Tickle Virgin Totally frustrated!

[natural tickler]

OH MY GOD...what an extremely EXTREMELY REFRESHING attitude from someone on here. Shynvegas, i have much more respect for you now. Cant say that about some members/mods here. Keep up the good work and that positive attitude, use BOTH the fluffy posts AND the critical posts to your advantage, and you will get to live out your fantasy soon enough.

now I remember where I got my sarcastic side from.... 😱

 

[ticklishscribe]

Would love to live in Steph's back yard...

I would be within easy reach of those feet.

I've got the restraints Steph, when are you comming?

LOL!
No apology necessary Shy...

I didn't enter the scene until late 30s...I read everyone's posts when I first got here and made a comment something to the extent of, "Well, I'm SURE there's no one in my crappy-ass conservative area..." Imagine my surprise when moderator Dave (dvnc) told me, "Au contraire..." Little did I know that some of NEST's biggest planners lived almost right in my backyard! I couldn't beleive my luck(thousands of miles from Philly and hundreds of miles from L.A.!) Best of all, they're GREAT folks~after awhile I began to meet others too!
I am now convinced the scene is findable wherever you are, but ya GOTTA MAKE SOME NOISE FRIENDS!
XOXO

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Make Your Dream Come True

Well , I'll admit ... tickling is a frustrating thing to love because you almost always need someone else w/you to fully enjoy it. I'm assuming that's why most of us frequent this forum ... we all love tickling so much & we can't get enough of it & when we get here we find so many others who share the same love & passion for our favorite subject. ShyNVegas , I'm glad you decided to kind of "de-lurkify" & share w/us your thoughts. I think a gathering would be a great way to break yourself in. One of these days , you gotta just go for it ... 'cause I've done the 'being frustrated' thing & believe me , I know ... it sucks. But you're gonna have to find that something in you that wants to experience tickling so bad , get over that shyness , & take that plunge. If you're anything like me , you'll be soooooo glad you finally did. Like dtrell said ... life is too short. If tickling is what you love & not being a part of it is causing you to be frustrated & maybe even a little bit depressed , then you owe it to yourself to do every thing you can to experience it somehow ( a gathering maybe ) ... 'cause most likely , no one is going to do it for you. Good luck!!!

 

[dtrell]

now I remember where I got my sarcastic side from.... 😱

NT, you know you didnt get that from me brother....youve done a great job of cultivating your own sarcasm...LOL

 

[isabeau]

dtrell has a sarcasm uniquely his own. and shy dont apologize. i also live somewhere that isnt a bountiful with tickling groups or anything like that. and i am also a tickle virgin. and older than yourself. and somewhat shy about these things. so take heart plenty of us here are just like yourself. and keep posting, its fun

isabeau

 

[Soda Bobinski]

...... and i am also a tickle virgin. and older than yourself. and somewhat shy about these things .........

isabeau

Well , we're just gonna have to do something about that .... won't we , darlin'?

 

[elfriend]

Again, please try to bear with me here. I've been mostly lurking on this community for a long time now, and the warmth and support you all tend to show each other is helping me a great deal with trying to relax with all of this, and not be so afraid. But after so many years of keeping it a secret, its just taking a little time.

It's tough when you come to terms about something that you feel is weird and different. Don't feel to weird about it though I don't think it should something you should feel shy or weird about at all. It's hard at first but after awhile it will be more comfortorable for you. The forum is a great place to start and it is tough but it will get easier for you.

 

[isabeau]

Well , we're just gonna have to do something about that .... won't we , darlin'?

you bet TKLMAN looking out my front door now. nope no one in sight waaaaa

isabeau

 

[Soda Bobinski]

you bet TKLMAN looking out my front door now. nope no one in sight waaaaa

isabeau

Soon , my dear. Soon ...................

 

[Storm_Cat]

Wow, guys! I sure didn't mean to stir stuff up.. I'm really sorry. Thank you to all of you who have responded to me, even if it is critism. I'm trying to take everything thats been said constructively. Yes, I DO tend to keep making excuses.. but please understand, I'm very much in the closet with this. I'm just over 30 years old, and I only started admitting to my interest in tickling on this forum, since I found it. Its still something I'm struggling with. All my life I've kept it a big secret and I felt like I was a freak or something was wrong with me. I'm still coming to terms with even just *talking* about it, so its a tremendous step to cross the barrier from just talking, and finally acting on it some day. Getting to LA would be a real task for me. Driving would be out of the question- at best I would have to catch a Grayhound bus or something. I don't think I'm ready to invest myself so completely by taking a trip to attend a gathering.. not yet. Not when I haven't even experienced it firsthand yet. A gathering thats local to me, there's a much better possibilty. I was only hoping and speculating. I'm really sorry I got some of you so riled up.

And to answer the question posed before- yes, I'm female.

Again, please try to bear with me here. I've been mostly lurking on this community for a long time now, and the warmth and support you all tend to show each other is helping me a great deal with trying to relax with all of this, and not be so afraid. But after so many years of keeping it a secret, its just taking a little time.

prolly a bit late here, but I needed to say this ... this is something we ( I ) don't talk about to just anybody ! it's still largely mis-understood by mainstream, vanilla, society. therefore I can understand Shy's feelings 100%.

just my 1/2 cent .. 🙂

 

[tkl-pen]

What a great place, though, for a gathering - there are all kinds of hotels and facilities in Las Vegas - I have never been to a gathering either but I would be willing to drive the 21 hours to get there from Calgary, or to fly using one of the many airlines operating from here.

 

[isabeau]

Soon , my dear. Soon ...................

i'll hold you to that. and tklpen so true vegas would be great for that

isabeau