so I'm thinking about going to a BDSM place

[moose]

has anyone ever been to a place like that? do you think its a good idea? the one close to me I emailed and ask if they do tickle torturing both dominate and submissive and they said yes so should I go?

 

[Fire_Sprite]

If you don't do anything X-rated then you haven't committed any crimes. And unless you're religious there's not really any moral reasons not to go.

It's really up to you. I'm sure taking that first step into that kind of thing would make you apprehensive, but I doubt there will be an consequences.

Although I personally wouldn't pay for a sexual service. Something just seems hollow about it.

 

[Lamashtu]

Are you talking about a fet club. Or going to a dungeon to meet up with a professional? I'm all for the fet clubs, they can be fun (though I'd usually recommend bringing someone with you the first time). As for going to meet up with a professional for a scene, I can't comment as I have no experience with that. Depends on if you wanna spend the dough.

 

[six5]

You should definitely check it out. If it is an idea you have been fantasizing about strongly enough to search and contact them, which generated a positive response, why not go through with it?

Life is too short not to enjoy experiences like this. You shouldn't let the price tag morally discourage you either - there are parts of a fantasy that can be fulfilled at a bdsm place that you simply can't get from talking a friend or significant other into a light tickling session, unless of course you plan on revealing your deepest, darkest fantasies to them.

 

[TKL_Rebel]

i wanted to go with my ex and she was up for it but unfortunately 'we' are no longer....

 

[milagros317]

You should definitely check it out. If it is an idea you have been fantasizing about strongly enough to search and contact them, which generated a positive response, why not go through with it?

Life is too short not to enjoy experiences like this. You shouldn't let the price tag morally discourage you either - there are parts of a fantasy that can be fulfilled at a bdsm place that you simply can't get from talking a friend or significant other into a light tickling session, unless of course you plan on revealing your deepest, darkest fantasies to them.

I agree with this. Try it once to see if it gives you what are seeking.

 

[Libertine]

Younger men should set themselves the (admittedly difficult but possible) task of learning what makes a woman tick so that they can find a girl to play with for free. That way, they'll at least know how to look for what they want, will have many partners, and will save a fortune in the long run because they'll be able to approach a woman successfully. For those of us with minority interests, there are fetish clubs in larger towns, and the internet- before my marriage I met and played with many women this way; a fair few came back for more. And the aftermath is a justifiable feeling of accomplishment.

A willing, enthusiastic girl, even if she's not a stunner, is infinitely superior to a surgically enhanced, heavily made-up 'sex worker' with her eye on your wallet who will forget you the instant you walk out the door, and who doesn't really want you there as a person (as opposed to you as a client) in the first place.

Pros are convenience food, and we all know how healthy that is.