The best approach for tickling

[newyork07]

Hey, guys. This is my first post.

I'm into tickling and bondage - like, I love to watch it and stuff - but I have actually never participated in it myself. I just don't have the nerve to actually innitiate it. I'm a guy and I'm looking to tickle a girl. I have some female friends, but it just seems too weird for me to approach any of them and be like, "Hey, I wanna tie you up and tickle you." What do you suggest?

Also, have any of you ever tickled a family member, like, seriously? If so, how did you start that off? Thanks.

 

[drew70]

Welcome to the TMF, newyork07.

If you have female friends, I would get alone with one of them, and give her a massage. While she's all relaxed, try very lightly tickling her lower back. The object here is to try and find some level of tickling that she can actually enjoy and by which she doesn't get overwhelmed. When she starts to laugh and squirm, back off, and try again.

By doing this you are teaching her to associate tickling with pleasure, rather than torture and anguish. As time goes on, you can give her more intense tickling, but always backing off if it becomes too much for her. At some point in this process, you can suggest bondage as a safety measure, to keep her from flailing about and injuring herself or you.

The key thing here is trust. If you earn her trust, and never betray it, she may likely let you continue to tie and tickle her. She may even surprise you and begin to ask for it. 😱

 

[maniactickler]

Always use the massage angle first. if that fails, theres always chloroform.

 

[newyork07]

Thanks

Lol, yeah, chloroform. I'll get right on that.

Seriously though, thanks for the advice. I'll start wth the massaging. But what if I'm thinking of tickling a family member? It would seem a little too weird to just start massaging her.

 

[Red Jester]

My ex girlfriend loved the smell of chloroform. It made her weak in the knees.

There's no real advice for your problem. I have a lot of good friends who I'm close with, but I'd never expect any of them to let me tie them up and tickle them regardless of circumstance. Thats the kind of thing you reserve for your significant other. Find a girl who's opened minded and get with her. But don't start requesting awkward things of your friends if you want to keep them.

Then again, if you come across one of your friends in an already vulnerable situation no one will blame you for seizing the moment...

 

[hahohi]

ask the closest one that is the most trustworthy, you don't want her rejecting you AND telling all yr other female friends about it too.

tread carefully but good luck!!

 

[steph]

(shakes her head...) red flag w/the "family member "thing, what's up with that?
XOXO

 

[maniactickler]

(shakes her head...) red flag w/the "family member "thing, what's up with that?
XOXO

Maybe its a distant cousin twice removed.

 

[newyork07]

well...

Uh...actually, no. It's my freaking aunt. She's 40 years old and I have had this fantasy for a long time about tickling her. I'm seriously considering just playfully tickling her the next time we're alone together. If she's not into it at all, I'll stop right away. But if she enjoys it - I have no intention of stopping!

I mean, it's just tickling. I don't want to have sex with her or anything.

 

[steph]

Gotcha, ok, just checking. I'm 40 m'self and judging by the amount of mail, the object of more than a few fantasies We watch our own 'round here, so shoot me....Seriously, have fun and let us know how it goes....
XOXO

Uh...actually, no. It's my freaking aunt. She's 40 years old and I have had this fantasy for a long time about tickling her. I'm seriously considering just playfully tickling her the next time we're alone together. If she's not into it at all, I'll stop right away. But if she enjoys it - I have no intention of stopping!

I mean, it's just tickling. I don't want to have sex with her or anything.

 

[maniactickler]

Uh...actually, no. It's my freaking aunt. She's 40 years old and I have had this fantasy for a long time about tickling her. I'm seriously considering just playfully tickling her the next time we're alone together. If she's not into it at all, I'll stop right away. But if she enjoys it - I have no intention of stopping!

I mean, it's just tickling. I don't want to have sex with her or anything.

If possible, can you video tape the tickling for our viewing pleasure?

 

[newyork07]

maybe

Maybe if I end up tickling her more than once, I'll tape it for you guys. The first time I do it, I want it to be light and easy, just to see if she's into it. If it turns out that she likes it and lets me do it again at a later date, I'll see what I can do about taping it.

And yeah Steph, I'll definitely let you guys know how it goes. Oh, and check your private messages. I sent you one.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Welcome to the forum newyork. I think starting out by giving a massage and then tickling sounds like a very good idea and see what she wants to do then.



😛oke3:

 

[Tissueboy]

Tread carefully

Hmm...I think your chances of getting your aunt to let you tape her being tickled are quite slim...

Just to add my 2 cents, the massage thing is a great way to move towards it, as is lightly tickling their back. Works for me.