Some ways to get into tickling more? Real help for a shy person...

[quiettickler]

As you know all know I love tickling or i wouldn't even be apart of this forum if i was not into. I love it with a passion. But i don't get to tickle many girls that often at all. I have only tickled about a total of 5 or so girls in my life. Really not that many to be honest with you all. I have

been into tickling now for about 1 to 2 years. I'm not the most up beat go getter and conversion piece in the world. I keep more to myself and don't say much to much to many people (expect for my close guy friends and also both my parents and relatives).

And i know tickling is NOT everything. But i would just like to feel more apart of the tickling community as awhole and have more tickling experiences like most of you users do that i see and read do. That's all that's all i ask of. So my shyness and quietness as held me back from alot of things in life (tickling being one of them) i feel. So i really appreciate and care for any kind advice and storys (if your going or have been through the same things as me).



Thanks everybody

God Bless
quiettickler 🙂

 

[sepa]

If you're of a quiet disposition, my advice would be to go to the gym and turn yourself into a carnivorous, beast of a man. I'm 100% serious.

 

[morgandee]

shizuka naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

 

[steph]

Well, you could start by telling us a little more about you hon. A lot of us have national/international connections. "Pacific northwest" is a little vague....😉

 

[quiettickler]

Thank you for everybodys suggestions and tips on here. And also i already work out some what and keep myself looking nice and clean as much as i can.

 

[AphroditeRabbit]

-LAUGHS!!!- Suggestions and tips hmmmm....Well visit here more often and become more comfortable with this place and all walks of life therein. I think the more you are at ease and break out of your shell here, the challenge won't be as great when you do it in your personal life. 🙂

 

[alchemy1]

First here is some advice from Sifu Bruce Lee:

Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.

Action is a highroad to self-confidence and esteem. Where it is open, all energies flow toward it. It comes readily to most people, and it's rewards are tangible.

The doer alone learns.

The inner self is the true self. In order to realize our true self we must be willing to live without being dependent upon the opinion of others. When we are completely self-sufficient we can have no fear of not being esteemed by others.

Here is my advice:

Just like anything in life...just like playing guitar, practicing martial arts, or learning a trade...the more you do it, the easier it gets. The key is TO DO IT.

 

[-Kunoke-]

Hey! I completely sympathize with you bro. I too am from the Pacific Northwest. You are right, not much tickling occurs here. It was very hard for me to find a lee, but when I finally did, I was very happy. Regardless of the fact that lees are scarce, there are girls who will still let you tickle them. When I say lee, I mean girls that are into it and let you do it whenever you what, as much as you want, and like it. Now, I've met maybe 2 or 3 girls who fit that definition, but I know tons of girls that are perfectally willing to let me tickle them.

The thing is, I used to be a shy guy, and I used to be a total closet tickle fetishist. I even refused to post here the first time I came. I must have been around here for months before I ever posted. I definately used to be in your position. I felt really left out from the tickle community.

I did get out of that situation. I am still shy a little, but I'm a lot more outgoing, and I'm comfortable with my fetish. The truth? Well, I found out that girls respect you for being comfortable with your sexuality and being comfortable with sharing it with them in a serious manner, not like some pervert. When I opened up, and let girls read me like an open book, let them find out anything they want to know about me, it's a lot more attractive to them, and they consider it doing me a friendly favor to let me tickle them.

My advice to you.

Keeping to yourself is going to be kind of a turn off to girls sometimes. Let yourself open up and let people get to know the real you. You'll be happy you did. Don't just go around telling people you are into tickling. That is probably the worst move you could make. Like I said, let them find out about you. Consider this. If you have something someone wants....maybe....candy for instance. If you give it all to them up front, they're happy at first, but stop caring fairly quickly. If you give it to them piece by piece, they'll keep coming back for more, extending the time that they are happy.

If people like you, they'll like to do things for you. Take it from me. Girls don't mind doing this kind of stuff if thats what it takes to make you happy. When girls found out I liked it, I started asking if I could tickle them, and they let me, because they know it makes me happy. If I'm happy, they're happy. Mind you not everyone is that nice, but you're bound to find someone like that.

Be more outgoing, play it safe, have fun doing it. Good luck. 🙂