Tickling during (not before) sex?

[JohnTK]

Recently I am in a relationship with an amazing girl who loves to be spanked, but also is very open about bdsm in general and enjoys my tickling fetish. She is ticklish everywhere, the kind of ticklishness that is always there, not dependant on mood, energy etc.. she is very ticklish on her feet especially between the toes but she completely looses control when I tickle her armpits, where I really need to hold back and give a safe word which would stop us at around 1-2 minutes 🙂.

I have always been using tickling as something that would make me horny before the action, sometimes maybe poking a few quick tickes during the penetration. But with her, as we became more comfortable it is the first time in my life constantly tickle torturing a girl during being inside her and I have to say it is amazing!! Especially in my favorite position when she is in missionary with legs up in front of my face (this has always been my favorite position regarless of tickling, because of my foot fetish), I use to alternate between spanking and tickling her soles, which crates an amazing laugh I am getting addicted to! I have a feeling that I will not be able to go back to sex without tickling and that maybe our sex life is becoming too much like a fetish video and not so romantic anymore, which is a bit of a stressing side thought 🤣.

 

[Miss_Gigglish]

Recently I am in a relationship with an amazing girl who loves to be spanked, but also is very open about bdsm in general and enjoys my tickling fetish. She is ticklish everywhere, the kind of ticklishness that is always there, not dependant on mood, energy etc.. she is very ticklish on her feet especially between the toes but she completely looses control when I tickle her armpits, where I really need to hold back and give a safe word which would stop us at around 1-2 minutes 🙂.

I have always been using tickling as something that would make me horny before the action, sometimes maybe poking a few quick tickes during the penetration. But with her, as we became more comfortable it is the first time in my life constantly tickle torturing a girl during being inside her and I have to say it is amazing!! Especially in my favorite position when she is in missionary with legs up in front of my face (this has always been my favorite position regarless of tickling, because of my foot fetish), I use to alternate between spanking and tickling her soles, which crates an amazing laugh I am getting addicted to! I have a feeling that I will not be able to go back to sex without tickling and that maybe our sex life is becoming too much like a fetish video and not so romantic anymore, which is a bit of a stressing side thought 🤣.

Congratulations, and if both of you are enjoying it, why do you need to worry about going back?

 

[yinzer]

Recently I am in a relationship with an amazing girl who loves to be spanked, but also is very open about bdsm in general and enjoys my tickling fetish. She is ticklish everywhere, the kind of ticklishness that is always there, not dependant on mood, energy etc.. she is very ticklish on her feet especially between the toes but she completely looses control when I tickle her armpits, where I really need to hold back and give a safe word which would stop us at around 1-2 minutes 🙂.

I have always been using tickling as something that would make me horny before the action, sometimes maybe poking a few quick tickes during the penetration. But with her, as we became more comfortable it is the first time in my life constantly tickle torturing a girl during being inside her and I have to say it is amazing!! Especially in my favorite position when she is in missionary with legs up in front of my face (this has always been my favorite position regarless of tickling, because of my foot fetish), I use to alternate between spanking and tickling her soles, which crates an amazing laugh I am getting addicted to! I have a feeling that I will not be able to go back to sex without tickling and that maybe our sex life is becoming too much like a fetish video and not so romantic anymore, which is a bit of a stressing side thought 🤣.

Are you just trying to make all the 'lers on here jealous? Because it's working 😂

 

[LerLee]

I hear you. A first world problem for sure. I would just keep on doing what you are doing, carpe diem, and suck the marrow out of life.

I enjoy playing with my wife’s feet during sex. Often helps her orgasm.

 

[JohnTK]

Are you just trying to make all the 'lers on here jealous? Because it's working 😂

hahaha, no I am not someone to flaunt my luck, it's nothing like that. And believe me I have been patient and tickle-starved in relationship and marriage for more years than most people. Finding the right person is a mix of creating the potential to get lucky and then .. actually being lucky. Being confident and open about this fetish is a process especially for those of us who are older and grew up in a more conservative world. I feel that I have walked a path and made a lot of progress, at the same time with every new step it is good to listen to what others have to say from their point of view and experience!

 

[FFT32]

I hear you. A first world problem for sure. I would just keep on doing what you are doing, carpe diem, and suck the marrow out of life.

I enjoy playing with my wife’s feet during sex. Often helps her orgasm.

Absolutely! I often have Rachel scoot to edge of the mattress so I can stand in between her legs to "enter". I then lift one of her legs up, placing her heel against my chest. I spider tickle her soft sole during intercourse. She says it enhances her orgasams and I very much enjoy giving her pleasure while tickling her. So, win-win!

 

[frankied21]

This is one of my favorite things!! I love tickling hips during cowgirl, as it forces an immense downward pressure or a bouncing effect. Feet are also accessible. My favorite though is tickling during doggy. I love love LOVE to wrap my hands around and into the inner thighs, and if she collapses well then she's laid out flat and will be punished immensely for leaving the position.
this is actually something that im obsessed with. I also love using tickling for edging/teasing purposes while performing oral. Amazing fun, glad youre having it too!

 

[redheadlady]

Tickle sex is the best

 

[torturoustickle]

It's a huge fantasy/goal for me to try this.
The only thing that I think of is ....... would it ruin the actual sex?
Most Lee's I have tickled have been hyper ticklish. There would be no way without the strictest of bondage they could hold any position whilst being tickled.
A screaming, laughing, begging, and also cumming Lee, does have a certain appeal though. 😍😅

 

[Maneo]

My experience has been that tickle sex depends on the people involved in the intimate moment. If it works for both partners to tickle,be tickled during the act, it can be wonderful and explosive. I've been with lovers who could barely tolerate being tickled until aroused and then asked, even begged, to be tickled. Others enjoy tickling foreplay but during intercourse the tickling was more distracting than enhancing so nada tickle sex. For me, though a lifelong ler, I can be overcome with sexual desire and the focus becomes hard, old fashioned sex with no tickling. But then, for me, plain old fashioned missionary sex with no tickles can be as fulfilling as tickling someone silly. Different strokes.

I admit there are no doubt those for whom sex is only possible with tickling involved. My experience and desires are more variable depending on my partner, the circumstances ,and our mood in the moment. Like most things between two (or more) people sharing intimacy, there is no one best way. If it works for you and your partner, enjoy. The difficulty comes when one person must have certain actions like tickling included during sex and the other person hates the combination. Therein lies conflict.

 

[redheadlady]

Oh yes, both people need to be up for it. I love to be tickled during sex

 

[GarnettRose]

I agree with what everyone says. It depends on one's preferences. For those like me who enjoy the sensation, tickling during sex does a lot to heighten the pleasure and intimacy. I can have sex without it, but it's not nearly as good for me.

 

[A/S/H]

I haven't posted on this thread because I thought it wasn't relevant to me, but I realize now my gf actually does tickle me every time during sex. It's a lot more gentle than normal so I don't laugh, but does make me a little more sensitive so the whole experience is enhanced. I love it so much.

 

[tickledude123]

If you feel like it's becoming like a fetish video, and not romantic, then change it up!!!! Have times that are just about kissing, caressing, and making love. Then have other times that are just wild, kinky, tickling sex.