to all LERs…

[TickleTortureGuy]

To all LERs, I was just wondering… when you are having a tickling session and your LEE is all tied up and helpless and you’re tickling her/him for an extensive amount of time, what is your end game? Or how do you know when enough is enough and what do you hope to accomplish in the session to finally make you stop and release your LEE to go free?
With the exception of your LEE yelling a safeword, how do you determine when to stop and end the session?

 

[WickedTouch]

The lee is gifting me their time, trust, and energy, so they have the say there. If they want to be broken, I'll try to tickle until they're broken. If they want a time duration, we'll do that. If they truly want me to decide, I'll go until I'm tired, or until they are showing signs of moving into unexpected comfort or distress. This is why I always emphasize that it is very important to get to know the lee and to thoroughly communicate wants, needs, expectations, and limits. Even in a CNC scenario (and I have to have known them for a while if we're doing that), I'm not going to cause them unreasonable distress or risk, and usually will put a time-limit on it, if only for a quick check in, snack, and water break. If they want more afterward, we can continue.

 

[FFT32]

Short of Rachel safwording, our sessions typically end by her saying something like, "do me, now" and we make love. Or, my arousl is so frenzied that I stop tickling and slide Mr. Happy between her soles.

 

[frankied21]

Short of Rachel safwording, our sessions typically end by her saying something like, "do me, now" and we make love. Or, my arousl is so frenzied that I stop tickling and slide Mr. Happy between her soles.

This is how a lot of my sessions go too, but I have so many ways of mixing tickling and other things. Would love to chat

 

[Sunriseticklee]

My endgame is determined by the desires of my ticklee (for the most part). I usually ask them what their goals are for the session. If they want to be tickled until they say their safe word, that's what I will try to do. If they want a lighter, playful session... their wish is my command.

Honestly, their pleasure is my pleasure.

However, if there is pain, distress, or anything that makes my ticklee feel uncomfortable, the session will end. It really isn't my goal to break or torture someone unless they really want it. I tend to take a "If you like it, then I love it (for you) approach."

And for the ones whom I have played with over the years (and we know each other), I may play with revenge in mind. 😅

 

[SirTristran]

Same as what everyone has said really.

Depends on the session and the lee and her desires.

I like to think Im able to tailor my approach to a sesh to suit the situation. Sometimes work towards a safeword or a breakpoint where they cant handle it anymore, or sometimes start off torturous but evolve it to pleasure over time and finish them that way, or just let it flow and dont plan anything. Have a sesh which is just a total mix of chats, cuddles, banter and tickles thrown in.

I try to understand and gauge what my lee wants from a sesh before hand and then plan it out to suit. I enjoy everything and all sorts of scenarios so I try to plan to tick all their boxes so they want to come back again and again. Their pleasure is mine as well.

I promise my lees the same thing every time and that is

When you meet me, give me 5 minutes and you will feel safe and comfortable
And
I promise to leave you smiling, satisfied, unharmed and exhausted

 

[brotherted]

Generally, I'm done when I'm finding things are becoming repetitive.

In other words, I like to keep changing things up, from lighter vs. firmer, to poking vs. jiggling, to different body parts, to different forms of verbal teasing / psychological gaming, etc. Any maybe I'll go back to repeat some of those things in different combinations. But once the combinations of those things start feeling repetitive to me, that's when I prefer to end things on a strong note and instead return another day.