soft tickling vs hard tickling

[TiCKleMaN87]

This may have been posted before and i'm sorry if it has but for the 'lees which tickles you more; hard tickling or soft tickling?

 

[-Hari-]

depends really, some one, some the other and some both, also depends where too, when my girlfriend tickle's me she knows to light on my sides and legs and hard on hips. Switch it round and i don't really react much.

 

[Sleepy Jean]

"Hard tickling" is a contradiction in terms for me. Hard tickling doesn't tickle, it just hurts. If it's hard, it's not tickling.

Love,
Jean

 

[Oddball]

Yeah, I'm not hundred percent sure what you mean by Hard and Soft tickling.

I take it soft tickling would be along the lines of light touches, or soft fabrics (like feathers) are used. I take it hard tickling would be the more frenzied finger prodding types.

If that's the case, as a Lee, I rather enjoy the soft tickling more because it's... well... hmm... it's more pleasent, would be the best way to phrase it. Hard tickling is more for the Ler to enjoy the reactions of loud laughs and lots and lots of squirming. Which is also all sorts of fun.

As a Ler, again, I enjoy softer tickling to hard. Mainly because I enjoy the reactions of soft tickling more then hard. Don't get me wrong though, once that bit of fun is over, I very much enjoy using strong fast fingers to tickle torture lol

 

[terorizer]

If it's hard, it's not tickling.

Love,
Jean

Whoooaaa, what.... oh, you didn't mean it THAT way. Sorry.

 

[-Hari-]

i view hard tickling as when you squeeze the knees or dig into the hips or ribs, i agree it can definatly be OVERdone to the poitn where it does hurt but if the ler does it right and the lee is sensitive in that area then it works, nothing beats the lighter slower more sensitive tickling tho

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

which tickles you more; hard tickling or soft tickling?

Finally! Someone who knows how to ask this question! It has been asked before, but generally as "which do you prefer?". That tends to leave the gold-diggers thinking that the hard tickling is resisted because it tickles more and we don't like it. In reality, for many of us, the hard "tickling" doesn't even tickle. It just hurts. The soft tickling, on the other hand, will drive us out of our minds. Give me soft tickles any day!

 

[Helena]

As a lee, I really love tickling sensations. I want the ler to just drive me nuts, and have discovered that a variety of touches does that job quite nicely.
If a ler's touch is painful because he is using to much pressure, I won't continue.

 

[comandatuba]

"Deep" tickling versus "surface" tickling

To me, alternate phrasing would be "deep tickling versus lighter tickling on the surface of the skin"

For example, I really like deep tickling on my sides and front of my abdoment, squeezing deeply. The "speed" or frequency of the tickle also makes a difference for me. Two or three slow, deep squeezes in a row, and then a few moments of a break, versus sustained, unrelenting deep tickling, are different experiences.

However I also really like lighter, gentler, surface tickling with fingernails under my arms, my ribs, my back, and inner thighs.

Deep tickling while tied up is tickle torture for me, which I thoroughly enjoy.

Gentle, surface tickling for me is more akin to playful foreplay, which I also love.

Depends on the mood and who I am with, I suppose.