tickling relationships

[Jazzland]

Goodness no A tickle fight would be a like a make out session/hitting on/heavy flirtation, tying up sounds like full blown sex to me. I don't know, I've always considered it a bit too intimate. Then again, when I'm in a relationship I'm very....whats the word...I don't like to share 😀 It could be innocent fun but a little bit too personal for me.

And on the other thing,

Girls, would you want your guy tying up another girl and tickling her? Even if he said she was a good friend? Noooo! If he wanted somebody to tickle, he can always tickle me 😀 If he said something like that, I'd say he's a bit too interested in her. "Just really good friends", eh? Ha-rumph.

Definitely agree! You took the ink right out of my pen.

 

[gigglemakr]

I think there is quite a difference between NEST or other gatherings, and one's regular life. At NEST, I have tickled women who were married (with husbands present sometimes, or who in some cases simply weren't into it and so didn't even come to the event) or who had boyfriends in similar circumstances. At gatherings the sexual side of tickling is usually not expressed unless one is with their significant other, and then in private rather than at the event. In regular life it seems to me that that lends itself to much more of a one-on-one situation which could get more sexual. I might not be as comfortable with that situation. If I were in a relationship where there was lots of tickling, I would see no need to tickle outside of that relationship -- except at NEST or some other gathering, where it is the "fun" side of tickling going on. I would have no problem with that.

 

[MoonShadow]

If I was with someone who did not like tickling, I would seek out someone to be a tickle partner. But if I was with someone who was into it as much as I am, I would be satisfied with him and reserve it for an activity that is just between us.