sooooo depressed....

[Eriksmasque]

And I have no idea what to do... lately its just been a circle of anger, bitterness, sadness.... alot of which was brought on by one member here. I'm sick of being upset over this site. Part of me wants to leave but I know i'll just be drawn back to it again. Too many games going on, too much bitterness and resentment,, = ( i'm just sick of whenever I get into a rift with someone here ( I can think of three instances), I try to do the right thing and they do the wrong thing in return. And the " just ignore them" option is not working as an option anymore. Help!! SOMEBODY... ..

 

[kis123]

Ignoring somebody means just that-ignoring them! There are 50000 members on this forum and I'm sure you can find someone who you can trust, respect and build a friendship with. Let it go before it grows into a festering open wound; it's not a healthy way to live. Stop giving people license to control you emotionally; if they steal your personal power, they win and you're left miserable.

I'm concerned about you but you can't keep letting people break your spirit. Either hit the situation full throttle or let it go; stop holding onto it. It's the best advice I can give you and I hope you consider then follow it.

 

[lespieds]

Well as I don't really know many people here, just passing comments or a helping hand or two...

Keep in mind that people are not as exciting as they seem over a web page. I don't know if you know these folks in real life, but if NOT, I think you might be blowing things out of proportion.

What if you met these people and thought "THESE are the ones I was so worried about?"

I don't know who they are so I don't know if they are exciting or not, I am just saying keep things in prespective.

 

[locker669]

...Too many games going on, too much bitterness and resentment,, = ( i'm just sick of whenever I get into a rift with someone here ( I can think of three instances), I try to do the right thing and they do the wrong thing in return...

But isn't posting this the same thing as what you don't like here?

 

[locker669]

But aren't you venting to the people who made you feel this way in the first place?