Tickling Clip Store Advice

[Tickle Country]

Not sure I follow you, but hopefully you don't mean a buttplug lol

Nope. And apparently, I'm wrong as well. No worries.

 

[Libertine]

If you mean what is my job, I’m a phlebotomist, and I’m 29.

So a huge part of your social skills at work involve putting people of all ages and sexes at ease while putting a tourniquet around their arms, sticking a needle in their distended veins and drawing their blood. I suggest you use the same practised and soothing manner to talk to the women who interest you.

I would love it if it was real women. I think models are assholes

Models are real women, and like any group of people, male and female, some are assholes. Most aren't. My wife, for instance, models between ballet gigs. Some of her model friends are very nice, too.

Ive actually got more fetish interests than just tickling including BDSM. But i find tickling easier to start with since bdsm has all this stuff to learn. ... Im hoping to prevent that by trying to be active here and hopefully meet friends. Even though i know my questins here are probably stupid also. But at least as of right now the people here arent like the once on Fetlife.

Although i will have to join Fetlife again just to browse the gatherings and munchs. Ugh...

Yes you will, and don't treat it like a chore. Check out some instructional bondage videos on Youtube, (Two Knotty Boys, among others) since that's a skill you really have to develop, practise on your own leg, (seriously) and concurrently go to a few live bondage classes/demos. Not every step of a walk is pleasant but eventually getting where you want to go can be very pleasant indeed

Yes i usually lead with basic conversation when people are willing to talk here which isn’t often. But can be confusing sometimes, for example when i was here under a different username i spoke to a girl about tickling. I descided to expand the conversation by asking what her favorite movies etc... are. She tells me shes not comfortable talking about that, just tickling. Didn’t understand how a woman is comfortable with that but uncomfortable with talking about movies, seems backwards. So that ended haha.

Munches and fetish clubs are odd because you'll never learn people's last names or where they live or what they do. On the other hand you will learn everything about, and every detail of, their sex lives. And you may well become involved with that.

Look- quit talking about it and just get out there. You already know what rejection feels like so risk getting some more of it and then you'll find someone.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

Try commiserating on incel sites because I'm not sure you'll have any luck meeting women here making posts like that

Not sure what you mean what was wrong with that. I didnt say anything bad.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

You know who else gets rejected a lot?

Literally everybody.

Yes obviously.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

Your posts are coming across as somewhat of a victim perspective. I mean well in saying that.

Perhaps take a different approach than that of "oh well" and "maybe some day" in your responses to the advice you're asking for would be a good place to start. Go to NEST, man! I've never been, but i can guarantee you that you'll be accepted as long as you're respectful. We're all in the same club here and the people who attend NEST seem very accepting and friendly.

With that said, some of your responses have come across as a "woe is me" vibe. Others come across as somewhat condescending. People in general, and especially women, can pick up on stuff like that and react accordingly.

Operate at a higher vibration and state of mind, and your interactions will transform magically around you.

I'm speaking from a place of experiencing it.

Best of luck friend.

Yea id like to go there ive seen it advertised. As for my posts i don’t intentionaly mean for them to come out that way. Srry. I tend to over explain. But i see where your coming from. Thanks.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

Well, that's a real great attitude to have, going into this thing.

Is it not true for some? It was just stated in a previews post how they see and treat the person running the sites so that sounds like they would be acting like an asshole. Im going by what a previews post said. Obviously not all models are that way.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

Sounds like a retainer.



Check your wording, brother. You used Real women. Female Models ARE real women, but they are not REGULAR women.
Models have a particular set of experiences that they can draw on to orient themselves to the world and interact with it in a certain perspective. Usually that perspective can come off as, and usually is, jaded, and often dealing in power plays, because they view it as business transactions and not work.

You're obviously looking for fun. Not business. Working with models will sorely disappoint you in that regard.

REGULAR women do not have all of these experiences, though that is becoming less and less common with the media that the common person ingests, which consistently paints the male as the killer, the villain, the aggressor, and the simp, often against the woman or submissive to the woman. Not to mention the idiotic men who have done a #metoo-worthy action, and other unceasing degeneracies in our society.

But in general, Regular women will be less likely to take this work so seriously. Which is good. Because you don't usually enjoy something when it gives you money after a certain period of time.

However at this point, I don't encourage you to work with anyone, until you have better interactions with women. Because I can see from your writing that you're likely to offend your potential model's emotions and then come back to us like, "I don't know what happened." and I'll be at my computer absolutely disgusted that you turned another woman off from being tickled.

And trust me, every man in the forum will want to kick your ass. Because we're not looked on favorably by and large in society. And you would be making it worse.

So, I'm going to put together a list of things to do. I'll probably do it by Monday or something. But you need to work on stuff before you just haul ass into something for fun. Because you'll make people hate it AND you.

It's a shame that as children we're usually so similar, we human beings. And then as adults we grow to be so far apart that a simple glance can be an affront to a person's civility.



Look on television, look on the internet and ask people you know. Ask the hard questions, get the hard answers.

I meant real women as in not being a model just to separate the two for the discussion. Models being the one doing it for money and real women being those not doing it for money. I wasnt looking down on the modeling profession.

Even though im not going into this as a buisness like i was thinking of doing, i dont think id offend them. Even i know if i went into a real situation negatively it wouldn’t work out.

The reason why i ask why id be seen as the enemy is because the model chose to be there. If they really felt unsafe why go there, to someone you see as an enemy. Am i right or wrong? Theres always risks.

 

[Wolf]

Well, that's a real great attitude to have, going into this thing.

Is it not true for some? It was just stated in a previews post how they see and treat the person running the sites so that sounds like they would be acting like an asshole. Im going by what a previews post said. Obviously not all models are that way.

Elmore Leonard had a great line for that.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

So a huge part of your social skills at work involve putting people of all ages and sexes at ease while putting a tourniquet around their arms, sticking a needle in their distended veins and drawing their blood. I suggest you use the same practised and soothing manner to talk to the women who interest you.



Models are real women, and like any group of people, male and female, some are assholes. Most aren't. My wife, for instance, models between ballet gigs. Some of her model friends are very nice, too.





Yes you will, and don't treat it like a chore. Check out some instructional bondage videos on Youtube, (Two Knotty Boys, among others) since that's a skill you really have to develop, practise on your own leg, (seriously) and concurrently go to a few live bondage classes/demos. Not every step of a walk is pleasant but eventually getting where you want to go can be very pleasant indeed



Munches and fetish clubs are odd because you'll never learn people's last names or where they live or what they do. On the other hand you will learn everything about, and every detail of, their sex lives. And you may well become involved with that.

Look- quit talking about it and just get out there. You already know what rejection feels like so risk getting some more of it and then you'll find someone.

Yes i use those skills in phlebotomy i just never think about using it in regular life, weird. I try that.

When i said real women and models i was just separating thing for this discussion. Models being the ones doing it for money and real women being the ones in the everyday real world not in front of a camera and not getting paid. Not disrespecting models though. I know there jobs tough.

Ill definitely check out that youtube channel thanks.

The conversation i had with the girl was on this site, i havent been to a munch just yet.

Thanks for the advise.

 

[Radiant_Eyes]

Elmore Leonard had a great line for that.

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[chicago]

Not sure what you mean what was wrong with that. I didnt say anything bad.

Your whole post especially the part about women being shallow and models being assholes. And then you're somehow clueless about why you can't get what you want