This is a follow-up to the "fabulous woman i was lucky enough to meet" thread in the images section.
honestly, the only reason i'm telling this is not to brag about my eventual good fortune, but as a response to an initial thread here that i saw about the question: "can tickling ruin a marriage?"
my answer is yes, it can.
i was married to a woman for 25 yrs. 2 years before we married, i let her know COMPLETELY about my tickling "fetish". i didn't hide anything. she made me think that she accepted it and would be into it WITH me.
at first, (before we were married, and then for a short time after) she made an attempt (though lame) to "get into it" which i showed great appreciation for. and then, very gradually, it became clear that she had deceived me and this was something she would NOT allow in any way, much less do as she said she would to "get into it". this process was slow and took many years.
eventually she divorced me, not over the issue of tickling in any way. BUT, her deception and consequent behavior towards me lead to sexual resentment on my part. i tried everything including an attempt to deny and get rid of my own sexual preferences toward tickling, even though we had talked about it waaaaay before marriage. MY behavior towards HER changed, and we wound up very slowly divorced after 25 yrs.
... ...
at the tail end of a no-turning-back divorce initiated by my ex, i went onto a dating site and by sheer chance, struck up a conversation with a fascinating and very open-minded woman. we talked about many things, other than tickling, for quite a while and just enjoyed getting to know each other. eventually, i raised the subject. she seemed intrigued and we talked some more about it over time.
she began, without even telling me, doing research (here on the TMF, amongst other places) and found out a LOT about the tickling world. completely on her own.
She THREW herself into it without my coaxing in any way. (along with this, i have listened very carefully to her desires and have tried to reciprocate.)
we had begun to make plans to meet.
we met this last weekend at a hotel and she showed up with a traveling (straps under the bed, four cuffs) bondage device. she strapped me down for two hours (the first time) and completely, and lovingly tickle tortured me, feet and upper body. two hours. she laughed as much as i did.
(she's a licenced practical nurse and, instead of using baby oil on my feet, she made up a recipe of some sort of slippery stuff which was even worse than baby oil.)
she tickled the shit out of me. she used feathers, her fingers and a f___ing vibrator on my feet. she strapped me down again for another hour later on. she was laughing (at me) and completely enjoying it...not having had ANY experience of this before.
during our play together, i tried tickling her several times and she insisted that she was not ticklish, that it just sort of felt "irritating". i finally got HER strapped down, (only with her consent...she's reading this🙂 used HER recipe and the vibrator on HER feet, and she went ape-shit. she IS ticklish 🙂
i was extremely lucky to have met HER but, the point again...there IS HOPE OUT THERE ... DON'T GIVE UP!!
honestly, the only reason i'm telling this is not to brag about my eventual good fortune, but as a response to an initial thread here that i saw about the question: "can tickling ruin a marriage?"
my answer is yes, it can.
i was married to a woman for 25 yrs. 2 years before we married, i let her know COMPLETELY about my tickling "fetish". i didn't hide anything. she made me think that she accepted it and would be into it WITH me.
at first, (before we were married, and then for a short time after) she made an attempt (though lame) to "get into it" which i showed great appreciation for. and then, very gradually, it became clear that she had deceived me and this was something she would NOT allow in any way, much less do as she said she would to "get into it". this process was slow and took many years.
eventually she divorced me, not over the issue of tickling in any way. BUT, her deception and consequent behavior towards me lead to sexual resentment on my part. i tried everything including an attempt to deny and get rid of my own sexual preferences toward tickling, even though we had talked about it waaaaay before marriage. MY behavior towards HER changed, and we wound up very slowly divorced after 25 yrs.
... ...
at the tail end of a no-turning-back divorce initiated by my ex, i went onto a dating site and by sheer chance, struck up a conversation with a fascinating and very open-minded woman. we talked about many things, other than tickling, for quite a while and just enjoyed getting to know each other. eventually, i raised the subject. she seemed intrigued and we talked some more about it over time.
she began, without even telling me, doing research (here on the TMF, amongst other places) and found out a LOT about the tickling world. completely on her own.
She THREW herself into it without my coaxing in any way. (along with this, i have listened very carefully to her desires and have tried to reciprocate.)
we had begun to make plans to meet.
we met this last weekend at a hotel and she showed up with a traveling (straps under the bed, four cuffs) bondage device. she strapped me down for two hours (the first time) and completely, and lovingly tickle tortured me, feet and upper body. two hours. she laughed as much as i did.
(she's a licenced practical nurse and, instead of using baby oil on my feet, she made up a recipe of some sort of slippery stuff which was even worse than baby oil.)
she tickled the shit out of me. she used feathers, her fingers and a f___ing vibrator on my feet. she strapped me down again for another hour later on. she was laughing (at me) and completely enjoying it...not having had ANY experience of this before.
during our play together, i tried tickling her several times and she insisted that she was not ticklish, that it just sort of felt "irritating". i finally got HER strapped down, (only with her consent...she's reading this🙂 used HER recipe and the vibrator on HER feet, and she went ape-shit. she IS ticklish 🙂
i was extremely lucky to have met HER but, the point again...there IS HOPE OUT THERE ... DON'T GIVE UP!!
