I didn't accuse you of "trickery", but if you want to go that route:
What do you call it when someone takes advantage of a professional service that is not geared towards sexual pleasure to give them sexual pleasure, unbeknownst to the person providing the service, not only without their consent, but after making "fun, inoffensive, non-threatening" indication to them that it wasn't?
Before anyone starts shrieking, no...you don't need a signed consent form to fool around, even with a relative stranger.
But you do need consent, and even that can be situational.
What do you call it when someone takes advantage of a professional service that is not geared towards sexual pleasure to give them sexual pleasure, unbeknownst to the person providing the service, not only without their consent, but after making "fun, inoffensive, non-threatening" indication to them that it wasn't?
Before anyone starts shrieking, no...you don't need a signed consent form to fool around, even with a relative stranger.
But you do need consent, and even that can be situational.