The 'lers in your life.

[toyou444]

I have always been more 'ler than 'lee in my tickling life. Primarily because I am strong enough to fight off most ticklers and it takes a light tickling to get me going and that's hard to do when I am fighting! LOL!

But I DO enjoy being tickled. Both erotically and for fun!

And in my life I've had some wonderful ticklers! From girlfriends to friends.

Lately though I am at a bit of a dry spell...not including my spouse. That is a different kind of tickling!

In my recent history I have had two people who I would call "ticklers". They seemed to take great pleasure in "getting me" whenever the opportunity arose. I "got" them too so it was all in fun. Lately those times have been less and less and I can safely say I haven't be tickled in over six months.

The nice thing is the longer I go between the more ticklish I seem when I DO get tickled again.

The bad thing is I'm starting to feel like I may never get tickled again.

This isn't a pity party! LOL! I was just curious about the 'lers in your life. Do you have people who aren't "into to it" but still are part of your tickling life?

~ toyou

 

[voided9]

I have a few friends I've done it with platonically. I have a friend I met through my tickling facebook who was an older, experienced ler, who tortured me for six hours - he has a special place in my heart! =P My husband is usually my ler and I've got to say, he is perfect. He knows my body so well, he is ruthless, always tickles me without mercy but it always feels sooo good. He teases me relentlessly, he knows which tools work best on me and how/where to use them... he is the perfect ler for me, I am ridiculously lucky to have him!

 

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My husband is my 'ler. I don't think he's really into the whole tickling thing outside of it drives me crazy. Sometimes he calls it "behavior therapy" if I give him a snarky answer. Which I do sometimes just to get him to tickle me. Not that it takes much to get him to do that. Just simply ask him and I'm in ticklish heaven..lol.

 

[toyou444]

I have a few friends I've done it with platonically. I have a friend I met through my tickling facebook who was an older, experienced ler, who tortured me for six hours - he has a special place in my heart! =P My husband is usually my ler and I've got to say, he is perfect. He knows my body so well, he is ruthless, always tickles me without mercy but it always feels sooo good. He teases me relentlessly, he knows which tools work best on me and how/where to use them... he is the perfect ler for me, I am ridiculously lucky to have him!

My spouse is the same. She knows just what to do and when! LOL!

My husband is my 'ler. I don't think he's really into the whole tickling thing outside of it drives me crazy. Sometimes he calls it "behavior therapy" if I give him a snarky answer. Which I do sometimes just to get him to tickle me. Not that it takes much to get him to do that. Just simply ask him and I'm in ticklish heaven..lol.

Excellent! You two are very lucky!

~ toyou

 

[CuteJill143]

There were those in the past who strictly were just for platonic play but I feel that when its with your spouse or significant other its more intimate and sensual. I've actually met the right guy for me & with him its both fun/exciting but also deeply intimate to a point where I no longer crave the platonic type of play from anyone else. I have an amazing balance with him. Hes my best friend and the love of my life =]. I've had guys I've dated not so into it and just did it to humor me which I don't like. I can always tell the difference between somebody truly enjoying tickling play versus the partner trying to humor somebody. I can finally for once say that I am in a relationship with someone who loves both being tickled and tickling as much as I do. As for vanilla guy friend ticklers, none of those experiences really stand out in my mind.
Dry spells are just a part of the lifestyle. Tickling activity for me came and went away many times...sometimes months.

 

[toyou444]

There were those in the past who strictly were just for platonic play but I feel that when its with your spouse or significant other its more intimate and sensual. I've actually met the right guy for me & with him its both fun/exciting but also deeply intimate to a point where I no longer crave the platonic type of play from anyone else. I have an amazing balance with him. Hes my best friend and the love of my life =]. I've had guys I've dated not so into it and just did it to humor me which I don't like. I can always tell the difference between somebody truly enjoying tickling play versus the partner trying to humor somebody. I can finally for once say that I am in a relationship with someone who loves both being tickled and tickling as much as I do. As for vanilla guy friend ticklers, none of those experiences really stand out in my mind.
Dry spells are just a part of the lifestyle. Tickling activity for me came and went away many times...sometimes months.

Congrats! That is a wonderful feeling!

~ toyou

 

[PerfectLove9]

Yes, definitely. i'm constantly at war with my one coworker. We were going at it all night and I had pissed him off, so he waited until I had to take a phone call and then started tickling me. I dropped the phone very loudly. I had to try to brush it off with the customer... Haha. Jerk.