I agree with Knox, and also want to add another viewpoint. You need to explore this with people you trust, such as very close friends and/or significant others if any, because someone who is not close to you might not understand you well enough, or "what makes you tick", If you know what I mean. Logic is what's needed here. You need to explain what the fetish is, your enjoyment of it, and what you need out of it. It may not work the best at first, but people who really care about you will usually understand. I hope I'm making sense here. One final thing, and I dont know how you will take this. In the time you've been here, I know you've discussed many times about wanting to mainly be the ler, and hating to be tickled. If you are going to want to have friends, significant others, and what not as the lees, you are probably going to have to be prepared to switch and let them tickle you, too. If you are willing to trade, people might not feel as put off. I dont know if any of this helps. I hope it did. Let us know if it worked. Good Luck
Mitch