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Tickling Other People While In a Relationship

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So here's an interesting concept / curiosity I was thinking about today and wondered everyone's take on it / experience with it:

For some, tickling is often restricted solely to their significant other and / or people they find themselves to be attracted to or interested in. For others, tickling doesn't have to be attributed to a particular "interest" persay, just some some of connection with the 'lee / 'ler....sometimes no connection at all!

Every now and then we find ourselves in a relationship with someone that yes, we care about and love very much, but doesn't exactly share our kinks and interests, or at least to the extent we'd like to share it. This leads me to the question, how many tickle fetishists, who are in relationships, actively engage in tickle play sessions / tickle fights, etc with other people whether they be close friends or simply play partners? Also, what are your thoughts on tickling other people while in a relationship with a significant other? (Whether you have had experience in that field or not)
 
I don't tickle other people if I am in a relationship.

I am not in a relationship if the person isn't at least open to the idea that a fetish exists. Luckily, I have not met anybody like that.
 
I don't do sessions, simple poking and innocent quick tickles i have done before, a lot of time though my gf and i have ganged up on a friend or visa versa on either of us
 
Nextrend2011 said:
Also, what are your thoughts on tickling other people while in a relationship with a significant other? (Whether you have had experience in that field or not)
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If the person is in a relationship, then his SO must be ok with him and me having a session. I won't play with someone whose SO will be upset because of it.
 
That is something I let my S.O. decide. We set ground rules. Once at a party, a girl was being held by a guy after she pissed him off. My GF said, "Get her D!" I looked at her and she gave me sly look and a nod. She new I was a ticklephile (or whatever the word is) and she was comfortable with me tickling/being tickled by others in a social setting. :thumbsup: It is all about respect and comfort levels. These vary from relationship to relationship.
 
I think the odd innocent or non-sexual tickle isn't a problem. Others may disagree with this, but I actually have no problem with things like foot tickling, because to me at least, it's not sexual, just fun.
 
We should all have tickle buddies

I guess it's possible to date someone who shares your enthusiasm for tickling or at least is willing to go with it in order to satisfy you. But I'll bet the vast majority of folks here find that easier said than done.

For those who don't have to have a tickling encounter include sex, I recommend finding a platonic tickle buddy. While I like the girls I tickle to be attractive, if sex is off-limits with them I could still have a great time tickling them. That way, you can satisfy your need to tickle/be tickled with someone who gets it and then go home and have sex with your lover who doesn't get it.
 
My fetish didn't grow into full bloom until a while after I was married. My husband can't really do much with it, but he's ok with it if I meet my play partner every now and then. He just doesn't want to know about it.
 
just a tickling with others does'nt matter untill its just fun activity rather sexual relation, i usually have tickling with my mate but i do prefer my tickling partner..
 
think everyone is different. some think if its not a sexual thing then no big deal- others view tickling as an intimate part of their relationship and prefer to keep it as such...

honestly, not sure where i fall with this one...
 
ticklemepls said:
think everyone is different. some think if its not a sexual thing then no big deal- others view tickling as an intimate part of their relationship and prefer to keep it as such...

honestly, not sure where i fall with this one...
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Ill volunteer! :hello:
 
I've had the friendly tickles happen with friends - that's happened all of my life. It actually makes me uncomfortable because tickling is so personal to me. I do keep in mind that these fartknockers aren't "one of us" and are just being silly but it still is awkward.

I honestly wouldn't want anyone but my guy doing it and vice versa. To each their own but it's just too sexual for me to just share it with anyone.
 
I think there are a bunch of different types of tickling. To me, tickling is primarily sensual, so it's usually a mode of flirtation or intimacy for me. However, I love playing around with friends (both male and female) and obviously, it isn't always sexual. I want to say that it's kind of like a switch for me, but at the same time, there have been times when I haven't been able to turn it completely off. There was one occasion in particular where I had a guy friend who I was attracted to, who was tickling me to try to get something else, and it took a while for me to finally be able to push him off. So, it I guess it's really different with everyone...

I think my bottom line is that I can tell if it's going to be a game or if it's going to get awkward, so I can usually avoid the awkward situations. If I tickle another guy while I'm in a relationship, it's because we're screwing around and it can't possibly be sexual. If there's any chance that sexual tension would develop, I typically wouldn't let it happen.
 
I consider it to be unfaithful for me to tickle another woman because I know what it does for me. As far as her being tickled it would drive me insane with jealousy.
 
I wouldn't go out of my way to tickle another woman than the one I'm in a relationship with, that's for sure. Maybe a poke or two, but definitely not going to go for any real tickling - it's an essential part of my own sexuality, after all. I do understand that most people don't see it that way so I'd do my best to not be jealous if others want to playfully tickle.
 
To me this depends on a few things. If you can tickle someone other than your significant other and not get sexually aroused and just have fun then that makes it less of an issue in my opinion as long as your significant other is 100% okay with you playing with another person. I personally have not tickled other people while in relationships even though I have not been barred from doing so. In most cases it was from a lack of want than ability to. If I ever did want to play with someone else though I would make sure my significant other was all right with it, and if she was I know I can play without getting aroused and thus it would be okay to me to do so. 🙂

Talk to your significant other about the issue and see how they feel. If they are okay with it then go for it. If not then respect their wishes. 🙂
 
I'm in a relationship with another TMF/Fetlife fella and we are both allowed to play with others based on the rules we've laid out for our relationship.

The key component in making this work is TRUST, TRUST, and more TRUST!

While it is a sexual activity for both of us, it is much more emotionally intimate and special when we do it together, as opposed to playing with others. We both love eachother to death, and know that neither of us are going to run off with some random play partner because of how connected we are on an emotional level. In a way, I think that both of us being able to play with others allows us to realize just how special our relationship is because playing with TMF or fetlife friends is like... eating a Hershey chocolate bar vs. the Lindt chocolate truffle that is playing with my significant other. It's a whole different level of intimacy that can't be reached by someone who I don't fully know or trust, so playing with others poses no threat to either of us in our relationship.

Basically, it's nice to mix it up by playing with different people or bringing others into our play, but in my experience you have to have a very solid relationship for it to work and not leave anyone feeling butthurt.
 
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