Tickling feet

[Braxnacke]

I've always been into tickling since Pippi Longstocking which was my child crush when I was a little boy. In a scene her friends Annika and Tommy are tickling her feet she's resting on her main pillow to wake her up. I recognized when I was a child it was so awesome to see and it started to tickling in my own body. What I didn't know back then was that was going to be my main kink and a huge part of my sexlife. To that grade that I really need that for a satisfying sex. And because she was wearing stocking I probably developed a huge interests in girls wearing nylon and thin socks. My kink is about feet and legs for sure. Either worship or tickling. Bare feet don't give me that same rush.

I've always been ashamed for it, tried to oppress it. Especially during my teenager years. I thought it was weird, while I was obviously alone I watched porn including tickling nylon or socks feet. I think the thought of it being weird was feeling me with huge shame and as well that it's sadistic. Because in my inner I want to be recognized as a nice man. Because I'm having alot of sympathy for other people. And by doing tickling to someone that is ticklish is for me so extremely sexy and exciting. I can actually feel the same thing most of homosexual people do when they try to oppress their feelings about being homosexual because of religion, shame or whatever the society and public think is normal.

My experience of tickling sex have been very limited. Even normal tickling for that part. It is something that have filled me with shame as I said. I'm still now 32 years old looking for a girl to exploit my dreams but it's so hard. I'm first of all living in a country which have a small population. To meet someone that would let me do it, would be very hard. I've tried find communities in my country that share same interests. But it's very very limited. Unfortunately. But my dreams are to be fulfill? Otherwise you've a limited reason to live right?

Sometimes I've been ready for pay someone to let her tickling her feet. But that feel for me like I'm paying for a sexual service which I'm strongly against. It's always a tricky part to find your dreams and your interests to go whole the way.

Tell me about your approach, maybe you are more or less confident than me about your kink? Maybe for you it's nothing sexual or more as a role play? How did you come to conclusion what made you interested in tickling feet? What was your first experience? Can you feel what I'm saying? I'm very interested about your stories.

Thank you for your listening ears and reading eyes for this short fame. I wish you guys the best tickling experiences! 🙏

 

[FootTickleManiac]

I completely understand your feelings. Though i'm a little over 20 years older that you, what you're describing is how I felt and was back in the 1980's through the early - mid 90's. Like you, I have a hardcore foot tickling fetish (not into worship, etc though). I like both nylons and bare. I shift more towards bare though, and the woman/girl must have their nails polished some color, or it doesn't do much for me. That's the catch in my foot tickle fetish.

Have had the fetish since birth it feels like. Back long before the internet, there was no way to even know that I wasn't alone. So I thought I had some real mental issues back when.

That was until I was in my early 20's. There was an older woman I was briefly involved with who was the most open minded sexual person I think I ever met up to that time. So I came out of the closet to her (so to speak). The first time ever. She was totally opened to it and told me something that's stuck with me since and changed me as a person for the better.

What she told me was, never be ashamed of what you like, sexual or otherwise, never be ashamed of who you are or what you are. Life is too short. If someone can't accept you for you, then they don't belong in your life, you don't need them....and that goes for anyone. Girlfriend, friends, etc.

Ever since that night, i've been opened as hell about my fetish when getting involved with someone, proud of it and not embarassed anymore. This is who I am, you don't like it? There's the door. That's been my attitude ever since then, and it feels great.

You're young my friend, you will find the satisfaction you desire at some point as long as you don't give up, and just be yourself. You should have no fear, no worries and do not be embarassed for what you like and who you are. Like the woman I was seeing back when said, life is too short. Wishing you the best!

 

[TheMasterTouch]

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: this fetish we share really isn't that big of a deal. Focus on building your career, working out and taking care of yourself. Basically, do things that will make you attractive to the women you desire. If a woman is attracted to you, she will be willing to try almost anything in the bedroom with you.

And for the record, I've been outed against my will. My ex-wife told people about it when we divorced. Lots of people know about my fetishes, and it's okay. I think going through that experience helped me get over any shame and embarrassment. Most people have better things to do than focus on other people's sex lives.

You can find happiness and find someone who can fulfill you sexually. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Best of luck to you. Most of us have been there when we were younger.

 

[Maneo]

Braxnacke - your tale is one many here on TMF have gone through, including myself. We all have an inner desire, preference, fetish - call it what you will - that involves tickling in some aspect. The variations are as many as there are people. Where it came from, how each of us came to have these interests, is somewhere between nurture and nature.

The thing is, we are no different from the rest of the non-tickling world. Everyone has some preferences, likes, dislikes, and so on. Maybe sexual preference. Maybe some other part of the anatomy.

As FootTickleMania wrote, never be ashamed of what you like. That doesn't mean we impose our likes on those who don't share our views. I understand your feelings that your desire to tickle may have sadistic aspects to it. Tickling can be viewed through many lenses. Restraint is often part of tickling, and the act itself puts the tickler in a position of control. These aspects overlap with other human activities that can be viewed with a sadistic interpretation. I think the demarcation line is whether there is consent between tickler and ticklee. There are people who get as much satisfaction from being the ticklee as the tickler.

So, first, don't beat yourself up for your innate feelings. Second, be honest with yourself. You seem appropriately concerned about finding someone(s) to share your desires with who will enjoy it as much as you.

That brings us to your essential problem - finding those with whom you can engage in tickling. The sexual aspect you mention can complicate that search. Again, the advice of FootTickleMania is useful. Be yourself. I'm 73 and have had a full life of tickling experience with multiple people. I've lived in small communities and still met tickle partners. Like you, tickling has a sexual connection for me. Like you, I have a preference for ticklish female feet.

It sounds from your post as if you seek a full relationship with someone to share your tickling desires. I've always found, even if tickling was the primary thing that brought me into contact with someone, that there was first a relationship, and then tickling would follow. My longest and most enduring relationships, including two marriages, that included tickling came from relationships with people we would call 'vanilla'. People I met through entirely common, everyday activities - through school or work. At the appropriate time in the friendship, romance, or whatever was the base of the relationship, my interests in tickling came up. It didn't always result in a tickling experience, but more often than not, it did.

The challenge is knowing when to broach the subject with someone. Feelings of shame, guilt, and the feeling that one is 'not normal' because of tickling desires can make expressing those desires difficult. You basically get in the way of yourself. If you take tickling out of the equation, difficulties meeting someone with whom you can share your desires and needs can be challenging for many people. If you lead with tickling with every potential sexual partner you meet, that may result in rejection and a downward spiral that you are somehow a weird kinky person to avoid. It tends to objectify people, and few appreciate that.

In another post I made on TMF, I noted that every intimate relationship I've ever had has been with a woman who was ticklish and with whom tickling was part of our intimacy. Many of those encounters were with 'vanilla' women. I am well into my second marriage with a vanilla person who has been the best tickle partner of my life. Tickling is only a part of our relationship.

 

[footfan69]

Amen to what Maneo and FTMania said.

 

[FFT32]

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: this fetish we share really isn't that big of a deal. Focus on building your career, working out and taking care of yourself. Basically, do things that will make you attractive to the women you desire. If a woman is attracted to you, she will be willing to try almost anything in the bedroom with you.

And for the record, I've been outed against my will. My ex-wife told people about it when we divorced. Lots of people know about my fetishes, and it's okay. I think going through that experience helped me get over any shame and embarrassment. Most people have better things to do than focus on other people's sex lives.

You can find happiness and find someone who can fulfill you sexually. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Best of luck to you. Most of us have been there when we were younger.

Well said.

 

[purbeck]

You’re not alone my friend.
Like you through my teens and before the internet I felt ashamed and thought I was the only one in the world that had these feelings. To see a stockinged / Nylon foot would send a deep feeling in my gut, to see or experience a nylon foot being tickled was off the scale. There were minor glimpses back then at may be a party or two. Me sex life with many a girlfriend was very healthy but never did I let on to my kink. By then nylons were loosing their fashion status.
It all started years before from the age of 3 - 4 I was allowed to play tickle games with moms nylon feet.
It was all innocent fun but took the memories into adulthood and became a married family man.
When it was possible to access the internet then a whole new world opened up.
I knew then I wasn’t they only one. The feeling was explosive in fact when I watched North to Alaska for the first time I fainted. Going forward into my more mature years tickling feet has become none existent in fact if I still didn’t have these gut feelings I retired years ago.
I live in hope.