TMF gripe

[blootwentytoo]

I know this is a waste of time but...

do you think we could stop the flood of posts/thread titles calling /m tickling disgusting and creepy? As a woman who's into /m, I find it really inconsiderate and rude that my sexuality is put down and marginalized like this. I also find that it takes away from whatever i've posted/read/seen and liked when there are a dozen posts saying "it would have/should have been a girl in that scene".

Try to imagine if every single /f thing you see on this site was followed by a bunch of posts talking about how it should have been /m, and/or how sick it made everyone. I very much doubt any man would continue to post here/brush it off with a smile if that were the case.

 

[Tamia78]

I know what you mean, but good luck. Stupid/rude people tend to want to make themselves known.

--T

 

[venray]

You make a very good point....Too many put down things they dont like or that they fear instead of just moving on and letting others enjoy....

 

[kurchatovium]

Am I a guy who enjoys f/m clips, images and stories and I know what you mean. I just tend to ignore any rudeness and enjoy the content that is here. There is a fair amount of /m content and I do think its growing which is a good thing I think. 🙂

 

[TMF Jeff]

I know this is a waste of time but...

do you think we could stop the flood of posts/thread titles calling /m tickling disgusting and creepy? As a woman who's into /m, I find it really inconsiderate and rude that my sexuality is put down and marginalized like this. I also find that it takes away from whatever i've posted/read/seen and liked when there are a dozen posts saying "it would have/should have been a girl in that scene".

Try to imagine if every single /f thing you see on this site was followed by a bunch of posts talking about how sick it made everyone. I very much doubt any man would continue to post here/brush it off with a smile if that were the case.

We have rules against that, when you see it please report it.

 

[blootwentytoo]

edit: "would have BEEN BETTER if it had been a girl."

like who are they to make that blanketed judgement for everyone?

 

[Soda Bobinski]

I know what you mean, but good luck. Stupid/rude people tend to want to make themselves known.

--T

You make a very good point....Too many put down things they dont like or that they fear instead of just moving on and leting others enjoy....

Yeah ...

I've never understood the practice of chiming in w/negativity & put-downs rather than just moving on & finding content that is to one's preference.

You don't like something? Keep the hell quiet & find something you do like.

 

[solescratcher99]

Hum. I don't understand why anyone would even waste their time looking (let alone writing a comment) if they weren't interested in it. Sounds like its really just a waste of their personal time.

 

[blootwentytoo]

Well, I just read a certain eleven page thread about a certain movie coming out, most of which was devoted to that sentiment, and another post of this type on one of my old threads, but i'm reluctant to report those because i'd much rather people just stop making those types of posts of their own volition than have those posts censored.

 

[ftmench]

I think hose absolutely suck...so I just skip over it. If people don't like something, they should do the same.

 

[solescratcher99]

Well, I just read a certain eleven page thread about a certain movie coming out, most of which was devoted to that sentiment, and another post of this type on one of my old threads, but i'm reluctant to report those because i'd much rather people just stop making those types of posts of their own volition than have those posts censored.

Wanting to change people's attitudes is fine when its done with proper intentions. In other words, you're not doing it because you don't respect their right to not respect your preference. You still have to accept the fact that there are assholes who have zero respect for other people's personal preferences. Personally, I have no desire to see f/m or m/m tickling, but I don't personally go around condescending other people's views on the matter. That's a completely retarded thing to do and shows zero respect for individuals rights to be individuals.

 

[Helena]

I haven't seen the particular thread(s) you are referring to.

We have a mixture of lers and lees of both sexes, and we should be able to enjoy what we like, and pass by what we don't. I do it, and I find lots of clips to my liking.

 

[Cavum]

Yeah it's idiotic that people react like that. It seems like nothing is good enough for them. People like different things even within the same fetish and people should respect eacother for that. There are THOUSANDS of threads with /f videos on this forum, so why they even bother to take the time to go to a /m thread just to write crap is pathetic if you ask me.

But do as Jeff says. If you see it then report it, cause TMF is a great place and everyone should be respected for what they like even that it's not everyones "cup of tea" (unless it's something illegal).

🙂

 

[Onlyfornow]

I'm a straight male whose favorite kind of tickling is f/m. While I don't like m/m, I find it ridiculous that people need to discriminate against it. It's clearly for straight woman and gay guys, so I don't know why people who aren't either of those need to be so outspoken about their dislike of it.

 

[Goodieluver]

Eh, its no real different than people who will go through threads and say "More feet tickling" or "Nylons next time" etc etc and then people who complain about too much feet tickling and no UB or whatnot

I just scroll past and move on not caring. Most of the comments come from low post counts anyway and since

I only pay attention to posts to relative post counts. Hence why milagros is God here

 

[LD_Tickler]

Hating on /m material is an obvious symptom of homophobia. Men see it and are seized with the need to make sure everyone knows how much they dislike it, so they can posture however their super ego dictates. Don't let it get to you.

 

[Artoo]

Heh. When I shot a video with Bella, the preview she posted here was watched, and (possibly) enjoyed by many.

But one poster wrote to complain that the male tickling was "freaking him out again." Even though he had read the title of the thread (British bloke bound, F/M, etc etc) and had (I assume) clicked on the video file in the hopes that it was actually an f/f or f/m clip in disguise. 🙄

 

[Lord Doctor]

Guess some people just like to bitch.
That which I do not like I do not watch nor comment on.

Others should do the same.

 

[milagros317]

edit: "would have BEEN BETTER if it had been a girl."

like who are they to make that blanketed judgement for everyone?

As an author of purely F/m stories, I never appreciated comments like that either. 🙁

I always put F/m (or FF+/m) in the title of the thread so that potential readers will know they are getting.

 

[lenjo]

Hum. I don't understand why anyone would even waste their time looking (let alone writing a comment) if they weren't interested in it. Sounds like its really just a waste of their personal time.

Years ago, in a university library far away, I found a book on hypnotism. The title page and several other pages were covered with remarks like, "How can anyone believe such utter nonsense?" "You people are insane to take this seriously" "This crap is..." etc.

Later across campus in the medical library of the university, I happened on a duplicate copy of the same book on an obscure bookshelf in a back room. The title page and several other pages were covered with remarks like, "How can anyone beleive such utter nonsense?" "You people are insane to take this seriously" "This crap is..." etc. (in the same handwriting).

Hypnosis can be is a scary subject, and someones fear-based obsession drove him to hunt not one but two dragons -- to fight for the safety of his world.

There's a moral here...

 

[naughtylucy]

Yes, it irritates me as well. Don't think there's an awful lot we can do about it...this forum is a strikingly conservative community, for some reason, and there seems to be a lot of folk who go out of their way to advertise their homophobia.

And yes, it's clear that a lot of the people who insist on bitching about their delicate eyes being offended by the sight of a naked, vulnerable man also go out of their way to watch /m in detail. Possibly multiple times, just to be sure that they've observed the scene from every angle. And maybe squeezed one out just for good measure.

 

[ViperGTS]

I love the people that post things such as, "You know, I don't need to see another guy's floppy cock and jiggling hairy ballsac bounding around" or "Oh man, that's so weird watching one guy tickle another guy's bare, tied down feet like that!"

Amazing how closely they paid attention, for someone who doesn't like watching that material...lol

 

[goblue44]

I may understand it a little

I recall some time ago after watching a F/M preview clip, someone called it gay material, and I thought what in the hell is he talking about. I am a stright male and a lee. I like videos of girls tickling someone and don,t care who they are tickling. I would be turned off by M/M material. After thinking about it, I can maybe see how a guy who was strickley a ler and had no interest in the tickler in a video would think a F/M one was for gays. They should consider the fact that some of us are more interested in the ler than the lee. Has anyone considered this?

 

[kis123]

Yes, it irritates me as well. Don't think there's an awful lot we can do about it...this forum is a strikingly conservative community, for some reason, and there seems to be a lot of folk who go out of their way to advertise their homophobia.

And yes, it's clear that a lot of the people who insist on bitching about their delicate eyes being offended by the sight of a naked, vulnerable man also go out of their way to watch /m in detail. Possibly multiple times, just to be sure that they've observed the scene from every angle. And maybe squeezed one out just for good measure.

I love your posts!

 

[Artoo]

As an aside, whenever posts like this come up, I think of this thread here. It makes me laugh.

http://ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=121668