The secret truth to relationships?

[duderino84]

A bit of raw truth

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5cf1b9a5d7b9e

For all that can't bear the comical nature, skip to 6:46 or so....

Thrills are thrills, but recognizing the reflex and taking heed to how it's reacted to is the downfall of many of us trying our best to make it in this kinky world. Those of us that get smart don't end up with divorce or breakups...

 

[Comfort Eagle]

This is fake.

But more to what appears to be your actual point, I'd think that's more a lesson in trying to downplay as tickle fetish stuff as an aspect of sexual activity. I think a lot go people go with one of two options; go completely off the fucking wall with it and be "teekly teekle lemme teekle your feetsies 😀", or completely deny it's a sexual kink altogether and try to "sneak" it in a relationship later. Both are bad.

 

[duderino84]

This is fake.

But more to what appears to be your actual point, I'd think that's more a lesson in trying to downplay as tickle fetish stuff as an aspect of sexual activity. I think a lot go people go with one of two options; go completely off the fucking wall with it and be "teekly teekle lemme teekle your feetsies 😀", or completely deny it's a sexual kink altogether and try to "sneak" it in a relationship later. Both are bad.

Up until now I've been the kind of guy that would basically go "ya, look, I'm going to tickle you." And then maybe out of nowhere I'll give a little sample to see how surprised they get by it. But I've been kind of stepping away from it because it just isn't as exciting as it used to be. But I've had the "well you're laughing right? You don't sound unhappy." Approach. And I get pornhub stuff might be fake but if it on the off chance weren't, I wouldn't want to get to the point that I ignore reflexology.

It just sounds like most guys that post "I can't find anyone to tickle!" Are either looking at the wrong ones or using the wrong skills. And I think not getting enveloped in the ideal of "someone you can torture" is an important part of it.

 

[Wolf]

Up until now I've been the kind of guy that would basically go "ya, look, I'm going to tickle you." And then maybe out of nowhere I'll give a little sample to see how surprised they get by it. But I've been kind of stepping away from it because it just isn't as exciting as it used to be. But I've had the "well you're laughing right? You don't sound unhappy." Approach. And I get pornhub stuff might be fake but if it on the off chance weren't, I wouldn't want to get to the point that I ignore reflexology.

It just sounds like most guys that post "I can't find anyone to tickle!" Are either looking at the wrong ones or using the wrong skills. And I think not getting enveloped in the ideal of "someone you can torture" is an important part of it.

Very much, this.

Once people (guys, really, especially the ones bleating about "no one to tickle") start looking at it as something to share with someone else, rather than something to inflict on someone else, they'd have a lot more success.

 

[The Internet]

That video made me laugh, thanks for posting it, hadn't seen that. But Comfort Eagle's impression of a tickle freak going "completely off the wall" made me laugh so hard, I thought my eyes were going to fall out of my face. In fact.... I'm afraid to look at it again! I know it wasn't your intent, C.E., but thanks for the endorphin rush. 😉