Except that models are not the norm, and the vast majority of men out there don't want one.
No matter how many times men say "we like you the way you are", women point to stylized representations of other women on magazine covers and scream, "No, you don't! You want this!" - despite the fact that it's women who buy the vast majority of said magazines.
It's frustrating. It really is. It's like, if there's one man out there who doesn't like your figure, that somehow invalidates the five dozen others who do. Total acceptance or none at all. And, I don't get it.