The only girl I ever dated was big time into tickling. Not being tied down and stuff like that. More stuff like wrestling would turn into tickle fights and we'd play games where one of us has to lay down and the other one can try to make them move by tickling them. It would also be incorporated into making out and what not. We would tease each other with it and also it was a great way to get physically closer. It was always so enjoyable. In an overall flawed relationship, it was one of the best parts of it.
I'd like my next relationship to be with someone who also enjoys tickling like that. I'm not hardcore like a lot of the people in here. Not big on bondage, humiliation, torture etc. I like it to be light hearted. I'm sure if I found someone great I could get past the fact they aren't into it but it would be a struggle. Whenever I start talking to someone I may be interested in I'll try to weave the topic into the conversation once were more comfortable with each other. Like I may bring up weaknesses and mention that a big weakness of mine is how ticklish I am or something like that. Usually I'll know by their response. They'll either have an open ended response which leaves the door open to continuing the topic or they will immediately shut it down with something like "Omg I HATE being tickled! It's the worst thing ever." At that point I'll drop that subject because I'd never want to force it on someone.
What are your thoughts? How important is tickling in a relationship? How would you bring up the topic of tickling to someone you're interested in to get a feel for where they stand on it?
I'd like my next relationship to be with someone who also enjoys tickling like that. I'm not hardcore like a lot of the people in here. Not big on bondage, humiliation, torture etc. I like it to be light hearted. I'm sure if I found someone great I could get past the fact they aren't into it but it would be a struggle. Whenever I start talking to someone I may be interested in I'll try to weave the topic into the conversation once were more comfortable with each other. Like I may bring up weaknesses and mention that a big weakness of mine is how ticklish I am or something like that. Usually I'll know by their response. They'll either have an open ended response which leaves the door open to continuing the topic or they will immediately shut it down with something like "Omg I HATE being tickled! It's the worst thing ever." At that point I'll drop that subject because I'd never want to force it on someone.
What are your thoughts? How important is tickling in a relationship? How would you bring up the topic of tickling to someone you're interested in to get a feel for where they stand on it?