Tickling Intimacy Question

[Marquis De Sade]

I have five seconds before going to watch Harry Potter so I'll ask really quick:

Tickling:

Intimate thing for you or not?

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

Well that depends.

There are just certain times when it's just playful and fun for me, and then there are times when it's really intense and intimate for me.

I suppose it all just depends on the situation. Like, if I'm with my friends it's just all fun. But let's say I'm with someone I really like and we are having a session [bondage and all] I would call that pretty intimate.

 

[Onlyfornow]

I have five seconds before going to watch Harry Potter so I'll ask really quick:

Tickling:

Intimate thing for you or not?

To me, that's like asking "Kissing...intimate thing for you or not?" It's such a given that it's an intimate thing...it can be playful at the same time, and I don't have to be on romantic ground with the tickler, but it's always an intimate experience for me.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

So you ask is tickling a intimate thing or not. I got to say that with friends it is a fun lighthearted and good time-casual not sensual, not ever sexual. However if it is with my hubby it is intimate and very sensual and very sexual and very much a erotic turn on. So guess you could say with hubby and right setting and right mood and being relaxed and being able to toss worries and cares out the window for a while-that w hubby tickling can and is very intimate for me.

 

[Adam]

Well that depends.

There are just certain times when it's just playful and fun for me, and then there are times when it's really intense and intimate for me.

I suppose it all just depends on the situation. Like, if I'm with my friends it's just all fun. But let's say I'm with someone I really like and we are having a session [bondage and all] I would call that pretty intimate.

My thoughts exactly. It really depends on who it is and how close you are. For me, at least.

 

[chuckle]

Well that depends.

There are just certain times when it's just playful and fun for me, and then there are times when it's really intense and intimate for me.

I suppose it all just depends on the situation. Like, if I'm with my friends it's just all fun. But let's say I'm with someone I really like and we are having a session [bondage and all] I would call that pretty intimate.

I'd like to agree on that. 🙂

 

[prestidigits]

Short of a handshake, any touch is intimate, and a handshake has an intimacy. The question is how strict are your boundaries.

 

[lemoncake]

I'd say that intimate tickling is my favorite, but playful tickling has its moments too. I also enjoy relationships where I can have both with my partner, its fun to change it up.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

It's always intimate in the sense that I would never want to be tickled by someone I didn't know and have a certain level of trust in. I also do NOT like to be tickled in public. I don't mind being tickled in front of a small group of close friends, but if there are people I don't know sitting around watching, I get very uncomfortable, so it's intimate in that sense as well.

If you mean intimate as in romantic and/or sexual, the answer is sometimes. Most of the time tickling is just playful and fun, but under the right circumstances, can still be a turn on. And, of course, as with many of us, with the right person it can be a very sexy activity.

 

[milagros317]

It depends on the situation for me. It can be playful and friendly in one circumstance but it can be intimate in another circumstance. It isn't necessarily intimate for me. 😀

 

[c7_assassin]

I have five seconds before going to watch Harry Potter so I'll ask really quick:

Tickling:

Intimate thing for you or not?

Let's not get distracted from the real issue here:

What were you doing watching Harry Potter? 😛

 

[Musicroxmysox]

I too feel that it can be both.

Playful with friends, intimate with someone I am interested with.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Depends.

Hi, I miss you.

 

[pratt2112]

Intimate?

Yes absolutely!

 

[b0xr]

It is both intimate and playful. Tickling arouses me there I said it

 

[playgirl]

it depends. light tickling seems more erotic and intimate while torturous tickling is more fun and playful.

 

[SilverHealer84]

For me, it really depends on the mood and environment. Most of the time, it's just playful and a sweet (and wonderfully tortuous) bonding experience between hubby and I, but sometimes it really gets me going and it quickly leads to other things 😉

 

[tklee88]

It's always intimate in the sense that I would never want to be tickled by someone I didn't know and have a certain level of trust in. I also do NOT like to be tickled in public. I don't mind being tickled in front of a small group of close friends, but if there are people I don't know sitting around watching, I get very uncomfortable, so it's intimate in that sense as well.

dead on...we are like the same person.. DREAM TEAM!!!!!!!! 😀

 

[rhiannon]

Definitely intimate.

 

[Tissueboy]

For me it depends on the mood thats set, and how it's being done. And with who. So it can be very intimate i guess, or not really at all.

 

[starburstz91]

Let's not get distracted from the real issue here:

What were you doing watching Harry Potter? 😛

Lol. I thought that was funny.

But anyways, so me, it depends who I'm with, and if the dude does the tickling right, or what.

For it to be an extreme turn on, the tickling would have to be something that we both enjoy, and some other little.. kinks that I like, but won't mention.

Usually, I wouldn't pick tickling to be totally intimate, even if it is part of my sexuality.

 

[naughtylucy]

It's always intimate for me, which I suppose is why it horrifies me if I'm tickled by someone who I don't want to be intimate with.

I've noticed, recently, that if I'm unexpectedly tickled when I don't want to be, my instinct isn't to laugh and wriggle, but to clench all my muscles and become silent.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Intimate? Yes. Always.

Sexually intimate? Generally only with Drew. This is primarily a playful and fun thing for me when shared with friends. If someone else is tickling me and I start to get turned on, we either shift targets or halt the play. I have no interest in this being sexual with anyone else.

 

[drnkntklr]

It can be. If the other person becomes as aroused by it as I can then it can be very intimate and maybe even sexual, specially if I am dating the person. If the person, however, is just a friend or something, it is more of a playful thing. When playing with someone else who is into tickling then it becomes intimate but more so in a friendly manner not necessarily sexual.

 

[naughtylucy]

It's always intimate for me, which I suppose is why it horrifies me if I'm tickled by someone who I don't want to be intimate with.

I've noticed, recently, that if I'm unexpectedly tickled when I don't want to be, my instinct isn't to laugh and wriggle, but to clench all my muscles and become silent.

Wait...I'm telling lies. There's the odd time when it isn't sexually intimate. Like with my friends' children. That's completely different. But I can't think of any occasion with an adult when it doesn't tap into something primal and sexually intimate in my brain.