What is tickling to you?
Is it something to do when you're bored?
Is it sexual?
Is it just fun?
If you can think of it what is it that makes tickling so attractive/or addictive to you...
What is tickling to you?
Is it something to do when you're bored?
Is it sexual?
Is it just fun?
If you can think of it what is it that makes tickling so attractive/or addictive to you...
What is tickling to you?
Is it something to do when you're bored?
Is it sexual?
Is it just fun?
If you can think of it what is it that makes tickling so attractive/or addictive to you...
A guy that I would allow to tickle me in that way is a guy that I would be having sex with and I don't just randomly have sex lol. If I was in a relationship with someone, I couldn't imagine another guy's hands on my naked body. To me that's like just letting some random dude touch my breasts.
What is tickling to you?
Is it something to do when you're bored?
Is it sexual?
Is it just fun?
If you can think of it what is it that makes tickling so attractive/or addictive to you...
Tickling is certainly something you can do when you're bored.
It is also something sexual.
And it is DEFINITELY fun! 😉
But yeah, I guess for me personally, tickling is pretty deeply rooted in my sexuality. Even if it's fun it's also something intimate that turns me on, so it's nothing I'd do with just anyone. I guess relatively "harmless" tickle fights is one thing, but when I think of tickling it's usually prolonged tickling, as in a session.
I guess then the question is, how intimate do I consider tickling to be? Like I said, it is sexual to me, but is it actually LIKE sex? Well, no; sex is something I'd only agree to with someone that I have feelings for. I could have a tickling session with "just" a friend, although it'd still have to be someone I'm pretty damn close to. With that said, assuming I was in a relationship I don't see how I'd be interested in tickling anyone other than my SO in the first place. That will probably seem weird to some of you, but like I said, tickling is still something very intimate to me. 🙂
As for what makes me like tickling so much, who knows? What makes a gay person gay? What makes me think tomatoes are tasty while you don't? Everyone have different preferences and tastes, that's just the way it is. I guess if you really pressure me for an answer though, I was always a bit of a sadist. I love the control that tickling gives me, and yes, I love causing the 'lee to suffer.Knowing that the 'lee is absolutely helpless, knowing that I have full control over her mind and body, and feeling the massive amount of trust I've been given... what's NOT to like?
It can be all of those for me. But the way I enjoy it best is in an intimate setting with a romantic partner.
I adore the intense sensations, and the confusion of trying to fight them off at the same time. My skin is very sensitive to touch, so being tickled is wonderfully overwhelming. I enjoy the sensory overload and the struggle to handle something I can't.
I'm also very attracted to the power/powerlessness aspect. It's one thing to be tickled by someone who does not have this as a kink. It's entirely something more incredible when the person doing it does have it, and loves doing it to you...that they're looking to illicit certain reactions, and purposefully drive you insane. I'm attracted to the loss of control for myself, and the intoxicating power the other person is feeling creating such helplessness within me. To fully engage in the experience, which definitely includes the rush I get from the Ler's enjoyment, it must be within a romantic/intimate relationship. I can let go and not be embarrassed by certain effects the tickling has on me, and I can drink in the pleasure my partner is getting from it.
Also I love to laugh. I love being around funny people, love to crack jokes myself (I do laugh at my own jokes
). Laughter is wonderful. So the prospect of being made to laugh by someone's touch, especially someone you love, and not being in control of any of it is f***ing fantastic
(pardon the swearing...I just love it so damn much 😀).
Mmm hmmm!
I need a cold shower now woman! Thanks a lot.😛
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...me too! 😀
For me, tickling is many things. It's playful and fun to initiate a tickle fight at unexpected times. If I've been up for hours on a Sunday morning and ready for breakfast, a tickle attack is just the thing to get my husband moving. It's also very intimate, and I would never tickle anyone in public, and I wouldn't appreciate being tickled then either. I have never casually tickled even a very close friend, probably because I stayed in the closet with my fetish for most of my life. It's also a great feeling to be trusted by enough to tie up and tickle someone to their limits. But there is no adequate way to describe those moments when I'm securely tied up and just about to get tickled...the anticipation, the excitement, dread, the giggling and squirming as those wiggling fingers make their approach, and the contact itself....soooooo ticklish everywhere! How can something so torturous be so ecstatic at the same time? I still use a safeword way sooner than I would like and have a fear of losing control and being tickled to my uppermost limits, but one of the days, I'm going to let it happen.