Switching

[torturoustickle]

I've noticed there are more and more Switches popping up in the world of tickling. Some bad advice and being deathly ticklish meant that I was a late bloomer to switching, though now I embrace it.
However I've always wondered about the switching dynamic.
Loving the more torturous type of tickling I have never actually switched with same person.Well not intentionally anyway. Lol
So my question is ......... how many of you have had a successful switching relationship with the same person?
Beit hardcore or gentler type. And how do you handle slipping out of Ler mode into Lee?
Do you need time or does the thirst for revenge urge you on? Lol.

 

[WickedTouch]

For actual sessions, I think I'd consider all of them successful switching experiences. Even a woman we play with who historically has identified primarily as a ler really likes switching with us. Now admittedly, until very recently we've put more energy into connecting with switches because we prefer to have both experiences, but given that the number of ticklephiles in our area are few and far between, we're just happy to connect with another play partner, switch or not.

Each of the sessions we've had on either end of the switch experience have been fairly hardcore. Between my wife and I, we definitely vary up the intensity depending upon our mood and such, but for sessions with others, everyone so far has preferred high intensity. I think that's because they get into the mindset of, if we're gonna do this, then let's DO this, or something. No complaints by us–We love intensity! 🙂

I'm not sure exactly how to answer your question about how I handle slipping between the roles. It has just come so natural to us that it doesn't feel like there's any real resistance or mental activation energy. In our experiences, everyone we've played with has been a little nervous, shy, or tense about taking a turn as a lee (because, well...you know lol), and everyone has been excited and energized when it's time to be a ler.

 

[torturoustickle]

It's great how you have been able to switch and still keep up the intensity. People who I have played with in the past who are hard core have generally leaned one way or the another.
I get that totally, as not everyone is a switch. However I started to think that I was somewhat of an anomaly.
I'm still looking for my perfect switch match. All the intensity, torturously dishing it out, agonisingly receiving it.
Maybe somewhere out there sighs