To the Guys of the TMF!

[..Glamorous..]

Alrighty, is it really honestly hard to tell if a girl is not interested in talking to you? Today (for the millionth (& last time I was tolerating it)) I received an IM from a fellow lurker.. One of many today, and He very obviously could not take the hint that I didn't want to talk. He then proceeded to TRY and force me into talking about tickling, In which I flipped my shit and said some pretty freaky shit to get him to leave (which didn't work btw) and then blocked him. Why is it so hard to get a hint that is SO obvious?

 

[EcEu]

good work glam 🙂

 

[Adam]

Because some men are horny idiots that don't want to take no for an answer. That's really all it boils down to. It's a frustrating problem that a lot of the girls run into on the TMF. I don't blame you for flipping your lid, Glam. I applaud it, in fact. Guys like that need to understand that you're not going to take their bullshit.

 

[..Glamorous..]

Yes, I'll have to thank Badreligion for the help on that one!

 

[Bugman]

Because some men are horny idiots that don't want to take no for an answer. That's really all it boils down to. It's a frustrating problem that a lot of the girls run into on the TMF. I don't blame you for flipping your lid, Glam. I applaud it, in fact. Guys like that need to understand that you're not going to take their bullshit.

Indeed.I am often amazed that so many of our lovely ladies stick around at all,given the number of jerks who have no clue about how to treat a woman.Most of them I suspect are basement dwellers with no job,prospects for a life and completely lacking in social skills.

 

[..Glamorous..]

Indeed.I am often amazed that so many of our lovely ladies stick around at all,given the number of jerks who have no clue about how to treat a woman.Most of them I suspect are basement dwellers with no job,prospects for a life and completely lacking in social skills.

Oh yeah, I wasn't even saying anything to him half the time and he kept on going.

 

[kered]

I'm all for you Glam. I Can only imagine this type of behavior stems from the fact that they are protected by a keyboard and have no fear of real life consequences. One wonders if they try this sort of shit in a lounge or even in the vegetable aisle of a grocery store. The answer is probably no.

 

[..Glamorous..]

I'm all for you Glam. I Can only imagine this type of behavior stems from the fact that they are protected by a keyboard and have no fear of real life consequences. One wonders if they try this sort of shit in a lounge or even in the vegetable aisle of a grocery store. The answer is probably no.

Oh there is no doubt he was trying to get some "satisfaction" from our convo, I'm guessing he was sitting in his mom's basement. lol

 

[MWhoTklsFemFeet]

Oh there is no doubt he was trying to get some "satisfaction" from our convo, I'm guessing he was sitting in his mom's basement. lol

Hey now, I sat in my mom's basemaent for a while!

Seriously, I've said this before in chat, its guys like the one that bugged you that make hard on guys like me, memo to all guys that dont get the hint, TAKE THE FREAKING HINT!

It's not the end of the world, you will live on, stop freaking the girls here out.

 

[Tomskee]

Glam I'm so sorry about some males on the forum. Remember these morons are boys not men. Real men don't pull shit like this.

 

[LeeAllure]

What works for me is to tell people that I don't want to talk about
tickling, I only like TO tickle, and no, I'm not ticklish.

Now, not all of that may work for you, but it's far easier to
tell someone that off the bat, than beat around the bush, and
let them think that maybe I'd be ok with talking about it.

If they still want to talk about non-tickling things after that,
then great. I know that they might be friends. Otherwise, I
say good-riddance to someone who only wanted one thing
from me.

Lee

 

[..Glamorous..]

What works for me is to tell people that I don't want to talk about
tickling, I only like TO tickle, and no, I'm not ticklish.

Now, not all of that may work for you, but it's far easier to
tell someone that off the bat, than beat around the bush, and
let them think that maybe I'd be ok with talking about it.

If they still want to talk about non-tickling things after that,
then great. I know that they might be friends. Otherwise, I
say good-riddance to someone who only wanted one thing
from me.

Lee

Oh no I told him I straight up was not in the mood to talk about tickling, and I would be glad to talk to him but absolutely non-fetish related, and he still kept going.. LOL.

 

[vladtickleman22]

Good for you. You had every right to flip out. As was said before some guys are just horny idiots. I am amazed and happy to see so many of the women have stuck around through all the crap. The number of PMs deleted per day must be a phenominal number.

 

[maniactickler]

Its because most men suck.

 

[Bugman]

Oh no I told him I straight up was not in the mood to talk about tickling, and I would be glad to talk to him but absolutely non-fetish related, and he still kept going.. LOL.

Punt such morons over the goal posts of life,there is nothing else to be done with them methinks.😉

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Why is it so hard to get a hint that is SO obvious?

For them: Ignorance is bliss.

They are obviously looking for a fix of some sort. Everything you did, especially blocking him/her/french fries was the best thing.

 

[ElephantEye]

It's the old "hit on every girl you 'meet' & one in a hundred or whatever will say 'yes'" thing. Plus, those with nothing to lose have...nothing to lose. Gotta know when to cut your losses and move on, of course.

Then there's the usual online anonymity, etc. Sucks, but no one ever said being a young attractive female was a bed of roses. Gotta develop thick skin, good radar & a quick trigger finger.

 

[slacker2114]

While I would never apologize for the actions of asshats like the one you mentioned, I'm glad you told him off.

However, if this happens again in the future, may I suggest the following statements that may deter them...

- Tell them you would love to talk with them about tickling....after you've confirmed that he has accepted Jesus Christ as his lord and savior.

- Tell him you would never allow anyone to tickle you unless they first allowed you to shove a lamp up their ass.

- Tell him you'd love it if he tickled you...especially under your balls.

And if none of that works, you may want to change your screen name, because obviously, this guy has mental problems they don't even have names for yet.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

Well I'm glad you told him off, Glam. It's people like that (who almost border on being a stalker) who keep a lot of women away.

I'm glad you ripped him into shreds. Some people just have no clue what it means to act like a gentleman.

 

[..Glamorous..]

While I would never apologize for the actions of asshats like the one you mentioned, I'm glad you told him off.

However, if this happens again in the future, may I suggest the following statements that may deter them...

- Tell them you would love to talk with them about tickling....after you've confirmed that he has accepted Jesus Christ as his lord and savior.

- Tell him you would never allow anyone to tickle you unless they first allowed you to shove a lamp up their ass.

- Tell him you'd love it if he tickled you...especially under your balls.

And if none of that works, you may want to change your screen name, because obviously, this guy has mental problems they don't even have names for yet.

I used something along the lines of the second one, however I said a hot poker.. He was still interested.

 

[slacker2114]

I used something along the lines of the second one, however I said a hot poker.. He was still interested.

RUN, GLAMMY, RUN!!!!! Use the cannon as your escape!!

Seriously though, guys like him give guys like me a bad name. And I despise them for it. Maybe you should take him up on the hot poker thing.

 

[..Glamorous..]

RUN, GLAMMY, RUN!!!!! Use the cannon as your escape!!

Seriously though, guys like him give guys like me a bad name. And I despise them for it. Maybe you should take him up on the hot poker thing.

Where's klint when you need him!

 

[Adam]

Where's klint when you need him!

Right heerz. Klint to the rescue! 😛

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[..Glamorous..]

Right heerz. Klint to the rescue! 😛

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HAHAHAH! (just so you know the minute I saw that, I laughed and said fuck you out loud!)

 

[Bohemianne]

Goodluck Glam. By now this will serve as a warning to some men (or boys - like tomskee said) to act accordingly. The right use of words and manners can go a long way. You said he's a lurker, right? Our common popular guys who post often here don't do that! Some are even so elite and well-mannered that you want to hit them with a bottle to bring out that little rudeness in them...😀 😱 (joke)