austickler92
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So my partner has indulged me in my tickling kink to the point she really enjoys being tickled and often refers to herself as my lee. We've had some really fun sessions over the past couple of years. The thing is she can only handle a certain amount, so it's difficult for me to really let my ler side loose and be as ruthless and as merciless as I would like.
This is something we are both aware of and have had some discussions about in recent times. The other night we were talking and she suggested that it might be worth seeing if I can find any other lees to have the occasional session where I can be the evil ler I've been craving to be. It came as a bit of a shock when she suggested this, but I'm very thankful she cares about me enough to even suggest something like that. My first thought was that she was only offering this because she thought it was what I wanted even though it didn't work for her, but after more discussion she's assured me she's completely on board and thinks it could be beneficial for both of us. We're still working through if/what this would look like and what our respective boundaries would be and I'm sure it will take a lot more discussion to get to that point, if we even do. Tickling is a very sexual experience for me, which she is obviously aware of, so that's something that will take a lot of ironing out if it's going to work.
Neither of us have ever had any kind of arrangement of this nature in previous relationships, so we're coming into this as complete novices. I wondered if anyone had any advice who either has or has had a similar arrangement within a relationship? Anything you can suggest would be welcome, including any recommendations of what not to do. Feel free to reply in the comments below or reach out in a private message. Thanks in advance, happy tickling!
This is something we are both aware of and have had some discussions about in recent times. The other night we were talking and she suggested that it might be worth seeing if I can find any other lees to have the occasional session where I can be the evil ler I've been craving to be. It came as a bit of a shock when she suggested this, but I'm very thankful she cares about me enough to even suggest something like that. My first thought was that she was only offering this because she thought it was what I wanted even though it didn't work for her, but after more discussion she's assured me she's completely on board and thinks it could be beneficial for both of us. We're still working through if/what this would look like and what our respective boundaries would be and I'm sure it will take a lot more discussion to get to that point, if we even do. Tickling is a very sexual experience for me, which she is obviously aware of, so that's something that will take a lot of ironing out if it's going to work.
Neither of us have ever had any kind of arrangement of this nature in previous relationships, so we're coming into this as complete novices. I wondered if anyone had any advice who either has or has had a similar arrangement within a relationship? Anything you can suggest would be welcome, including any recommendations of what not to do. Feel free to reply in the comments below or reach out in a private message. Thanks in advance, happy tickling!