Tell me how you told your partner how to tickle you. Sexy or matter-of-fact...deets!

[TexasTicklin]

I guess I will start this one off.
I told my story in another thread on how we met and what our first tickle encounter was that basically got us "caught." Well, it didn't take long to figure out that he was the 'ler (usually) and I was a very willing 'lee that wanted to please him! He didn't know how much he liked tickling until we started dating. It was like a whole new world of domination for him. 🙂 We were dating seriously within a week or so after the first night tickle at our friend's house. 🙂 (And, yes, that's all it was the first night!)
My plan was to be as sexy as possible while giving my new man this info. Keep in mind that I had a great desire to be tickled, and the ex-husband I had would not participate, nor would any other guy I was in a relationship with, so I really longed for it. I devised a great plan. It was 1998 and AOL was in full swing for us (LOL) and I figured it would be a great tool. Of course, we had just started dating and lived in our own places, but instead of talking on the phone, we kind of got flirty online.
He WANTEDto know how to get me. It was fun to tease him and have him threaten to tie me up and try everywhere. I would be like, "What are you going to do, jump through your monitor?" LOL So after a lot of teasing, I slowly started to give up the spots. I was a little nervous about it, but let me tell you...it was hot! I told him if he nibbled on my neck with his goatee I would be done for, but if he nibbled on my pelvic bones I would scream. He wanted to make me scream! So after more teasing, I gave up my secrets. It was really sexy because there was nothing he could do about it at that moment because we were talking online, so the excitement and anticipation of waiting until we were going to be alone again was killing us. It gave him a LOT of time to think about what he was going to do once he got his hands on me!
Well, ladies and gents, it worked. He did everything I told him about, and then "interrogated" me saying that I didn't give up all of my secrets...which I hadn't...LOL! He got me screamin', cryin', and beggin'. He is mostly dominant, but he likes to change the role, so the next time online, I got all of *his* info. It was so awesome!
I am very blessed to have a partner that understands my needs. They are few and far between...but they are out there.
I am very interested in hearing your stories. Let's keep this thing going until everyone gets a turn!!

 

[TexasTicklin]

Nobody? I thought it was a good topic! LOL

 

[tommytikl]

Hi Texasticklin'

When I am the lee, I will tell people, "go just a bit lower/higher/faster" just because I want to be destroyed and I love the feeling so I want my best spots tickled. I don't say it the whole time, just a points when a slight change would bring a bigger response then I will say something...

As a ler, thought I enjoy exploring a lee, finding her best spots but I don't mind a bit of coaching to tell me a better tactic or place to tickle.

 

[TexasTicklin]

I think I am going to write a story about my experience. Maybe people would like to hear it in detail. I know I like to remember it!!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I don't really say "do this do that." I say "DON'T do this/that" which undoubtedly translates to DO EET. It's part of the crazy neurosis that is my tickling fetish.

 

[Perduabo]

I usually leave it with a coy "do what you will" type of command.

 

[TexasTicklin]

I guess my experience was different because I knew this was going to be a life-long tickle partner...even from the very beginning. 😀

With my previous partner (not the ex-husband that didn't like tickling) I remember saying something like, "whatever you do, NEVER touch me here" and then make a list of a couple of places. He never really indulged me though. 🙁 Prior to my current spouse, the last one and my last long term partner were those guys that just "block it out." I never understood how people could do that. LOL

 

[Gothika]

i let her tickle me anyway she wants i love it all hehehe