The pot calling the kettle black

[Ticklerguy4u]

Ive have to state my opinion here...

Being a memeber of TMF I have noticed that there are some guys that feel its their duty to acknowledge that fact of some ladies not being "model thin" and that they only like tickle that kind of woman. Which...everyone has a right to their preference.

However,

Should you look to tickle a thin women when your you havent seen your feet in years?

Should you want to tickle a pretty face when you look like someone beat you up with a whole tree full of ugly sticks?

Should you expect a female to go to the gym when your ass-print is embroyered on your couch?

Should you expect a female to diet when you have your own aisle in the food section at the quicki-mart?

It just seem to me that most guys want "hot" when they are "not." I don't know maybe this is something the ladies should speak up with. Next time a guy says lose some weight for me..they should say.."you first, blubber-butt"

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Well spoken, my friend!

 

[Mimi]

It's sad, yes, but it's something you tend to get used to after a while when you're a plus sized girl. Fortunately not all men are like that, so you just need to weed through the dinks to find the gems.

It's not strictly men who do this to women, though. I've known plenty of women who are neither thin nor attractive who expect their men to meet a ridiculous barrage of standards in order to be 'good enough' for them. I just get a kick out of both the women and men who do this and then sit around wondering why they are single.

There is nothing wrong with having standards and preferences, but one should be realistic about their own offerings before demanding near perfection from potential partners.

 

[kered]

Agreeing with Mimi is becoming quite a habit with me.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

ROFL!!! Thanks! I needed the laugh.

 

[Strider]

Well, I happen to like slightly bigger girls, as I'm not particularly attracted to ladies I'm worried I may break in half. That being said, people find attractive what they find attractive; but yes, generally speaking, you shouldn't expect certain things from a partner if you make no effort to meet them yourself.

 

[DannyMc]

It can be very hard to not have what you want or need .

 

[Strider]

It can be very hard to not have what you want or need .

I saw her today, at the reception. A glass of wine, in her hand...

Couldn't resist.

 

[TicklishLurker]

It just seem to me that most guys want "hot" when they are "not." I don't know maybe this is something the ladies should speak up with. Next time a guy says lose some weight for me..they should say.."you first, blubber-butt"

Women aren't as shallow as men. Sorry, but it's the harsh truth. We want a guy who treats us good, is a productive member of society, and doesn't stink/is well groomed.

Men want a 6 foot tall 95 pound woman with DD boobs. (Fake, obviously.)

 

[DannyMc]

Mick has a point " you can't always get what you want , but if you try sometime , you just might find you get what you need "............ I wonder how often this comes along for people ?

 

[4Pawz]

LMAO! okay, Ticklerguy4u & Mimi, I would like both of those printed on a T-shirt

 

[Strider]

Women aren't as shallow as men. Sorry, but it's the harsh truth. We want a guy who treats us good, is a productive member of society, and doesn't stink/is well groomed.

Men want a 6 foot tall 95 pound woman with DD boobs. (Fake, obviously.)

In my experience, that's not true at all. Men are far less picky about who they'll sleep with than women. That rule may not hold as true for relationships, but I will say that when I'm at work, it's not at all unusual to see couples come in where the guy is much better looking and in much better shape than his girlfriend. I've almost never seen it the other way around.

 

[maniactickler]

Well i can safely say i put fabio to shame in the looks department.

 

[Deadsea7777]

LMAO! okay, Ticklerguy4u & Mimi, I would like both of those printed on a T-shirt

"All cats are dark in the dark...."

from the letter of Benjamin Franklin to a young friend on the matter of how to choose a lover, Filadelfia, june 25, 1745.

So who cares?

Sorry Pawz, is not directed at you in particular, but since your avatar is evidently a female cat I thought it fits well.

 

[BellaRisa]

The Female Of The Species Is Far More Deadly Than The Male...

Women aren't as shallow as men. Sorry, but it's the harsh truth. We want a guy who treats us good, is a productive member of society, and doesn't stink/is well groomed.

Men want a 6 foot tall 95 pound woman with DD boobs. (Fake, obviously.)

Oh stop it already. I'm 4'11 and I weigh a good deal more than 95 lbs, and I'm in a happy marriage and a long term D/s relationship. My sweeties love all of me, extra curves and baby stretch marks and all. There are plenty of men who don't need Barbie in their beds to be happy (although I do have the DD's and then some, all natural thank you ) Women can be every bit as shallow and superficial as men if not worse. It may be about his car or his bank account rather than his looks, but that doesn't make it any better. There are plenty of people of either sex who just want a fun, compatible partner who will be good to them, but there are sharks of both genders and we all know it.

Having said that, I absolutely agree with the original poster; there's nothing wrong with wanting a partner to be fit and trim, but you'd better put down the Ben and Jerry's and join me at Bally's or risk a New Balance upside the head; what's good for the slim goose is good for the trim gander .

Bella

 

[911]

I don't think it's wrong to want to be with people different then you at all you want what you want. If your tall do you have to be attracted to other tall people, or if your white is it wrong to want to be with a black person? I know that I wouldn't want to be with a woman who looked anything like me and if that makes me a bad person so be it.So if you are a fat man or woman who likes thin people as far as I see it you owe no one an appology or explanation. You like who you like and if others have a problem with that then tough nuggies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Tamia78]

Ive have to state my opinion here...

Being a memeber of TMF I have noticed that there are some guys that feel its their duty to acknowledge that fact of some ladies not being "model thin" and that they only like tickle that kind of woman. Which...everyone has a right to their preference.

However,

Should you look to tickle a thin women when your you havent seen your feet in years?

Should you want to tickle a pretty face when you look like someone beat you up with a whole tree full of ugly sticks?

Should you expect a female to go to the gym when your ass-print is embroyered on your couch?

Should you expect a female to diet when you have your own aisle in the food section at the quicki-mart?

It just seem to me that most guys want "hot" when they are "not." I don't know maybe this is something the ladies should speak up with. Next time a guy says lose some weight for me..they should say.."you first, blubber-butt"

Once again, I have to side with you on this one. I do understand that people like what they like, and some relationships are great that way. I mean if the person who's a bit larger in the middle never gets any negativity from their skinny counterpart, then obviously it's not an issue, and that's what love is.

I was a part of a dating site for a while, and I would read profile of males who would claim to not care about looks, but in the same breath would list things like "She has to be 5'0-5'7, between 100-130lbs, blonde, and attractive" Um............I'd say they were full of sh*t. And the men themselves were pretty average looking guys, Didn't look like they had seen a gym in about 10 years.


--T

 

[Mz Chaos]

Okay... I'm not sure if thia fits here exactly... but it seems a good a time to rant as any.

I am so sick and tired of being punished or penalized because I'm 5' 10" tall!

Every single boyfriend I have had has had issues when I have wanted to wear a shoe with anything resembling a heel. This absolutely sucks!

Except for my ex-husband, who was my height, every other BF I have had has been at least 2 to 3 inches shorter. This has never bothered me. Obviously. Granted... heels would make me even that much taller but jeez!

Maybe I wanna get a little gussied up once in a while! I heard that heels not only improves a womans posture (I suppose for balancing purposes) but makes her calves look better. Well... hell... I could always use a little improvement. So... I went out and (maybe went a bit to the extreme) bought a couple pairs of 5" stilettoes. Okay... maybe 5" was a bit much but I figured that if 3" heels would improve my posture and make my legs look better... than 5" ought to damn near work miracles!

I'm not sure how well they worked for the improvements I wanted... but it didn't dawn on me til I put them on and had to stoop in front of the bathroom mirror to brush my hair that those damned heels made me 6' 3"!!!

I think they look real good with a skirt but if guys had issues before with my height... this is really gonna go over like a lead balloon!!!

What is it with guys thinking that gals have gotta be shorter or smaller than they are??? What is wrong with being seen with or taking a gal out who is a few inches taller??? I think I clean up fairly well on that odd occasion when I shed my tomboy look and trade my jeans for a skirt... ain't that good enough???

Weight... I can lose (might be a bitch to do, but I can do it). Hair... I can cut, let grow, style, etc. Hell... with plastic surgery... I could have just about any body style and look that I could afford!

But no matter what... I cannot change my height... no matter what I do!

Dammit!!! It just isn't fair!!! The little gals get to wear the sexy shoes and guys go all ga-ga over them... why can't it be the same for us amazons???

 

[scorpionldr]

Women aren't as shallow as men. Sorry, but it's the harsh truth. We want a guy who treats us good, is a productive member of society, and doesn't stink/is well groomed.

Men want a 6 foot tall 95 pound woman with DD boobs. (Fake, obviously.)

oh GIVE IT THE HELL UP. Every girl I talk to today has some weepy "The girl always gets screwed over more than the guy in every relationship" complex that means absolutely nothing to me. And for your information, I could do fine with a 140 pound girl with size D's. Girls are way more picky than I could ever be, and I've went through every type in the book. Even the ones that the average guy (oh, he's a pig all right, isn't he) could look at and say that they're under average I have tried. You want a guy who is a productive member of society? The hell do you want, George Bush? It's not good enough that a guy can be nice to you and take a shower daily?

 

[ticklishscribe]

Rotflamo!!!

Dammit Mz. Chaos I just love every bit of 5' 10" you. I could read your posts all day. What with the way you write, you have to write a tickling story or two. they would be awesome. I'm now wondering that the taller a girl is, does that mean there's more to tickle? 😛

Okay... I'm not sure if thia fits here exactly... but it seems a good a time to rant as any.

I am so sick and tired of being punished or penalized because I'm 5' 10" tall!

Every single boyfriend I have had has had issues when I have wanted to wear a shoe with anything resembling a heel. This absolutely sucks!

Except for my ex-husband, who was my height, every other BF I have had has been at least 2 to 3 inches shorter. This has never bothered me. Obviously. Granted... heels would make me even that much taller but jeez!

Maybe I wanna get a little gussied up once in a while! I heard that heels not only improves a womans posture (I suppose for balancing purposes) but makes her calves look better. Well... hell... I could always use a little improvement. So... I went out and (maybe went a bit to the extreme) bought a couple pairs of 5" stilettoes. Okay... maybe 5" was a bit much but I figured that if 3" heels would improve my posture and make my legs look better... than 5" ought to damn near work miracles!

I'm not sure how well they worked for the improvements I wanted... but it didn't dawn on me til I put them on and had to stoop in front of the bathroom mirror to brush my hair that those damned heels made me 6' 3"!!!

I think they look real good with a skirt but if guys had issues before with my height... this is really gonna go over like a lead balloon!!!

What is it with guys thinking that gals have gotta be shorter or smaller than they are??? What is wrong with being seen with or taking a gal out who is a few inches taller??? I think I clean up fairly well on that odd occasion when I shed my tomboy look and trade my jeans for a skirt... ain't that good enough???

Weight... I can lose (might be a bitch to do, but I can do it). Hair... I can cut, let grow, style, etc. Hell... with plastic surgery... I could have just about any body style and look that I could afford!

But no matter what... I cannot change my height... no matter what I do!

Dammit!!! It just isn't fair!!! The little gals get to wear the sexy shoes and guys go all ga-ga over them... why can't it be the same for us amazons???

 

[SmileyTkls]

I've gotta agree with the folks before me, it's the fat tub with "No Fat Chicks" t-shirt that give guys bad names. Yes, you like what you like, and yes that's your right. However, you don't have to demean women by forcing your perspective and disapproval onto them, esp. when you're probably no prize yourself, one way or another. And Mz Chaos, please, feel free to wear those stilettos anytime at all around me. 😀

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Oh stop it already. I'm 4'11 and I weigh a good deal more than 95 lbs, and I'm in a happy marriage and a long term D/s relationship. My sweeties love all of me, extra curves and baby stretch marks and all. There are plenty of men who don't need Barbie in their beds to be happy (although I do have the DD's and then some, all natural thank you ) Women can be every bit as shallow and superficial as men if not worse.

Bella

Now, Bella, what I'd like you to do is turn around, and give this masterful speech of yours to the wall in your computer room. Did it at all pay attention?

Giving this testimony to the above member will (given the track record), have the same effect, no?

What's the point anymore?

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Well i can safely say i put fabio to shame in the looks department.

I would imagine so! Everyone assumed that the opposite sex would be kinda put off by the bolts...and the green pallor...

 

[kered]

Okay... I'm not sure if thia fits here exactly... but it seems a good a time to rant as any.

I am so sick and tired of being punished or penalized because I'm 5' 10" tall!

Every single boyfriend I have had has had issues when I have wanted to wear a shoe with anything resembling a heel. This absolutely sucks!

Except for my ex-husband, who was my height, every other BF I have had has been at least 2 to 3 inches shorter. This has never bothered me. Obviously. Granted... heels would make me even that much taller but jeez!

Maybe I wanna get a little gussied up once in a while! I heard that heels not only improves a womans posture (I suppose for balancing purposes) but makes her calves look better. Well... hell... I could always use a little improvement. So... I went out and (maybe went a bit to the extreme) bought a couple pairs of 5" stilettoes. Okay... maybe 5" was a bit much but I figured that if 3" heels would improve my posture and make my legs look better... than 5" ought to damn near work miracles!

I'm not sure how well they worked for the improvements I wanted... but it didn't dawn on me til I put them on and had to stoop in front of the bathroom mirror to brush my hair that those damned heels made me 6' 3"!!!

I think they look real good with a skirt but if guys had issues before with my height... this is really gonna go over like a lead balloon!!!

What is it with guys thinking that gals have gotta be shorter or smaller than they are??? What is wrong with being seen with or taking a gal out who is a few inches taller??? I think I clean up fairly well on that odd occasion when I shed my tomboy look and trade my jeans for a skirt... ain't that good enough???

Weight... I can lose (might be a bitch to do, but I can do it). Hair... I can cut, let grow, style, etc. Hell... with plastic surgery... I could have just about any body style and look that I could afford!

But no matter what... I cannot change my height... no matter what I do!

Dammit!!! It just isn't fair!!! The little gals get to wear the sexy shoes and guys go all ga-ga over them... why can't it be the same for us amazons???

Your height doesn't bother me..............................Shorty. 🙄

 

[kis123]

Girl, you've got to get out more!!

Okay... I'm not sure if thia fits here exactly... but it seems a good a time to rant as any.

I am so sick and tired of being punished or penalized because I'm 5' 10" tall!

Every single boyfriend I have had has had issues when I have wanted to wear a shoe with anything resembling a heel. This absolutely sucks!

Except for my ex-husband, who was my height, every other BF I have had has been at least 2 to 3 inches shorter. This has never bothered me. Obviously. Granted... heels would make me even that much taller but jeez!

Maybe I wanna get a little gussied up once in a while! I heard that heels not only improves a womans posture (I suppose for balancing purposes) but makes her calves look better. Well... hell... I could always use a little improvement. So... I went out and (maybe went a bit to the extreme) bought a couple pairs of 5" stilettoes. Okay... maybe 5" was a bit much but I figured that if 3" heels would improve my posture and make my legs look better... than 5" ought to damn near work miracles!

I'm not sure how well they worked for the improvements I wanted... but it didn't dawn on me til I put them on and had to stoop in front of the bathroom mirror to brush my hair that those damned heels made me 6' 3"!!!

I think they look real good with a skirt but if guys had issues before with my height... this is really gonna go over like a lead balloon!!!

What is it with guys thinking that gals have gotta be shorter or smaller than they are??? What is wrong with being seen with or taking a gal out who is a few inches taller??? I think I clean up fairly well on that odd occasion when I shed my tomboy look and trade my jeans for a skirt... ain't that good enough???

Weight... I can lose (might be a bitch to do, but I can do it). Hair... I can cut, let grow, style, etc. Hell... with plastic surgery... I could have just about any body style and look that I could afford!

But no matter what... I cannot change my height... no matter what I do!

Dammit!!! It just isn't fair!!! The little gals get to wear the sexy shoes and guys go all ga-ga over them... why can't it be the same for us amazons???

My daughter stands 5'11" in her bare feet. Her dad is short (we still haven't figured out how we managed this one). She likes basketball players (I guess natural since she's one). She will not consider short guys mostly her father is short and she doesn't want to marry her father. I told her don't look for the "look" but watch out for the personality.

I know a lot of shorter guys who would love to have you on their arm. I had one tell me that tall women were like ladders and would have no problem climbing to get what they wanted! Believe me it was just a joke.

There are a lot of women that would love to have a few extra inches of height on them; me being one of them at 5'4" could use about 3" Then we'd both be 5'7"-what a deal!!