Significant Others..........

[Mr Nonchalant]

Hiya everyone!

Just wondering..........

Have any of you guys/gals on here ever met a significant other who couldn't/wouldn't be accommodating of your foot/tickle fetish?

OR..........

Have you met someone who's quite the opposite of the above?

Would love to hear your stories.

Take care all.

 

[rhiannon]

Of course. My husband isn't into tickling at all. He would do it to do me a favor, but it's just not the same than being with someone who enjoys it.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I was engaged to a vanilla who, once he found out about my fetish and the community, totally embraced it. He dragged me to my first gathering (kicking and screaming, I might add - I was terrified). He came to gatherings and enjoyed watching me play with other people. He was never totally converted, but it is something he continues to enjoy in other relationships even though we aren't together anymore.

 

[dreamer117]

My current gf is my first ever who's really cool with it. My previous gfs and ex-wife sometimes tried to be accommodating, but truly didn't like it so weren't much fun. This was ultimately even a factor in my divorce. Only a minor one, I hasten to add. Until major things broke too I lived without it just fine for years. But I'll admit it's pretty wonderful now, having my fantasies come true. 😀 I feel very, very lucky.

 

[cue]

Well, Scott was the first one who I tried tickling with. No other boyfriends even tried, so I never knew that I liked it until he started tickling me.

Since we've been together, he's tickled me on a regular basis. More or less, depending if I'm in the mood for it (hurting, sick, tired, etc.) or not.
17 years of him tickling me on a regular basis. For the past month, however, it's been almost a daily occurance.

 

[CommBoy]

My GF is very accomodating, and has even converted to a lot of my tendencies herself :]

It's nice not only to have someone who will allow me to do my thing, but to instigate tickling herself very frequently.

 

[april]

My soon to be ex-husband is as vanilla as they come, no interest in tickling, hates being tickled.

 

[Maestro1874]

Hiya everyone!

Just wondering..........

Have any of you guys/gals on here ever met a significant other who couldn't/wouldn't be accommodating of your foot/tickle fetish?

OR..........

Have you met someone who's quite the opposite of the above?

Would love to hear your stories.

Take care all.

Yup. Had one that was completely repelled by the idea and it contributed to the downfall of the relationship.

 

[Libertine]

Con(Per?)verted beautiful wife and she's delighted I did.

 

[BellybTickler]

I've been with both types, and I really can't say which one was better because I'm no longer in any of those relationships.

 

[baldadonis]

I've had both experiences. I once dated a girl for several weeks when I decided I would come out to her about my fetish. It did not go well, which I realized in retrospect was because I handled it terribly. I got really flustered and described it as if it were a disease she would have to deal with rather than a really fun aspect of my personality and sex life. She dumped me the next day.

On the flip side, I have been dating a girl for the past 20 months that I met through the forum. Obviously, she not only accepts but loves my interest in tickling. Besides this shared interest, this has been the best relationship I've been in because we are both very giving and generous to each other, love to do whatever will make the other happy, and have an amazing connection way beyond just tickling.

 

[chicago]

For the most part I've dated guys that didn't even know a person could be turned on by tickling, but they were all pretty open to it. That said, there is nothing like being with someone who gets it and I'm really lucky to have found that someone.

 

[LD_Tickler]

The least accommodating girl was willing to indulge me, the most accommodating girl was eager to indulge me. It's never been a problem for me.

 

[GQguy]

For the most part the women I date are always game to a certain extent. I'm pretty chill about tickling...but my foot fetish must be indulged or i'm out the door. One such girl a few years ago was beautiful. She was actually trying to get into playboy(not sure if she did)at the time so you can imagine what she looked like. But she hated feet! Perfect body but I didn't get what I wanted so that fizzled out. We had FUN but definitely ended for the best...at least for me.

GQ

 

[ViperGTS]

Absolutely not. I've found that tickling and BDSM are such integral parts of my life, that if someone is unable or unwilling to accept and embrace that part of me, they cannot be my significant other. I have a few vanilla friends, but I would never be able to get romantically involved with someone if we aren't able or willing to learn about and accept each other the way we are.

 

[Strider]

Not really. Generally speaking I've had kinky partners since I was about 17. Like LD said, even those that didn't enjoy tickling still indulged that aspect and we found other mutually enjoyable activities to compensate for that.

Currently I'm in a 24/7 relationship with someone who manages to complement me in just about every way possible. Tickling goes on in it but it's not either of our favorite form of play.

 

[Avenger314]

Several girls I've dated were neutral-to-negative about it. I've learned that, in the future, no matter what else we may have in common, tickling is a deal-breaker for me. Some got a kick out of being tickled, whcih is good. My current (and hopefully permanent, natch) girlfriend was vanilla but doesn't mind being tickled. Trying to work on ways to make her more ticklish.

 

[JUICEBOX]

Up to this point in my life ,..zero relations have even remotely been into tickling of any kind (did i mention past ?)..however presently i,m working on a relationship,.and i never thought i would meet a woman like this,.everything i love to do pertaining to tickling she loves to have done to her,..although distance is a very slight problem as we are not that far apart,..time seems to be a key issue , if we can get over the time hurdle we both got it made.

 

[St. Louie]

Sadly, my S.O. has lost all interest and it seems no amount of open-hearted conversations, discussing or flat out asking is going to change it. I feel bummed that something so simple and innocent is tearing our sexual relationship apart. It's to the point now where I dont think I can enjoy it with her even if she did agree, simply because I think she dislikes it so much or doesn't care that it's important to me. Oh well...I still have my TMF family!!