My wonderful wife knows exactly how to use tickling to influence my behavior. Yesterday she was patiently waiting for me in the car at the end of the work day while i was still in the office. Finally she sent me a text, and I quote, "if you leave now I'll let you tickle me." I was out of the office and in the parking lot heading for her in record time! I may be the ler and she the lee but who is controlling who here? Clever woman. 






