The fantastic side of ticklers who are not ticklish

[Diego]

I have experienced this. My ex wife and my new girlfriend. Great sadistic ticklers but unticklish themselves.

The knowledge that you would not get revenge adds to the sadistic aspect of the scenario. Of course I loive the idea of having my revenge, but in my experience this is also nice.
A few days ago I mentioned Ms Raven as a truly sadistic tickler (among the very best) And I heard she is not ticklish herself so this makes her difficult to get

What to dou think?

Best

 

[ticklechambers]

I totally agree 🙂 As a submissive 'lee I also love knowing that my 'ler doesn't share in my weaknesses. It gives him that extra bit of control over me that I can not ever have over him.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i have found that the most effective ticklers, with me as the lee, were themselves ticklish.
but as far as the psychological aspect of it, yeah i can see how that would add to the sceen.

steve

 

[LeatherRebel]

I'm a ler who is not ticklish in the slightest and I wouldn't have it any other way! It's a power I hold over my lees, it gives me such a feeling of control to know that if I was in the position that she is in, it wouldn't be having any effect!

 

[t.bone5863]

One of the appealing aspects of being a 'lee is total surrender. Knowing that the 'ler is not ticklish, and is therefore invulnerable to the same torture, heightens the effect of submission. Very interesting post.

 

[robmic]

I haven't been ticklish for most of my adult life, yet I've been a tickler for much longer. Haven't thought about it much, but I guess if the person I was tickling wanted revenge, they'd be pretty much shit out of luck! 😛

 

[TigerChick22]

most of the people who tickle me aren't ticklish... it does make me feel more vulnerable. it's sad because i love tickle fights, but i know i'm getting the better end of the deal! 😛

 

[NoixdeCoco]

The guy I'm dating now is very ticklish but hes much stronger then me so even when we get into tickle fights he has the upper hand. So I get that thrill of vulnerability and still get the satisfaction of getting a few good tickles in. Win-win lol

 

[ticklechambers]

The guy I'm dating now is very ticklish but hes much stronger then me so even when we get into tickle fights he has the upper hand. So I get that thrill of vulnerability and still get the satisfaction of getting a few good tickles in. Win-win lol

Yeah this is the better end of a deal I agree 😛 My partner is only ticklish in one spot 😛 but i'm not often able to get to it before I collapse underneath his wriggling fingers hehe

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Most lees are putty in my hands...though they try....they never succeed. If you try to tickling me, it won't work, you are going to lose.

 

[Wade]

Somehow I often find that the people who are inclined to tickle me are not themselves ticklish. It adds to the torture insofar as they're throwing you into a battle in which they themselves are invulnerable; you can try to escape or try to defend your vulnerable areas but you can't strike back. There's also an added psychological edge to it too: an acute feeling that your unique vulnerability makes to the weaker (or sillier or inferior) one in this equation. (That's especially pronounced maybe because I'm a guy and usually the people tickling me are women?)

I also find that ticklers who aren't ticklish can be extra merciless thanks to their lack of empathy: they legitimately don't know how intolerable prolonged tickling is, and your reactions to it are so amusing and entertaining and share many of the same signifiers as enjoyment, so they'll subject you to it longer than someone who knows what it's like. I had a gf once who would get her hands on my feet and just drive me around the bend; I can't help but think she might have showed a little more mercy if she'd known what it was like.

 

[milagros317]

I love the idea of woman who is not ticklish herself but enjoys inflicting severe, prolonged tickle torture, preferably on me. The fact that she isn't vulnerable to being tickled herself adds to her dominance.

 

[Diego]

I love the idea of woman who is not ticklish herself but enjoys inflicting severe, prolonged tickle torture, preferably on me. The fact that she isn't vulnerable to being tickled herself adds to her dominance.

Absolutely! I have experienced with ticklish lers and its fantastic to have a sadistic revenge on them, however, as being said here, the invulnerability of an unticklish ticler, plus her methodic sadistic, controlled way of breaking me to pieces is truly fantastic

Besides being a rather strong man, the sensation of loss of control and even fear that I experience when a physically weaker woman carefully brings me to insanity, breaking me little by little is a heavenly experience. Proper bondage proper tickling technique (basically on my feet) and a will to exite me and torture me and break me adds to the attractiveness of any woman

 

[magic fingers]

Man I thought I was the only guy who felt this way. I can't understand all the men on the forum who always say "I don't want anything to do w/a girl if she's not ticklish". For some reason, it's a turn-on for me as a guy(since men stereotypically are supposed to be "dominant.") to be tickle tortured by a cute female who's not ticklish herself. That sense of vulnerability is really a rush. That's why I enjoyed Fightinggirl666's posts so much. Too bad she's not on the forum anymore.

 

[jayson752003]

I'm primarily a "Ler", but I can totally see how being totally tickle destroyed by a non-ticklish female would be very hot. I could for sure get into that.

 

[The_Darkweb]

That can be kind of sexy. Then again there is tease and denial payback lol.

 

[tickletherapist]

One of our tickle therapists Tamara is not ticklish and that's something in it that makes her patients even more helpless 🙂 Tamara is also above 40 years old and the girls who are her patients have that feeling as if they are helpless young girls tickled by an adult strong woman 🙂 That looks so cute.

Here she is as a tickler:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...ickle-therapy-by-Tamara-(faceup-and-facedown)
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...herapy-Irina-standup-tickle-therapy-by-Tamara
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-therapy-Anna-faceup-tickle-therapy-by-Tamara

 

[Aeveirra]

My boyfriend isn't ticklish at all, but LOVES tickling me !
I mean... I like it too, and I'll always ask him to tickle torture me. <3

I actually find it really sad sometimes. Because I'll go to tickle him and it doesn't work... (Duh, I know)
But ill do this to try and get him to do it back to me. He would, but we can't have tickle fights .... which is sort of a bummer.

I DONT understand how someone can not be ticklish. Seriously! I can't imagine what he must feel in place of tickling. Does he just feel my fingers skittering on his skin? if so, How in the world does that not tickle somebody ? I would be a giggling mess in seconds, but he doesn't even smile when I do it!
WHAT KIND OF SORCERY IS THAT?!?

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I DONT understand how someone can not be ticklish. Seriously! I can't imagine what he must feel in place of tickling. Does he just feel my fingers skittering on his skin? if so, How in the world does that not tickle somebody ? I would be a giggling mess in seconds, but he doesn't even smile when I do it!
WHAT KIND OF SORCERY IS THAT?!?

The only way I can describe it is you feel the scratching but it doesn't tickle or it tickles but not enough to make you lose control sort of it someone lightly scratches down the back of your forearm.

 

[piyr]

I wonder if a non-ticklish tickler has more sadist in them than a ticklish tickler? I mean in a weird way, I think my desire to tickle is driven by my connection of pleasure connected to tickling when I was tickle tortured as a kid. Now, maybe subconsciously, I'm motivated by trying to pass on pleasure rather than torture? What other motivation would you have to drive someone insane with tickling if you've never experienced it yourself? I guess my theory doesn't work for a non-ticklish Ler that was once ticklish but isn't now. Eh, enough theorizing. Back to work...

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I wonder if a non-ticklish tickler has more sadist in them than a ticklish tickler? I mean in a weird way, I think my desire to tickle is driven by my connection of pleasure connected to tickling when I was tickle tortured as a kid. Now, maybe subconsciously, I'm motivated by trying to pass on pleasure rather than torture? What other motivation would you have to drive someone insane with tickling if you've never experienced it yourself? I guess my theory doesn't work for a non-ticklish Ler that was once ticklish but isn't now. Eh, enough theorizing. Back to work...

Well a male gynecologist doesn't have a vagina but they still know how not to hurt the patient they are working on. As a full Ler myself I can tell that I study technique on how to make a Lee laugh with tickling even though I am not a switch. Most of the basics ticklish spots are common knowledge any other new ones change from person to person

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I wonder if a non-ticklish tickler has more sadist in them than a ticklish tickler? I mean in a weird way, I think my desire to tickle is driven by my connection of pleasure connected to tickling when I was tickle tortured as a kid. Now, maybe subconsciously, I'm motivated by trying to pass on pleasure rather than torture? What other motivation would you have to drive someone insane with tickling if you've never experienced it yourself? I guess my theory doesn't work for a non-ticklish Ler that was once ticklish but isn't now. Eh, enough theorizing. Back to work...

Oh and yes. I am more sadistic because hearing a female laugh is intoxicating for me. So it fuels my tickling frenzy.

 

[dashboard]

I can't understand all the men on the forum who always say "I don't want anything to do w/a girl if she's not ticklish".

I guess for me personally, it's because I don't get turned on by being tickled. It's not necessarily because I hate it, I just don't really get any enjoyment out of it. I'm primarily a ler who gets turned on by tickling people, so if I was being tickled by someone who wasn't ticklish at all, it would just be a complete turnoff for me knowing that I couldn't get my revenge. Hey, different strokes, ya know?

 

[Wade]

I've been tickled by non-ticklish people on numerous occasions and several of those ticklers displayed a crucial lack of empathy. They had no idea how intense or intolerable the experience of sustained, relentless tickling feels, so they had only my visible, physical reactions to go on -- and of course the visible physical reactions of a ticklish person being tickled are hilarious and entertaining, not to mention you look like you're enjoying yourself.

So I've definitely had some instances where a non-ticklish person pushed me further beyond what I thought I could endure not just because they had a sadistic streak (although maybe that too) but because they had no visceral sense of just how crazy they were making me.

 

[LadyInternet]

I definitely get the appeal. While it's lovely to tickle back, figure out each others' tickle spots, there's something to being tickled by someone that you absolutely cannot get back. That you can tickle their tummy, scritch under their arms... and nothing. It's terribly frustrating, and I agree with the person who said it's almost hard to comprehend what they're feeling. How does this not tickle you silly, I'm wiggling my nails all over your belly! But then when they get you there's a loss of control that there's no way you can tickle them off you. Then they can just take their time tickling and teasing you, and there's nothing you can do about it.