, but it turned into a kink itself. Watching a girl struggle in bondage is hot; seeing a girl get turned on struggling in bondage is hotter; seeing a girl get turned on at the idea of bondage is delightful.
Pee desperation/wetting - the original inspiration for my bondage and tickling kinks, but now expanded. Reinforced by an early partner who had a kink for being tied down and teased with bladder pressure, sounds of running water, et c. until she lost it. Further reinforced by female friends and a partner who got off on being placed in desperation situations; traffic jams, forbidden to visit the restroom while at the mall, at dinner, at a movie, or other such.
Forced orgasms - An early partner had a kink for a good girl/bad guy RP where she was tied down and brought to orgasm with a vibrator, fingers, or tongue while she tried her best to resist, because "good girls don't come". Unless you make them, in which case it's not their fault! Wink. Kink inspired by her libido trying to find a way around her religious upbringing.
Multiple orgasms - The same early partner had a fantasy in which she was tied down and left with a vibrator running, and running, and running, ...
Teasing - We agree neither of us will orgasm until ... pick a date; then tease each other mercilessly 'til then. Or I tie her down, get her oh so close, and make her bg for an orgasm.
Surreptitious orgasms - An early partner could only orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation. Until she came from our first kiss. Then the first time I played with her nipples. Then a fingernail run down her spine. Vaginal penetration. A particular, seemingly innocent touch in public. A code word dropped into a group conversation. A coded gesture across a crowded room. Even a particular symbol chalked in a place I knew she'd be. [Does the modern use of a R/C vibe go here, or under forced orgasms?]
Headlights on - Until we reach a certain age, erectile tissue naturally erects and un-erects many times a day. Our society goes through decades-long cycles in which this is something to be celebrated, or to be ashamed of. I enjoy the celebratory decades.
Voyeurism - I celebrate those who are proud of their PDA; those who stay at a high-rise hotel and leave the curtains open; those who have loud sex or tickling sessions in the adjacent room at motels. Or those who visit and make out on the other sofa as my partner and I do the same.
Cunnilingus - Nature has gifted her with the ability to have many more orgasms per unit time than I am capable of; it's my responsibility to help her celebrate that gift.
Her particular kinks - Some things don't do it for me in and of themselves, but I get into it it because she's into it. An OTK spanking? Being hunted through the woods? If you get excited telling me about it, maybe that excitement will be contagious.
Bondage - an obvious adjunct to tickling, but it turned into a kink itself. Watching a girl struggle in bondage is hot; seeing a girl get turned on struggling in bondage is hotter; seeing a girl get turned on at the idea of bondage is delightful.
Pee desperation/wetting - the original inspiration for my bondage and tickling kinks, but now expanded. Reinforced by an early partner who had a kink for being tied down and teased with bladder pressure, sounds of running water, et c. until she lost it. Further reinforced by female friends and a partner who got off on being placed in desperation situations; traffic jams, forbidden to visit the restroom while at the mall, at dinner, at a movie, or other such.
Forced orgasms - An early partner had a kink for a good girl/bad guy RP where she was tied down and brought to orgasm with a vibrator, fingers, or tongue while she tried her best to resist, because "good girls don't come". Unless you make them, in which case it's not their fault! Wink. Kink inspired by her libido trying to find a way around her religious upbringing.
Multiple orgasms - The same early partner had a fantasy in which she was tied down and left with a vibrator running, and running, and running, ...
Teasing - We agree neither of us will orgasm until ... pick a date; then tease each other mercilessly 'til then. Or I tie her down, get her oh so close, and make her bg for an orgasm.
Surreptitious orgasms - An early partner could only orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation. Until she came from our first kiss. Then the first time I played with her nipples. Then a fingernail run down her spine. Vaginal penetration. A particular, seemingly innocent touch in public. A code word dropped into a group conversation. A coded gesture across a crowded room. Even a particular symbol chalked in a place I knew she'd be. [Does the modern use of a R/C vibe go here, or under forced orgasms?]
Headlights on - Until we reach a certain age, erectile tissue naturally erects and un-erects many times a day. Our society goes through decades-long cycles in which this is something to be celebrated, or to be ashamed of. I enjoy the celebratory decades.
Voyeurism - I celebrate those who are proud of their PDA; those who stay at a high-rise hotel and leave the curtains open; those who have loud sex or tickling sessions in the adjacent room at motels. Or those who visit and make out on the other sofa as my partner and I do the same.
Cunnilingus - Nature has gifted her with the ability to have many more orgasms per unit time than I am capable of; it's my responsibility to help her celebrate that gift.
Her particular kinks - Some things don't do it for me in and of themselves, but I get into it it because she's into it. An OTK spanking? Being hunted through the woods? If you get excited telling me about it, maybe that excitement will be contagious.
