Sometimes I can be shy

[cebu2013]

Ok, title is misleading. I am very shy. I live in Cambodia, where pretty much anything goes. You can get a massage for about 1000 riel (2.50 USD) I have gone quite a few times, and they are good. Every time I get one, the girls obviously can notice I am quite ticklish. I want to just ask them to tickle me. I know how to ask, I do speak a little Khmer. (Ate massage, knoum chak krolake) which means No massage, tickle me. But, I am afraid. Way too shy. Does anyone have advice? Aside from just ask. I know I can just ask. But, Like I said, I am often shy. I have gone the same person a few times. So I was thinking after a few more times and she sees and knows me more it will be a better chance of her doing it. But, how can I get over my fear?

 

[laughingisgood]

I say just ask. What's the worst that will happen? :stickout

But really...learn to say "I like that" or "That's so relaxing" when you do get tickled! Then you can simply ask for more of that! They don't mind, it's the same to them I'm sure.

 

[smyslov]

What is your fear? That they will not tickle you if you ask? That they will laugh at you for asking? Or is it that you fear that you may not be able to handle it if they do tickle you? Or do you fear getting aroused if they tickle you? What is it you fear?

 

[cebu2013]

Yes, being mocked.

 

[MrTicklefeet1]

I use to be like that. But by gum once you cross that threshold of fear the first time, it starts getting easier. They mock you, which I doubt will happen anyway, just stop seeing them and start seeing someone else.

 

[cebu2013]

Thanks for the advice. I went tonight for a massage, and I asked her. She obliged. I have never been tickled like that before. She seemed to have as much fun as I did. I will be going back on Sunday night. 🙂

 

[ianyone]

me too, i dont know how to tickle make laugh?

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

Yes, being mocked.

Cebu2013 - Just so you know you are not alone - there is a whole industry that popped up in Spain to do this very thing:

www.cosquillearte.com

😉