Teaching someone to be a better tickler

[drnkntklr]

Do you think this is possible? Or do you think that someone who is not into tickling as a fetish is unable to get better? The reason I ask is because while my girlfriend indulges me in tickling, it's not really her kink. She has her own set of kinks (some of which we share), and is more into those than anything else. When she tickles me I am often left feeling as though she could be better at it. Now, I would hate to simply tell her that she needs to get better without giving her the means or tools to do so. I had considered showing her videos of tickling, and I was told by another TMF member that I should show her how to tickle me, The problem there is that she hates being tickled.

Suggestions?

 

[robmic]

They've got to want to get better. If they just don't have their heart into it, it would be hard.

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

Give her the kind of tickle toys that give you the desired sensation. Have her tickle you and give her feedback on location and intensity of tickling. It might be a tickle vid has a certain bondage method or roleplay or teasing that would also help her 'ler. Did she "teach" you some of her kinks that you now share? It would be a similar process. Assuming, as robmic said, she wants to join you in this particular kink as 'ler only.

 

[drnkntklr]

Thank you guys for the advice. And while I had to learn how to be better at some of her kinks (some of which I ended up really getting into), it wasn't so much of her teaching me as much as me asking her several questiosn about how she liked it so that I could do it "right" I guess.

 

[alex]

Assuming she's eager to learn, try this: Have her tickle you without bondage. Take your hands and move her hands to the spots that work. Give her feedback about everything - is she tickling too hard? not hard enough? And so on. Do this a few times, and she'll be great.