I've seen this thread growing for a while but nothing seems to be happening here. That's because as usually happens with these threads, no one seems to be actually taking charge and just setting this up.
For everyone still checking this thread, I invite you to come to my next munch in NYC. We had 19 people come out this time, so we already are getting a good-sized crowd. Its not officially a gathering, but its at a lounge that's very private and assuming no one else is around to bother, may permit a little light play, assuming it is consensual between all parties involved.
Look for information in this section as well as tk disc and gen disc on the next munch, which should be sometime in mid November. I'll post the info when the dates are set.