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The best AIDS editorial I've ever read.

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This is the best AIDS editorial I've ever read, it applies all over the world, not just to Africa, and the concepts can be applied to most of the ills facing mankind - why all those awareness campaigns don't work:

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The Wisdom We Need to Fight AIDS

By DAVID BROOKS
Published: June 12, 2005

Xai-Xai, Mozambique

There's a church in southern Mozambique that is about 10 yards long, with a tin roof and walls made of sticks. Women gather there to sing and pray and look after the orphans of AIDS victims. When you ask those women and their pastor what they tell people to prevent the spread of AIDS, the first thing they say is that it's important to use condoms.

They also talk about the consequences of unsafe sex. But after a while they slip out of the language of safety and into a different language. They say, "It is easier for those who have been touched by God to accept when a woman says no." They talk about praying for the man who beats his H.I.V.-positive wife, and trying to bring him into the congregation. They have polygamists in their church but say God loves monogamy best.

In the week I've spent traveling around southern Africa, I've been struck by how much technical knowledge we have brought to bear combating AIDS. You give us a problem that can be solved technically - like creating the medicines to treat the disease - and we can perform mighty feats.

The problem is that while treatment is a technical problem, prevention is not. Prevention is about changing behavior. It is getting into the hearts of people in their vulnerable moments - when they are drinking, when they are in the throes of passion - and influencing them to change the behavior that they have not so far changed under the threat of death.

This is a mysterious task. In Mozambique's Gaza province, thousands of kids nursed their parents as they died. And yet, according to those who now care for the orphans, the children are exactly replicating the behaviors that led to their parents' demise. If that experience doesn't change people, what will?

We have tried to change behavior, but we have mostly tried technical means to prevent the spread of AIDS, and these techniques have proved necessary but insufficient.

We have tried awareness, but awareness alone is insufficient. Surveys show that vast majorities understand, at least intellectually, the dangers of H.I.V. They behave in risky ways anyway.

We have issued condoms, but condoms alone are insufficient. Surveys also show that a vast majority know where they can get condoms. But that doesn't mean they actually use them, as rising or stable infection rates demonstrate.

We have tried economic development, but that too is necessary but insufficient. The most aggressive spreaders of the disease are relatively well off. They are miners who have sex with prostitutes and bring the disease home to their wives. They are teachers who trade grades for sex. They are sugar daddies who have sex with 14-year-old girls in exchange for cellphone time.

If this were about offering people the right incentives, we would have solved this problem. But the AIDS crisis has another element, which can be addressed only by some other language - the language those people in church slipped into.

The AIDS crisis is about evil. It's about the small gangs of predatory men who knowingly infect women by the score without a second thought in the world.

The AIDS crisis is about the sanctity of life. It's about people who have come to so undervalue their own life that ruinous behavior seems unimportant and death is accepted fatalistically.

It's about disproportionate suffering. It's about people who commit minor transgressions, or even no transgressions, and suffer consequences too horrible to contemplate. In America we read in the Book of Job; in sub-Saharan Africa they have 10 Jobs per acre.

It's about these and a dozen other things - trust, fear, weakness, traditions, temptation - none of which can be fully addressed by externals. They can be addressed only by the language of ought, by fixing behavior into some relevant set of transcendent ideals and faiths.

That's a language governments and N.G.O.'s rarely speak. It's a language that has to be spoken by people who connect words like "faithful" and "abstinent" to some larger creed. It has to be spoken, in Africa, by people who understand local beliefs about ancestors and the supernatural. It's a language that has to be spoken by an elder, a neighbor, a person who knows your name.

This week in Africa, I've been impressed by the level of medical expertise and depressed by the lack of moral, sociological, psychological and cultural expertise. The most subtle analysis of human nature I heard came in that church made of sticks.

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i sometimes work with AIDS patients~I found this really interesting. More understanding is definitely in order. Thanks for sharing.
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I hate to say it... but this problem might be self-solving eventually. If they spread AIDS fast enough, it will kill them off. I'd hate for it to come to that, but who knows.... this might just be natural selection exhibiting itself in the modern world. Nature creates diseases, and death occurs so that others may live. Granted, Europe basically left most of Africa in shambles after the colonization era. Various corporations also abuse the people in much of sub-Saharan Africa. Diamond companies are some of the worst culprits. Still, repairing these communities seems hopeless at times...
 
I work at a hospital and when I do a shift in the ER I see a lot of AIDS/HIV patients come in and out. I normally hate stereotypes but if I had to generalize here... most of them are people who just don't give much value to life, their own or anyone elses. This attitude is so prevelant in their actions and demeanor. A lot of people get AIDS just because they figure "who cares?", they take their chances whether it be with unprotected sex or with sharing needles for example. They figure that "we all have to go sometime" so they take their risks... and the people that they give HIV too are often the same type of people.

As I said, this is a vast generalization... you do see AIDS in the unfortunate unsuspecting wife/husband or the child who has it transmitted at birth... but these cases tend to be more the exception to the rule. I might be a little jaded given what I see on a day to day basis but... it's what I see. I can't pretend it is any different...
 
I was reading an article about how in america a lot of the people getting HIV these days are women in long term relationships,because when they've been with the guy for a while and get to trust him, the condom comes off. I'm not really sure what to say about this because while you can ask someone to get tested and the like there's no certificate you can look at to make sure they really don't have anything and aren't lying. And of course if you ever got married the condom would come off anyway.
 
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