things might be looking up..

[Mastertank1]

A little technique called positive reinforcement...

If there is anything you can do for David that he really, really likes, but you don't do it that often because it's either really difficult or takes a lot of effort; soon, while it can still be linked to the tickle, do that thing for him and let him know it's an expression of appreciation/gratitude for the tickling he gave you.

Just to reinforce the idea that the tickling was good thing, and how much you enjoy it. You might also mention that the fact that he did it without being asked made it even more special/sweeter for you, and that he is really the one person you prefer to get tickled by.

That kind of encouragement should make a positive impression on his memory, and lead to repetitions of the incident!

Good luck, you sweet little creature you.

Mastertank1

We who play and dance are thought mad by they who hear no music.

 

[isabeau]

kwildoctor, thanks i will definitely keep that in mind

ticklesaurus, thanks hon..

Mastertank, thank you so much for those kind words, and i will offer to do something he likes..

 

[knight]

i will offer to do something he likes..

Don't forget to let him know how much you liked and appreciated it. If he knows that, I think he'd be much more likely to do it again.

 

[chrisheaven]

great news----love, Chris

 

[isabeau]

great news----love, Chris

hey cutie.. thanks. nice to see you back..

 

[chrisheaven]

hope it all goes well onthe ticklingfront

 

[Lionhart]

Dreams can come true after all.. lol And of course we won't ask about the juicy events that transpired thereafter.. ;-) Here's to the greater tickles that lie ahead.. *sips from my water bottle*

 

[unit5610]

Congratulations Melanie...must be so great to actually be tickled at home by your husband after all these years...great way to spice up a marriage! I hope the trend continues!

 

[isabeau]

thanks guys..good things do come to those that wait. maybe i should have left out the nude part lolol sorry.. tisn't like me to be sooooooooooooo open about that. 😱

 

[kered]

thanks guys..good things do come to those that wait. maybe i should have left out the nude part lolol sorry.. tisn't like me to be sooooooooooooo open about that. 😱

Don't worry about the nude part, Izzy. I'm sure no one even noticed that.

 

[isabeau]

Don't worry about the nude part, Izzy. I'm sure no one even noticed that.

lolol well someone did.. and i apologize for giving out too much tmi..

 

[sparkybdj]

thats asewome Is!!!!!!!!! looks like hes warmin up to this, hope so for ya!!!

well, last night was maybe the start of something between hubby and myself. i asked him, very sweetly, for some back scratches, which i love. so i took off my nightie, which um left me nude, and lay on the couch face down. he preceeded to scratch my back, from the shoulders down to the butt and back up.. well suddenly he moves his fingers from my bottom down my left and right leg, tickling as he goes. i squealed and said "hey your supposed to be scratching" and i began giggling and squirming. i had no idea my butt and the backs of my legs were soo ticklish.. he kept this up, moving his hands up to my sides and tickling there, with me giggling and trying to protect myself. he even taunted by saying "i thought you wanted this" wow.. and he would move his hands around to my front and tickle my stomach.. he kept trying to get his fingers under my arms, but i kept them tightly pressed against my sides, but he snuck in there anyway.. this must have lasted about ten minutes. me giggling and squealing, and him saying over and over "i thought you wanted this" it was terrific..i never realized just how ticklish i am just about everywhere. i was disappointed when he quit, but i could tell he liked it. and given the fact it was totally unexpected on my part made it so much fun. who knows, maybe this might happen more often. so then i went and sat on his lap and cuddled for a bit.

 

[isabeau]

thats asewome Is!!!!!!!!! looks like hes warmin up to this, hope so for ya!!!

thanks sparky.. you long haired hunk you lol.. yes i also hope things are warming up for us both..

 

[Knox The Hatter]

and given the fact it was totally unexpected on my part made it so much fun.

Well, yes...it's the unexpected stuff that's the most fun, the sheer surprise of it all!

 

[Illtcklu]

thanks guys..good things do come to those that wait. maybe i should have left out the nude part lolol sorry.. tisn't like me to be sooooooooooooo open about that. 😱

I'm always naked at the computer .......................... was that TMI? 😱

 

[isabeau]

I'm always naked at the computer .......................... was that TMI? 😱

omg lolol yesssssssssssss way too much tmi

Knox yes that is soo true.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

Izzy dear...no one has said it yet (least, i don't think anyone has), but.... 'BOUT TIME! maybe a few weeks from now the hubby will be a lurker in the forum and will get inspiration. *crossing fingers*

 

[ticklishscribe]

Old tickler's proverb:

A thousand stroke tickle, begins with one finger. I hope you get those everyday Isabeau, as you certainly deserve them.

well, last night was maybe the start of something between hubby and myself. i asked him, very sweetly, for some back scratches, which i love. so i took off my nightie, which um left me nude, and lay on the couch face down. he preceeded to scratch my back, from the shoulders down to the butt and back up.. well suddenly he moves his fingers from my bottom down my left and right leg, tickling as he goes. i squealed and said "hey your supposed to be scratching" and i began giggling and squirming. i had no idea my butt and the backs of my legs were soo ticklish.. he kept this up, moving his hands up to my sides and tickling there, with me giggling and trying to protect myself. he even taunted by saying "i thought you wanted this" wow.. and he would move his hands around to my front and tickle my stomach.. he kept trying to get his fingers under my arms, but i kept them tightly pressed against my sides, but he snuck in there anyway.. this must have lasted about ten minutes. me giggling and squealing, and him saying over and over "i thought you wanted this" it was terrific..i never realized just how ticklish i am just about everywhere. i was disappointed when he quit, but i could tell he liked it. and given the fact it was totally unexpected on my part made it so much fun. who knows, maybe this might happen more often. so then i went and sat on his lap and cuddled for a bit.

 

[isabeau]

Izzy dear...no one has said it yet (least, i don't think anyone has), but.... 'BOUT TIME! maybe a few weeks from now the hubby will be a lurker in the forum and will get inspiration. *crossing fingers*

yikessssssssss cloudgazer..he better not be a lurker, there are a few certain stories i wrote that well, uh, let's just say i do not want him reading. lol.. he would really think i was a pervert then..

thanks Ticklishscribe xoxo

 

[Em Es]

Never say never, right?

Isabeau, it always drives me crazy when I hear about female tickling enthusiasts whose husbands/boyfriends don't understand. So how cool to read about your husband's little surprise. Maybe he will start making up for lost time!

 

[jd58]

lucky girl

 

[Illtcklu]

lucky girl

Ahem...........................LUCKY GUY!!!!

 

[isabeau]

Isabeau, it always drives me crazy when I hear about female tickling enthusiasts whose husbands/boyfriends don't understand. So how cool to read about your husband's little surprise. Maybe he will start making up for lost time!

thanks Em, it's a start anyhow.. i'm afraid i was less than discreet in rehashing the story.. o well.. sighs.

jd thanks hon

 

[knight]

Ahem...........................LUCKY GUY!!!!

Hear hear! Lucky, lucky stiff.

 

[Em Es]

Less than discreet?

Isabeau, why do you say you were "less than discreet in rehashing the story?" Did someone object to the details you shared?