Tickling As Physical Abuse In A Divorce Case?

[Mitchell]

The question about rape just made me think of another discussion. This would be stretching the point, really, but, say, for example, there was a case of a wife who hated to be tickled, and told her husband to stop tickling her, and he didn't, could that be grounds as physical abuse or assault in a court of law?

I'm not talking index fingers down a foot, or a poke in the sides here, but, say, A couple went for a divorce, the wife hated to be tickled, and over a period of years the husband had a habit of pinning his wife down, and tickling her feet incessantly, until she was screaming, would such a case hold up in a court of law, if there were witnesses to it, say, adult children, or other family members like parents, sisters, or brothers.

Thoughts?

Mitch

 

[rhiannon]

Yes, I absolutely think it would!

 

[milagros317]

Yes, that you certainly be physical abuse after he was told that she hated it.

 

[RosieCreek]

I also think it would be considered abusive. I'm sure she'd be granted irreconcilable differences, if nothing else.

 

[SlaverTickler]

Yes, I absolutely think it would!

Yep. As I`ve said before, Non Con tickling is a hot fantasy, but it really isn`t good to do it. I mean it`s a given that most people will tell you to stop when you tickle them because it is a natural reaction, but there is a difference between the teasing playful ``No Stop`` and one that isn`t so playful. It`s just a matter of being able to tell the difference and knowing to back off. I would imagine most women don`t mind when there husband tickle them, it is a fun way to tease and get the erotic juices flowing, but like spanking, I would also guess some hate it, mostly because it was used in an abusive manner against them.

By the way rhiannon, I intend to tickle you until you are dizzy one day 😀

 

[Angel77]

I think it could be considered abusive as well. If wife hates it and it really is a form of torture for her yet hubby continues to do, that's not a good thing. Abuse isn't always in to form of physical pain.

 

[maniactickler]

Ill let you know how it works out after Angel and i get married.

 

[Angel77]

Ill let you know how it works out after Angel and i get married.

Dork.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Anything forced upon someone else against their will is a form of abuse, so yeah.

 

[Mitchell]

Thanks for the replies, guys and gals.

In my experience, from girls I've talked to, written to (The Pen Pals I've posted about in the past, who I've asked The Question to before I joined this site), and the few girls I've tickled in real life, most women who aren't into this lifestyle, either dont like, or positively hate, to be tickled. My thought had always been that if I married someone who hated to be tickled, would be to try and set up a compromise with her, where I could get to worship her feet without tickling, and try to see if she would be okay with being tickled very briefly, on occasion.

I dont think that most people would carry on tickling a spouse who hated it, to the extreme I mentioned. I just wanted to post the topic, to see what other forum members thought.

Mitch

 

[SlaverTickler]

I don't see how it couldn't be considered abuse or assault.

If your wife fingered your ass during sex even thought she knew you didn't like it would you consider that abuse?

 

[Gentler]

It's one thing to noncon a date. If she ends up genuinely angry about it, she'll not date you again and you move on to the next one. But if you're married, the time is long past for this strategy. Hopefully by this time you've found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Not a good idea to jeopardize that.

I'll chime in agreement with everybody else. I think it would hold up in court as physical abuse.

 

[SlaverTickler]

I dont think that most people would carry on tickling a spouse who hated it, to the extreme I mentioned. I just wanted to post the topic, to see what other forum members thought.

There is a member on the forum who's sister was tied to a bed and tickled by her husband until she passed out. It wasn't fun for her either. I can't remember who it was, and I wouldn't post there name with out there ok anyway. I am sure if they are active they will see this thread and comment on it.

 

[SlaverTickler]

It's one thing to noncon a date. If she ends up genuinely angry about it, she'll not date you again and you move on to the next one. But if you're married, the time is long past for this strategy. Hopefully by this time you've found the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Not a good idea to jeopardize that.

I'll chime in agreement with everybody else. I think it would hold up in court as physical abuse.

It doesn't matter if she is your date or you wife, you should respect the word no. How would you like it if some ass hole showed that lack of respect to your sister or daughter.

 

[Mitchell]

Slaver, I'm very sorry to hear about the forum member's sister who had that happen to her. That's horrible, and sick! I've honestly never heard of anything like that until you just posted it.

If that was me who was tickled by a ler wife until I passed out, I'd probably head for the nearest divorce lawyer, as soon as I got out of the bondage.

Mitch

 

[Ticklerbc]

Interesting post. I have some experience here. My ex-wife had gorgeous feet, was a 12 on a scale of 10 ticklish. While we were dating I had a good number of tickle sessions (with full spreadeagle bondage) with her consent. She even agreed to video tape one. After a year of dating we married. Shortly after we married, she asked me to go to a "shrink" to get cured for my "perverted fetish". I said "wait --- when dating you were all for it". Now I need "to be cured". After 12 months we divorced. And yes, she played "the tickle abuse card" with her lawyer. I settled out of court for $65,000. Some prostitutes don't make that kind of money.

The story has a good ending. I am now married (for some 8 years) to a great wife. She is on TMF as TXGIGGLEE. She knows my whole past. We have great tickling times with her the "lee" and I am the "ler". She goes to gatherings with me and is a great sport. See her photos on my profile and in the albums section.

Ticklerbc

 

[Mitchell]

Ticklerbc, I'm sorry to hear about what happened with your ex wife. That's terrible that she married you knowing your fetish, tried to get you to suddenly change, and then played the tickle abuse card with her lawyer during the divorce.

I'm glad to hear that your story has a happy ending. I love to hear things like that. It's great that you found a kind wife who loves to be tickled.

Mitch

 

[Sandisk444]

Dork.

 

[rhiannon]

By the way rhiannon, I intend to tickle you until you are dizzy one day 😀

I am so very flattered

 

[Angel77]

LOLOLOL!!!!!!!!

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

She was really tickled by the divorce settlement.........

I remember the varous letters to Dear Abby/Dear Anne from ladies that had husbands or boyfriends that just would not stop tickling them. It does clearly seem to be abuse. It does seem strange that the like/dislike for tickling would not be settled before the wedding. Another case of "he will change after we are married". I suggest a tickling prenup agreement. 😉