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Tied Down or Pinned Down?

I think I'm another one who likes the whole tying down aspect.

I have a back injury and asthma, so the idea of being pinned down sounds..painful. Even if it's just to trap my arms down with his knees and he's not actually sitting on me, that just sounds painful for my back.

What can I say? I'm a wimpus.
 
As a lee, I have never been tied down so I can only say pinned down. I do want to try being tied down at some point
 
I am more playfully being tickled. I enjoy some playful tickle wrestling long as not too fierce and not too rough. I do enjoy and I do like bondage a lot but it has to be light to medium bondage-nothing too scary-nothing too hardcore. I am not really into the major hardcore bondage. I am more for silk scarves, velcro underbed restraints and bondage devices easily come off or get out of if I start to panic or freak. However when I am big time tickled-I wiggle and squirm like mad-gets really intense it can at times. So it is best when I am tickled for real long spans of time-to be restrained.

I like both but more like the playful tone of being lightly but firmly held and tickled -being restrained and strapped down firmly and not able to move is not really for me. I like bondage and being restrained if I have some wiggle room. I am more for having my lees restrained lot easier that way-I can playfully try to restrain the lee myself-but that can get difficult at times.
 
I love both!

I love the idea of being tied down because well, let's face it. It's awesome. To feel that vunerable, to feel so exposed, not being able to flinch, to know you're fucked before anything happens = awesome!

But I love the idea of being pinned just as much. I love being able to feel like I have a chance (when I really don't lol). I love the struggle and the crazy flapping around of random sweaty body parts, and then that final wrestle before you're pinned down for good, completely exhausted of course, panting and spent and only then you realize how fucked you truly are.

It's all happy in my book. 😀
 
Amazon Amanda did a few videos of her pinning down girls and tickling them. Most video clips that I see use bondage, so I find that a nice change of pace when someone is pinned. I do enjoy a BBW pinning down a small girl, or a couple of small girls pinning down a BBW.
 
Pinned! Absolutely! Nothing beats a ticklefight! for me anyway.
 
this may sound weird, but in sessions I have had I have found I have found I am more ticklish when I am pinned down. Such as if I am tickled by two mistresses if I am untied I may have one straddling my arms and one on my legs attacking my upper body. If there is one the one ties me up but straddles me. I am more ticklish when they straddle me/pin me as oppose to just tie me and don't lean on me at all. Anyone else find this? Could it be because there is less of a chance to escape?
 
I must say, that I like pinning down the most, both as lee and ler. I like the fight and the anticipation of tickling during the struggle, and the sexy touch of the bodies.
 
I prefer pinned. I don't like the idea of the ler being able to just walk away and leave me stranded.

I guess I have abandonment issues. 😀
 
I dunno

Aimee said:
When I'm 'lee- I'd prefer pinned down.
Love the struggle and control of the 'Ler.

When I'm 'Ler-Tied down.
I'm 5'2. You need to be tied down so I can get every vulnerable spot.
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Now i dont see the fairness in that Aimee, we need to be able to get all your vulnerable spots too :3poke:
 
As a Lee, I need to be tied down. I play foosball on a professional tournament level (that's not a typo. We'll say Table Soccer to clarify) and after 17 years of involvement, I have aches and pains in my shoulders and whatnot and I need complete immobility when tickled to avoid aggravating a sore spot or worse, causing a serious injury.

As a Ler however, I love pinning because I can switch from tickling to cuddling back and forth which gives it a much more sexual and intimate aura.
 
I'd say that 99% of me tickling my wife is when she is pinned down. I am in complete control of her. I am 180lbs. and she is 5'0" 120lbs. and very easily dominated. I always tickle her after she has had an orgasm, when she's most vulnerable. She will actually put her arms above her head in anticipation of the very light stroking and poking. Just the lightest touches will drive her crazy, and I touch her all up and down her ribs and upper body. Last week, we were having sex and after she came, I started lightly tickling her, as mentioned. She was getting wetter as I was tickling her. She mentioned that ( I already knew) and I told her I felt it too. I tickled her some more, then I orgasmed. Great night! I Love it when she allows me to tie her. It just doesn't happen much anymore. I am optomistic it will happen before summer ends. :omg:
 
I love both. I love bondage and fear play. I get a huge thrill out of being tied and vulnerable, but I also get a huge thrill being pinned down. I'm a fairly strong woman so I love it when the person has to use just about all of his/her strength to hold me down. It feels like they are putting me in my place so to speak when I am subbing. I love it when I get to the point where I just give up and give in. I go into complete sub space then and then I feel the dom/domme has proved his or herself to me.
 
porcelaindoll2 said:
I love both. I love bondage and fear play. I get a huge thrill out of being tied and vulnerable, but I also get a huge thrill being pinned down. I'm a fairly strong woman so I love it when the person has to use just about all of his/her strength to hold me down. It feels like they are putting me in my place so to speak when I am subbing. I love it when I get to the point where I just give up and give in. I go into complete sub space then and then I feel the dom/domme has proved his or herself to me.
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sub-space?
 
trifalcon4 said:
sub-space?
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Gotta love Urban Dictionary!
subspace- In a D/s relationship, that very special place the submissive enters when he/she totally trusts his/her Dominant, and totally immerses in an intense scene. The sub may not be capable of making rational decisions about his/her safety and well-being at this point.

It is the responsibility of the Dom to provide for the welfare of his/her sub, as he/she has trusted him to do. It is also the Dom's responsibility after the scene to help the sub to return to "vanilla space" after the scene. This entails providing both physical and emotional assurance to the sub, until he/she regains his/her sense of self, and is known as, "aftercare".
Dom: "Sweetie?" Hey... it's time to come back. You made me very happy today, and I love you." <Kisses sub on the neck>

sub: "Sir? Sorry... i was gone for awhile. You know, in subspace. i'm so happy i made you happy. i'd really like to do that again sometime, if it pleases You".
 
porcelaindoll2 said:
Gotta love Urban Dictionary!
subspace- In a D/s relationship, that very special place the submissive enters when he/she totally trusts his/her Dominant, and totally immerses in an intense scene. The sub may not be capable of making rational decisions about his/her safety and well-being at this point.

It is the responsibility of the Dom to provide for the welfare of his/her sub, as he/she has trusted him to do. It is also the Dom's responsibility after the scene to help the sub to return to "vanilla space" after the scene. This entails providing both physical and emotional assurance to the sub, until he/she regains his/her sense of self, and is known as, "aftercare".
Dom: "Sweetie?" Hey... it's time to come back. You made me very happy today, and I love you." <Kisses sub on the neck>

sub: "Sir? Sorry... i was gone for awhile. You know, in subspace. i'm so happy i made you happy. i'd really like to do that again sometime, if it pleases You".
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ah, gotcha.

i think i might've reached this a couple times, we just didn't call it that *shrug*
 
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