The Trifecta

[Pghtkltorture]

So I have the fetish trifecta. Tickling/feet/bdsm.


I did when I meet someone of the opposite sex (despite being attracted to them or not) I tend to immediately categorize them as someone I would either like to be submissive to or someone who I would like to dominate. Does anyone else do this? For those of you who are switches but not necessarily into bdsm do you immediately think Lee/Ler?

Discuss

 

[shippyshippy]

People I have a crush on? Sure. Random strangers? No.

 

[Pghtkltorture]

People I have a crush on? Sure. Random strangers? No.

I wouldn't say I do this with strangers,
But I would say once a person becomes an acquaintance, coworker, friend. Basically anyone I've spent any amount of time with.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Ah yes, most of the time. And now that bare midriff season is upon us, it gets worse, but I still enjoy the fantasies of a life gone by that I'm not practicing anymore.

 

[gluestick]

yes i definitely do this. usually once i get to know a person after maybe just an introductory meeting the wheels start spinning. it sort of spans the spectrum of friends, gfs of friends, acquaintances, and work colleagues. after just a casual conversation i can drop them into a fantasy, with their personality dictating whether they are a ler or lee. one of my current crushes is a work colleague. i imagine being kidnapped along side her at a conference and the kidnappers out my fetish to her by tickling us both and making me tell her everything

 

[Pghtkltorture]

What I find interesting is that there doesn't seem to be any sort in consistency (with a few exceptions) in what types of women go which direction.

 

[gluestick]

some types are easier to pigeonhole than others...like if someone is soft-spoken or shy its tough to make them a ler. professional women can go either way with me, because its either them taking charge a a ler or having them scandalized that they're being used as a tickle toy and broken down from their reservations

What I find interesting is that there doesn't seem to be any sort in consistency (with a few exceptions) in what types of women go which direction.

 

[Wolf]

What I find interesting is that there doesn't seem to be any sort in consistency (with a few exceptions) in what types of women go which direction.

Maybe because most people are rarely just one thing or another?

 

[Pghtkltorture]

Maybe because most people are rarely just one thing or another?

Of course. But you would think from a fantasy standpoint there might be some consistency with certain personality characteristics, physical attributes, etc

 

[Wolf]

Of course. But you would think from a fantasy standpoint there might be some consistency with certain personality characteristics, physical attributes, etc

From a fantasy standpoint? You mean...not reality?

 

[Pghtkltorture]

From a fantasy standpoint? You mean...not reality?

Correct. Maybe that wasn't clear in the original thread. I meant like after you start a relationship (whether that be an acquaintance, friend, coworker, etc) that you automatically think of them as someone you want to Lee/Ler, dominate or be dominated by etc.

I wasn't thinking like actually getting to do that stuff necessarily.

 

[shad0w]

In that case, yeah. All The time.