Tickling foreign people

[Rickytickly]

Well let's face it, if we were interested in personality, we wouldn't have found a forum that allows us to indulge our carnal interests. I'm being pretty real to myself that I know the combination of personal factors about myself and my newfound interest in women with ethnic features will have to compromise. All I know is people like attention, and if attracting traits allow the conductivity of attention, there will eventually be someone who will make an opening in their life to allow for additional attention. These "sexualizing" attractions can be taken negatively, but really, the positive side is I've found what makes me pay better attention. Don't feel guilty for being human.}

I don't really feel guilty, but I have to remember that there's a lot of people on this site too, and I don't know how many are reading this, and what they may think. Also the person who started this post, also did another one called "Stereotypes" which was about what we thought about people from other countries, and even though I chose to talk about Americans, of which I am one, I likely said some things that could've offended others. So I don't know what's up with Mario, and I'm not saying I can't take responsibility for my own actions either, but I do know that, with hindsight, I suddenly got myself into something confrontational, not only with YOU, but...possibly others, and this is something I definitely did not intend on happening. So...hopefully we can just let the whole thing go, and...do they call it O.P. here? I don't know what those initials stand for, but I'll be very careful, in the future, what posts this O.P. does in the future, whether I respond to them or not, so as to avoid any other potential trouble or confrontation. And no hard feelings. 🙂

 

[Rickytickly]

Well let's face it, if we were interested in personality, we wouldn't have found a forum that allows us to indulge our carnal interests. I'm being pretty real to myself that I know the combination of personal factors about myself and my newfound interest in women with ethnic features will have to compromise. All I know is people like attention, and if attracting traits allow the conductivity of attention, there will eventually be someone who will make an opening in their life to allow for additional attention. These "sexualizing" attractions can be taken negatively, but really, the positive side is I've found what makes me pay better attention. Don't feel guilty for being human.}

I don't really feel guilty, but I have to remember that there's a lot of people on this site too, and I don't know how many are reading this, and what they may think. Also the person who started this post, also did another one called "Stereotypes" which was about what we thought about people from other countries, and even though I chose to talk about Americans, of which I am one, I likely said some things that could've offended others. So I don't know what's up with Mario, and I'm not saying I can't take responsibility for my own actions either, but I do know that, with hindsight, I suddenly got myself into something confrontational, not only with YOU, but...possibly others, and this is something I definitely did not intend on happening. So...hopefully we can just let the whole thing go, and...do they call it O.P. here? I don't know what those initials stand for, but I'll be very careful, in the future, what posts this O.P. does in the future, whether I respond to them or not, so as to avoid any other potential trouble or confrontation. And no hard feelings. 🙂

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I'm still new here, and I already pissed off several people in the chat room, plus lost the first friend I made here, so that's what it is. Maybe I didn't say anything wrong on this post, I don't know. But all I know is I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells and I better be careful, that's all.

I'm not new to this site, no. But I've only been active on it for 3 weeks now, so it's not a good start.

 

[duderino84]

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I'm still new here, and I already pissed off several people in the chat room, plus lost the first friend I made here, so that's what it is. Maybe I didn't say anything wrong on this post, I don't know. But all I know is I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells and I better be careful, that's all.

I'm not new to this site, no. But I've only been active on it for 3 weeks now, so it's not a good start.

People are finicky. And really, I don't spend any time at all in the chat. Hey, you know, you like what you like, and that involves thinking you know what you like in the first place. And if you stay single longer/don't settle down? Your interests change and you have flexibility! We should all love eachother, really. Gay as that sounds, if you can't get along, you'll be going along somewhere else. Might as well enjoy it.

 

[SwitchUpForIt]

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I'm still new here, and I already pissed off several people in the chat room, plus lost the first friend I made here, so that's what it is. Maybe I didn't say anything wrong on this post, I don't know. But all I know is I still feel like I'm walking on eggshells and I better be careful, that's all.

I'm not new to this site, no. But I've only been active on it for 3 weeks now, so it's not a good start.

I've found the same, only new as well.
I think some people are really arrogant about their fetish, especially around new people,
most people seem nice, it's like with anything else there are people who turn things into an ego thing

 

[mariowuitomari]

I've found the same, only new as well.
I think some people are really arrogant about their fetish, especially around new people,
most people seem nice, it's like with anything else there are people who turn things into an ego thing

I don't understand the behaviour of some people here but I will continue with my freedom of speech and if I do something wrong a moderator has to say me about it.

 

[Rickytickly]

I've found the same, only new as well.
I think some people are really arrogant about their fetish, especially around new people,
most people seem nice, it's like with anything else there are people who turn things into an ego thing

I think that's what it is, so thanks. Yes there were a few in chat who got weird, but everyone else I got along with well. Also I've been doing OK in the forum so far, so it's only in chat that I tend to get nervous and find this kind of, I don't know...strange vibe there, not with everyone, but many. So maybe I won't go in there that much, that's all.

 

[Rickytickly]

I don't understand the behaviour of some people here but I will continue with my freedom of speech and if I do something wrong a moderator has to say me about it.

I didn't mean you, Mario. I was talking about other things that happened to me here.

 

[mariowuitomari]

I didn't mean you, Mario. I was talking about other things that happened to me here.

Ei ei I am not referring to you. I am only saying my point of view in addition to your personal situation. Sorry if I explained badly.

 

[Rickytickly]

Ei ei I am not referring to you. I am only saying my point of view in addition to your personal situation. Sorry if I explained badly.

I see, OK. 🙂

 

[Rickytickly]

People are finicky. And really, I don't spend any time at all in the chat. Hey, you know, you like what you like, and that involves thinking you know what you like in the first place. And if you stay single longer/don't settle down? Your interests change and you have flexibility! We should all love eachother, really. Gay as that sounds, if you can't get along, you'll be going along somewhere else. Might as well enjoy it.

Why would I want to stay single? I've been alone for many years now and it's no fun. I'd like a girlfriend. Why do you think being single is fun????

 

[duderino84]

Why would I want to stay single? I've been alone for many years now and it's no fun. I'd like a girlfriend. Why do you think being single is fun????

Because you make your own rules? Because a lot of relationships aren't collaborations as much as they are dictations? Because there's a trend of women out in the world today that think marriage is "owed" rather than achieved in a short span of time?

Don't get me wrong I'd like a girlfriend too but I'm willing to see the positive in my own situation. Being in a situation where you're "trying" is only a means to make a fool out of yourself, IMHO. If I have to choose between that and sticking with myself, I guess I'm stuck on my own. More time for me to get done what I need done.

 

[Rickytickly]

Because you make your own rules? Because a lot of relationships aren't collaborations as much as they are dictations? Because there's a trend of women out in the world today that think marriage is "owed" rather than achieved in a short span of time?

Don't get me wrong I'd like a girlfriend too but I'm willing to see the positive in my own situation. Being in a situation where you're "trying" is only a means to make a fool out of yourself, IMHO. If I have to choose between that and sticking with myself, I guess I'm stuck on my own. More time for me to get done what I need done.

I can see the positive side to being alone, but there are compromises in ANY relationship. I just think it's a matter of what type of relationship it is, and how much you are willing, and to what extent, and in what way, you are willing to compromise. I'd certainly rather compromise as opposed to being alone. And as for "trying", that I don't know how to do, and I don't think it works for me. I just know how to be myself, and let whatever happens come about naturally. But yeah, you definitely have to put yourself out there in some way; no ones gonna come knockin at my door, lol, which is where I have a problem; figuring out where to go, etc.

 

[Rickytickly]

Because you make your own rules? Because a lot of relationships aren't collaborations as much as they are dictations? Because there's a trend of women out in the world today that think marriage is "owed" rather than achieved in a short span of time?

Don't get me wrong I'd like a girlfriend too but I'm willing to see the positive in my own situation. Being in a situation where you're "trying" is only a means to make a fool out of yourself, IMHO. If I have to choose between that and sticking with myself, I guess I'm stuck on my own. More time for me to get done what I need done.

And I've never been married so I wouldn't know, but I've had relationships with girls, and yes, there were always compromises, but I never experienced any kind of "dictatorship". That, to me just sound like an unhealthy relationship, and perhaps it was just simply the wrong one to be in.

 

[Rickytickly]

Well let's face it, if we were interested in personality, we wouldn't have found a forum that allows us to indulge our carnal interests. I'm being pretty real to myself that I know the combination of personal factors about myself and my newfound interest in women with ethnic features will have to compromise. All I know is people like attention, and if attracting traits allow the conductivity of attention, there will eventually be someone who will make an opening in their life to allow for additional attention. These "sexualizing" attractions can be taken negatively, but really, the positive side is I've found what makes me pay better attention. Don't feel guilty for being human.

And I'm interested in personality. I don't know what "carnal" means, but I get the gist of it. In other words, I think it's possible to find the personality of a person important, and be into that person's fetish, in this case, tickling, at the same time.

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

well i'll get right back on topic since we kinda strayed away from the subject, these are mine:

1. Australian
2. Latina
3. Irish/Scottish
4. Arabic
5. Russian

 

[matt62]

Obviously talking about nationalities risks stereotyping, yet geographical and cultural origin does have some effect on a person's style, their way of being, their way of seeing the world or the way other nationalities perceive them. It's very subjective and mostly superficial, but it can add to the spice of life.

After thinking about it, I am surprising myself by saying that, as an Englishman myself, I want to put in a vote for English girls as my No.1 favourite ticklees. Maybe it's just that I know them best, but they often seem to have a combination of girl-next-doorishness and naughtiness that is all their own and is very enticing.

I might extend that to include the Scots too, for the same reason. Welsh? Not sure I've met enough to be sure. Northern Irish? Well the girl who first awoke my tickling instinct when I was a child was from Northern Ireland (but our families were living in Australia at the time), so they have a special place in my heart...She was from the Protestant/Unionist community, not Catholic/Nationalist - doubt if that's significant...(in fact let's not go there).