Tickling and sex

[Deleted member 304969]

How common is tickling during sexual activity? I would think very common, but it doesn't seem so in any tickling videos I've seen, unless it's the usual f/f kind of stuff, with a vibrator, etc. But what about tickling between a man and woman during intercourse? I ask this because tickling is very sexual to me, so I would think it is for others too. I find it greatly enhances the whole sexual experience.

 

[Ghostwriter727]

It has always been a pretty sexually stimulating thing for me. Blending tickling and sex seemed like a natural combination and if it turns you on the sex becomes WILD really quick.😜

I have met other people who found the tickling to be annoying, and even overly aggressive. (Oops)
Communicating your desires, and boundaries is a pretty important practice afterall, and don't take it personally if someone just doesn't like the same things that you do sexually.

Whether its tickling, roleplaying, sex, or otherwise we are learning each others rhythms, interests, and deepest desires.
Patience, curiosity, and kindness goes a long way.

Love the question.🤙

 

[Ghostwriter727]

Thanks for replying, and yes I totally get it, in that not everyone is into it in a sexual way...I've only been with one girl who liked it, but only because I introduced it to her in a subtle way, by tickling her while stimulating her sexually at the same time, so that the two became pretty much the same thing. But that was her, and like you say, I think that many people may find it annoying, and kill the fun of the sex, but for me, it totally enhances it...that is, getting tickled, but also tickling her too, but only if she likes it the same way I do.

A while back I met a girl in the TMF chatroom who made no bones about her being into "tickle sex," and unfortunately I lost touch with her...but at least that tells me that they ARE out there, it's just a matter of finding them.

They are out there.
It just seems like a pretty complicated time for finding adequate mates, and partners with technology, and so many "red flags" swirling all around everyone.
.
You'll find a winner though.🤙
Work on yourself some, get better at a few things and be ready for when that winner arrives.🍻

 

[piyr]

I suspect that tickling is more common as an occational brief aside between intimate couples rather than incorporated into sex. Even though it's often viewed as playful, I do agree that most people find it annoying.

I also introduced tickling during sex to an old girlfriend. She became absolutely obsessed with it to the point where she was seriously pissed at me because she didn't think she'd ever be "normal" again. Well hun, I don't know, but not if you're lucky.🤣

 

[piyr]

I agree 100%. I tried to use quote marks, maybe not so effectively, to reflect your very point.

I think people often use the word normal to mean what they believe is the usual, average, or not infrequent. By that definition, they are correct. However, implicit in their belief is a degree of threat of something defective simply because they can't relate to that something that is unfamiliar to them. Whereas I would define sexual normality to include all of the diversity in human sexuality that is not harmful.

 

[yinzer]

Even well before puberty, I was only interested in tickling girls I liked and nothing else about it ever crossed my mind. So naturally when I went thru puberty, tickling became instantly sexual for me and I've only ever been interested in tickling women I'm physically attracted to, so it's a relatively narrow window of interest for me that way. Since I started doing tickle sessions with professionals this past year, not a single orgasm has taken place. One of my concerns before doing them is how turned on I'd be during the session, and would this be a problem (possibly embarrassing problem!) for me. I wouldn't want that to get in the way of the session, and I'd of course never expect anything more than tickling from a session, so if I couldn't handle it, I'd need to stop doing them. Glad to report this hasn't been an issue at all! So in my life to this day sex and tickling have always remained separate activities, but the idea of combining the 2 with a mutual attraction that would also want that with me sounds like heaven!

 

[yinzer]

I've heard of professional tickling sessions, from reading things here in the forum, but I've never done one. To be honest, I don't find that desirable, but to each his own. To me, tickling has always been sexual, and I wouldn't want to even do it unless my partner felt the same way, and there was a mutual sexual attraction between us. What you say about getting turned on during a professional session is one of the main reasons I'd be apprehensive about it. Like you say, it could be a very embarrassing problem! Or, maybe they wouldn't mind. But even so, if it's not a mutual thing, I see no fun in it.

By the way, is a professional session something you pay money for? If so, that would be another reason I wouldn't find it any fun, knowing they're just doing it for that reason. But I can understand how it may work for others.

I completely agree with you that doing it with someone that feels the same way about you is ideal, but that's unfortunately not my reality, and I had to finally accept that after many years of seeing it the way you do!

And to answer your question, yes, a professional session is something you pay money to do. I like it because I know exactly what I'm getting, and we do it in a place that is safe and comfortable for both of us. There is no worry about being 'catfished,' or anything like that. It's been a great experience for me overall, but like you said, still of course not ideal.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I’ve had sex with both guys and girls while I’m doing the tickling and when I’m being tickled. To me It heightens the orgasm especially when it continues to the end without stopping until I do cum

 

[footfan69]

I introduced it to my wife several years ago. She doesn’t always like it, but when she does…WOW! Give it a try! 😉

 

[robmic]

The one thing that I feel is the best part of tickling and sex together is the fact that if the woman I'm tickling is really ticklish, I can get so turned on that I'm rock hard while having sex. One time I was having sex with this gal that was really ticklish in certain spots that I was close to cumming and I hit one of her really ticklish spots and she started laughing really hard and struggling that it felt like I grew thicker and longer and came so hard that she reacted with an awesome orgasm at the same time! It felt awesome for both of us!!!!!
In fact, the next time she came over, the first thing she asked me was if I wanted to tie her up again!!!

 

[Maneo]

I have no idea how common sex and tickling are. In my own limited experience, sex and tickling are both items on the menu of intimate activities. IRL, at least my real life, the conversation rarely wanders into discussing things my wife and I do in the bedroom.

I have always noticed in TV and movies, it is a cinema cliche when the action is becoming amorous that the camera pans away, and on the soundtrack you hear the female giggling or laughing.

 

[robmic]

That's what I mean. I was never lucky enough to have the same experience, but I'm sure it's very common. Glad you had that opportunity!

The funny thing was that she wasn't the only one to do that! I had another one that I had tickled the hell out of who asked the same thing when she came home from work the next day!!!!!

 

[quinn65]

I've almost always incorporated it over the years unless there's a firm no from my partner, and that would generally (but not always, I guess) reduce the chances of reconnecting. My wife Laura is a big fan of this, luckily, and it definitely spices things up for us.

 

[ashbabe410]

My boyfriend and I are both into tickling so yes we do it during sex. Often it's me tickling him to distract him or "I'm going to tickle you until you orgasm" thing, but it usually will make him orgasm faster if anything!

 

[JayLtickle]

I’ve had sex with both guys and girls while I’m doing the tickling and when I’m being tickled. To me It heightens the orgasm especially when it continues to the end without stopping until I do cum

Any man with you is extremely fortunate. You would be a dream come true for me.

 

[hiphophooray4]

The one thing that I feel is the best part of tickling and sex together is the fact that if the woman I'm tickling is really ticklish, I can get so turned on that I'm rock hard while having sex. One time I was having sex with this gal that was really ticklish in certain spots that I was close to cumming and I hit one of her really ticklish spots and she started laughing really hard and struggling that it felt like I grew thicker and longer and came so hard that she reacted with an awesome orgasm at the same time! It felt awesome for both of us!!!!!
In fact, the next time she came over, the first thing she asked me was if I wanted to tie her up again!!!

And you said " damn right i do" lol

 

[hiphophooray4]

All I know is that I've been incorporating tickling with sex damn near since I started having sex at age 15. And it's awesome! And I really can't recall not even one complaint about it either. Or not any big ones anyways.....I've always figured it's easier to "turn" a vanilla as opposed to actually Find another one of us , of the opposite sex, and be physically attracted to each other, out in the wild somewhere. Too many variables. If u take your time, ease into it, make it fun, make it interesting, and most importantly make damn certain that She has a series of the absolute most intense squirt a gallon across the room, eyes roll back in her head, she speaks in tongues for an hour, need an ER IV to get hydrated set of orgasms....during these lil tickle/sex 101 classes....and I think you'll have a very high percentage success rate my friend.

 

[redheadlady]

Tickle sex is the best