Teacher arrested for tickling in UK

[duderino84]

I still think it could become a regular staple of BDSM one day. It'll just take longer for that day to come because of creeps like this.

It seems tho yearly there is some sort of tickle violation horror story for the masses to go "BAD! BAD TICKLER! GO!" At

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

It seems tho yearly there is some sort of tickle violation horror story for the masses to go "BAD! BAD TICKLER! GO!" At

That's true. But it wasn't that long ago that gay marriage was considered a violation. Now it's legal in 17 states. So ya never know.

 

[duderino84]

That's true. But it wasn't that long ago that gay marriage was considered a violation. Now it's legal in 17 states. So ya never know.

The gays never hurt anyone tho really. It's kind of like in another thread I posted in, myriads said I "have no goal" with tickling. Well.....ever think this is a good reason?

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

The gays never hurt anyone tho really. It's kind of like in another thread I posted in, myriads said I "have no goal" with tickling. Well.....ever think this is a good reason?

Well no. That teacher had no reason and no excuse for what he did and pedophiles like him should be put away. I'm just hoping that some people can look past the bad ones and realize that a lot of us aren't that bad. Some people will never accept us like some will never accept homosexuals but their acceptance is slowly increasing and I think one day ours will too.

 

[duderino84]

Well no. That teacher had no reason and no excuse for what he did and pedophiles like him should be put away. I'm just hoping that some people can look past the bad ones and realize that a lot of us aren't that bad. Some people will never accept us like some will never accept homosexuals but their acceptance is slowly increasing and I think one day ours will too.

Look, by all means I hope you are right, but I always find one revealing fact:

This picture, and all it's variations sending the same message to me. That it's wrong to tickle, that it's an unattractive exploitation of another person's want/desire to have "control" of their life, but shows they have lack of raw will to resist it.

I go a solid 3-4 years in between every relationship I have. It's an average of ten girls I find that potentially like me. 5-6 outwardly express they have no tolerance or want to compromise to "enjoy" tickling. Another three try it and either decide it's barely tolerable or they hammed up their enthusiasm to give me benefit of a doubt before shooting me down. Two happen to be crazy, but one is crazy enough to enjoy it. When I say crazy I mean most commonly it's bipolar girls. My recent ex had anxiety issues. Some I have met with depression (diagnosed confirmed and on meds) but they generally have very little commitment.

Because of this, I see no possibility it will be anything other than a confusing, therefore undesirable fetish facet of BDSM. Think about it. You're generally messing with a neurological reaction of a person and requesting they try to enjoy it. They even have "happy" tickling videos and "sad" (dark) tickling videos. You see where I'm going with this, surely.

 

[rhiannon]

This picture, and all it's variations sending the same message to me. That it's wrong to tickle, that it's an unattractive exploitation of another person's want/desire to have "control" of their life, but shows they have lack of raw will to resist it.

Seriously....you guys need to stop being butt-hurt every time someone doesn't like to be tickled! It's nothing personal! There are a lot of people who don't like to be tickled! Liking to be tickled is simply not the norm. But there are people out there who do like it. It's the same damn thing with every other kind of BDSM, and I have never seen any dom who contacted me being insulted or anything like that when I told them pain is not my thing.

Because of this, I see no possibility it will be anything other than a confusing, therefore undesirable fetish facet of BDSM.

Why even make a philosophy out of it? Some people like it, some don't. Like it is with everything in life, starting with spinach! Why care if it becomes part of anything? It is what it is!

You're generally messing with a neurological reaction of a person and requesting they try to enjoy it.

I don't really see the big difference from pain!

 

[duderino84]

Seriously....you guys need to stop being butt-hurt every time someone doesn't like to be tickled! It's nothing personal! There are a lot of people who don't like to be tickled! Liking to be tickled is simply not the norm. But there are people out there who do like it. It's the same damn thing with every other kind of BDSM, and I have never seen any dom who contacted me being insulted or anything like that when I told them pain is not my thing.



Why even make a philosophy out of it? Some people like it, some don't. Like it is with everything in life, starting with spinach! Why care if it becomes part of anything? It is what it is!



I don't really see the big difference from pain!

So being aware of other people's thoughts/perceptions/anticipations regarding a topic like tickling is being butt-hurt? You don't seem to understand, however, that when people expect spanking, and they request it, they know, expect, and desire the sensation coupled with it! With tickling, you feel pain, pleasure, breathlessness, involuntary arousal, bladder reflex, etc. That's a lot that could surprise and turn OFF a person!

I'm not making a philosophy out of anything, I'm simply saying there is a likelihood that it won't be accepted in BDSM, which has been a topic in this thread. Not as far as I'm concerned, anyhow.

I am, however, interested in finding a way to feel less like I have to date dozens of girls who just forget me after one meet to meet one who's worthwhile.

 

[chicago]

I am, however, interested in finding a way to feel less like I have to date dozens of girls who just forget me after one meet to meet one who's worthwhile.

Pretty sure hundreds of millions of people have, do, or will feel this way at some point in their lives, tickling fetish or not. Not to dimminish your frustration but dunno if it warrants much anxiety.

 

[duderino84]

Pretty sure hundreds of millions of people have, do, or will feel this way at some point in their lives, tickling fetish or not. Not to dimminish your frustration but dunno if it warrants much anxiety.

It's a combination of things. Growing up hearing you're always "behind" in life is one of them.

I'm just coming to this realization that I'll be 30 in under 6 months, have no "other" that is significant in any regards, and as the middle child of my family, I'm the only one without "life in order" (decent job, being on any path near marriage).

The tickling is just icing. I still have a whole cake to make.

 

[TMF Jeff]

I'm going to close this thread, guys. It's not about the original topic anymore, and it was never all that thrilling a topic anyway, all things considered. I think what you guys are saying is interesting, and I'd love to see it continue in a thread devoted to that subject. 🙂