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tough day for kitties

ticklkitten

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Well, the day is pretty much over but say a little prayer please friends... my mom has been gone for 13 years today. Wow... what a crazy thing... feels like yesterday and 90 years ago all at the same time.

That's half my life!
 
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You have my best wishes, kitten. I know how hard something like that is to get through. Your a very strong person though, and I know you can keep your head up!
 
I know how you feel, my pretty kitty!

It'll be 10 years next month (Aug 17) since my mom's been gone. It feels like a lifetime has passed without her. My heart goes out to you. :Kiss2: :twohugs: :grouphug:
 
Sending you a hug Kitten. I am sure she is watching over you though. She will always be here in your heart.
 
My best thoughts are with you Kitten.

As I write this, My 77 year old mother's health is failing. She was in the hospital all last week, and was finally allowed to return home. Oxygen tank, private nurse, etc. My siblings and I aren't sure how much time she has left.

I can't imagine her gone. It makes me feel like a kid when I think that parents are never supposed to die....they'll always be there, ya know? :grouphug:


The Sean Man
 
We just observed the 30th anniv. of my grandfathers passing this weekend. I know exactly what you mean. I'll say an extra prayer for her...and one for you too.

Ann
 
Well, she did the best thing she could have possibly done, which was - made a good kid. Good for her and for you!

I don't know about this crowd you're hanging with, though.....
 
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Your Mother's Job was Well Done Indeed

Good reply, Oddjob.

Kitten:
Your Mom is with you still, darlin'; in your everyday life lessons that she taught you. Everyone hopes to have a long relationship w/ their parents but parents end up having a lifetime relationship w/ their kids in the happy home, the love of sibblings & the closeness of a family that was bequeathed to you & your future from them.

Kahil Gibran, (to the effect of, anyway) wrote: "Your children are not your children. They are the sons & daughters of life's longing for itself; they come from you but belong not to you for they dwell in the house of tomorrow which you may not visit, not even in your dreams. Parents are the archers from which you, the arrow, is sent forward into the unknown. But as God loves his arrows sent forward in flight, so too does He love the caring archer who sends the arrow straight & true."

Kitten, Your Mother was a Good Archer.
Bug :wavingguy
 
Prayers and hugs are on the way kitten. If you ever need to talk I am always here for you. :wub: :redheart:
 
Consider it done kitten. As I post this my father has been gone for almost 12 years and it seems so long since I have seen him but so close to his passing. It's weird. My heart goes out to you. Keep a stiff upper lip (as hard as it might be)
 
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Hi Ticklkitten,

My prayers are certainly with you today. I know your pain and sorrow. I've been there done that.

There is a shoulder here if ya ever need one. But don't you worry, Mom is with you right where she should be, in your heart.

ALL my prayers Sweetie, and big HUGS of comfort. :twohugs:

witchtickler :bunny:
 
Love and memories

Dear Kitten
I know that you don't really know me but I'd just like to say that my heart goes out to you.
I am about your age, very close to my family and I have to say that I simply can't imagine a world without them in it. But I've always believed that our most important purpose on this planet is to create new life and to go through our lives touching the lives of others (be they family, friends, sons and daughters). And then when we eventually die ourselves, eventhough that body has died, you are never truly dead aslong as there is someone left behind who treasures happy memories of you.
I am sure that, eventhough your Mum was only with you for a short time, that you have many happy memories of her, hold onto them, tell as many people as you can about her and try to touch and effect the lives of as many people as you can in your own lifetime, filling their lives with happy memories of you and in that way you and your mum will never truly die.
My Nan died about 8 years ago, I still miss her but I now live in the house where she lived for well over sixty years, the same one where my Dad was born and grew up, and where I have only happy memories of my Nan being.
I know her body is now long gone, but I feel that i am constantly surrounded by her and for that reason she is still very much alive in my heart, in my memories of her and in those of the rest of my family everytime they come see me.
I apologise if this post seems a bit of a ramble but in the end all I want to say is that my thoughts are very much with you at this sad time and that I will say a little prayer for you and hope that whoever your god is that he blesses you and keeps you safe.

Lots of love
:justlips:
 
You guys say some wonderful words and share fantastic thoughts. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes right now. Wow.

She died when I was 13, right on the cusp of growing up, becoming the person I was meant to be. I know she is watching but the urge to talk with her is SO strong. You grow up thinking that you have no idea what you would ever do if you lost a parent... it's amazing that you find strength where you never knew you had it.

I'll share a dream with you. I talk about my mom as much as possible, she was an amazing woman... but shortly after she died, I had a dream... The scenery is like that if I were flying over some snowy mountaintops... but that isn't what was significant. I heard her voice. I can still hear how clear it is... "It is so beautiful, Heaven is different for everyone. It is exactly what you want it to be" That has stuck with me SO detailed for so many years now.

Here is something I'd like to show you... this is her on her wedding day... this is my favorite picture ever. So full of life... and for those who know me or have seen my pic... the resemblence is uncanny.
 
Beauty definitely runs in your family, Kitten. She looks like she was a fantastic person. You've inherited a lot of positive traits from her.
 
Kitten, I've never known the type of pain you must have gone through when you lost your mom. I firmly believe that your favorite picture of her... that is exactly the way she smiles when she's looking down on you from Heaven. I wish you the very best in getting through the hurt. We're all here for you.
 
I know exactly where you're coming from Kitten.

My mum died less than a year ago and it seems like yesterday to me too. My thoughts are with you and if I could hug you right now I would gladly do so.:twohugs: :twohugs: :twohugs:

ticklkitten said:
Well, the day is pretty much over but say a little prayer please friends... my mom has been gone for 13 years today. Wow... what a crazy thing... feels like yesterday and 90 years ago all at the same time.

That's half my life!
 
ticklkitten said:
You guys say some wonderful words and share fantastic thoughts. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes right now. Wow.

She died when I was 13, right on the cusp of growing up, becoming the person I was meant to be. I know she is watching but the urge to talk with her is SO strong. You grow up thinking that you have no idea what you would ever do if you lost a parent... it's amazing that you find strength where you never knew you had it.

I'll share a dream with you. I talk about my mom as much as possible, she was an amazing woman... but shortly after she died, I had a dream... The scenery is like that if I were flying over some snowy mountaintops... but that isn't what was significant. I heard her voice. I can still hear how clear it is... "It is so beautiful, Heaven is different for everyone. It is exactly what you want it to be" That has stuck with me SO detailed for so many years now.

Here is something I'd like to show you... this is her on her wedding day... this is my favorite picture ever. So full of life... and for those who know me or have seen my pic... the resemblence is uncanny.

:twohugs:

Let me tell you something BEAUTIFUL Lady ANYTIME you get the urge to talk to your Mother, you talk. Don't you never think it is strange or something. WHen that urge is so strong that you wanna talk did you ever consider it might be her talking to you through your heart and memories?? Your Mom is right there Kitten, answer her!!!!!

When I think about my Dad whom I lost also as a teenager, he was my strength. Even today at 41 years old I spreak to him and I feel his presence and I trust it, because I have made some damn good decisions listening to something that wasn't there, but in my heart I KNOW HE'S THERE!!

So you talk, chat, laugh, cry, Mom is listening and she WILL answer!!

witchtickler :happyfloa
 
ticklkitten said:
my mom has been gone for 13 years today.
That's half my life!

Wow, that means you lost your mom in your early teens!
Big hugs kitten!

And bigger prayers that you got through it and turned out alright.
 
ticklkitten said:
You guys say some wonderful words and share fantastic thoughts. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes right now. Wow.

She died when I was 13, right on the cusp of growing up, becoming the person I was meant to be. I know she is watching but the urge to talk with her is SO strong. You grow up thinking that you have no idea what you would ever do if you lost a parent... it's amazing that you find strength where you never knew you had it.

I'll share a dream with you. I talk about my mom as much as possible, she was an amazing woman... but shortly after she died, I had a dream... The scenery is like that if I were flying over some snowy mountaintops... but that isn't what was significant. I heard her voice. I can still hear how clear it is... "It is so beautiful, Heaven is different for everyone. It is exactly what you want it to be" That has stuck with me SO detailed for so many years now.

Here is something I'd like to show you... this is her on her wedding day... this is my favorite picture ever. So full of life... and for those who know me or have seen my pic... the resemblence is uncanny.

Your Mother is Beautiful, just like her kitten!!

witchtickler
 
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