Training for tickle subs/slaves

[dominantler]

ok, kill Me later but thought Id post this...

I am a Dominant in the BDSM lifestyle and have been so for over 20 yrs. And I am a Master trainer of submissives. You can see My profile on collarme or fetlife, to see that I am the real deal. I am considering opening a school to train submissives in the art of being submissive lee's. or training Lers to be safe sane and consensual in the practice of their art as Lers. Do you think this is a good idea? Id love to hear your thoughts on it.

Just a thought...
D

 

[rhiannon]

I would think that most doms want to train their subs themselves! I doubt you will get a whole lot of students!

 

[Angel77]

I think it's a good idea. From what I'm gathering, it's more of a mentoring kind of service that you're wishing to provide? I've been into the BDSM scene for a bit and I know of a few Doms as well as subs have had mentors. I've always been really weary of a Dom that claims that he/she knows it all. Learn a few tips and techniques and then make them your own with your sub? Not a bad idea and I bet a few would take you up on it. Might not be for everyone but I bet you'd get a few bites. 🙂

Good Luck!

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Define "school" please? Education and mentoring sounds like a good idea. Not sure if those (lers) who need it most would be open to it, though. (I'd love to be proven wrong on that, btw.)

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I think that you should look at this as a hobby and not a day job. There would be minimal income unless you operate from your own Dungeon and/or charge hefty sums for your time.

PS: I notice you capitalize to enforce your Position, but why didn't you capitalize the "d" in Dominant?

 

[LD_Tickler]

PS: I notice you capitalize to enforce your Position,

I was wondering about that. Is that a thing? Seems kind of biblical.

As for OPs question, I don't know much about domination lifestyles and what not, but my guess would be that these roles and relationships between people are too personal and idiosynchratic to benefit from any kind of standard curriculum.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I was wondering about that. Is that a thing? Seems kind of biblical.

How do you mean? I've seen many Masters/Dom/me's use that practice before. It just seems norm to me, I guess. I never really looked at it from any other angle.

[[I know I'm taking this off topic, but I don't know how to word it to a new thread. Maybe someone can help? 😛]]

 

[trace1984]

try it see if it works

 

[dominantler]

to answer

well the whole idea is to get people interested in this fetish. I wouldnt be charging for the school, so its not a dayjob as some put it. Its done for the love of the fetish and the lifestyle. and no I dont claim to know it all, never did and never will only a fool claims to have all the answers, when you stop learning you stagnate and die. I just thought it would be something to be as a service to the fetish and lifestyle. Ive had a submissive training school before which went quite well actually. Ive trained over 30 submissives in My time and 50 slaves. this is real life training not online cyber training. All teaching would be toward safe sane and consensual and risk aware consensual kink. I have two submissives that live with Me now who are in fact Me and My Companions tickle slaves, they are loved, cared for, and treated very well in My humble opinion, and I would give any students that came to Me the same respect. Any Lers that came to Me would be treated with dignity, intelligent instruction and would be taught the aspects of SSC and RACK. shrugs...was just an idea.

 

[dominantler]

Also, to the english teacher in this post. I capitalize not to push My dominance on anyone. Its force of habit. gotta love flamers..lol

 

[dominantler]

Im trying to address each post as possible. thank you for the support in the idea those who have given Me positive thoughts. and yes it would be like a mentorship for lers. and training for lee's. So the idea of a "school" would actually come into play with this. People need to be educated on the proper way of using our techniques. There are those who take it too far and there have been documented cases of people collapsing lungs or having seizures from too much of it. This is dangerous and something that needs to be addressed. Safe sane and consensual applies to all kinks fetishes and lifestyles that involve having someone submit to bound administrations of any kink. Safewords have to be used. food for thought....

 

[ticklemepls]

Im trying to address each post as possible. thank you for the support in the idea those who have given Me positive thoughts. and yes it would be like a mentorship for lers. and training for lee's. So the idea of a "school" would actually come into play with this. People need to be educated on the proper way of using our techniques. There are those who take it too far and there have been documented cases of people collapsing lungs or having seizures from too much of it. This is dangerous and something that needs to be addressed. Safe sane and consensual applies to all kinks fetishes and lifestyles that involve having someone submit to bound administrations of any kink. Safewords have to be used. food for thought....

im no expert- and will never claim to be- but to me its common sense that if you dont know what you are doing, then you wouldnt take it too far-

somone mentioned (and forgive me, now i cant remember who) that those who need it most probally wouldnt take you up on it- and thats truely what i think- although very good idea for those who want to sharpen their skills further

 

[dominantler]

thanks, so I guess the bigger question is...Any takers?

 

[Strider]

I was wondering about that. Is that a thing? Seems kind of biblical.

To the best of my understanding (as always, those who know this better than me; please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong), the capitalization of pronouns is something that largely came into vogue in the 1990s when the internet became widespread.

As things stand now; in the community in general, it varies pretty widely as to who uses it and who doesn't. Some do so publicly to maintain a certain image but don't do so in private correspondence. Others do so basically constantly (in my experience, most of them are acknowledged by the scene in general as being Masters/Mistresses). I don't use it to refer to myself generally, but I do use it when I refer to the relationship I have with My girl.

*shrug*

Everybody (or E/everybody) is different.

 

[rhiannon]

You might as well start to just capitalize ALL nouns how it's done in German 😉

 

[Libertine]

How could they possibly resist?

thanks, so I guess the bigger question is...Any takers?

I am sure that the mere thought of You and Your astonishing Domliness will be enough to have the entire female population of the TMF writhing You-ward like something out of the Pied Piper, chequebooks in hand.

Or do You condescend to accept DomPal?

 

[darkhand]

I'm just throwing this out there. I have mentored several people in BDSM. It's not something that I personally charge for, I enjoy the opportunity to share knowledge and protocol while trying to help people find themselves and their personal kink. Again, it's just me...take it or leave it.

Interesting concept though.

 

[This!]

thanks, so I guess the bigger question is...Any takers?

Take This! for whatever it's worth.

You come into a forum a complete stranger. Nobody here knows you. Nobody can vouch for you. We're all supposed to accept your claims of expertise based on the capitalization of your first person pronouns.

I'm not saying you aren't welcome here. You are. But you can't realistically expect to successfully insert yourself into a group of strangers as a teacher or mentor. Sociology just doesn't work that way.

 

[DeBris]

are you edible enough? ops.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Also, to the english teacher in this post. I capitalize not to push My dominance on anyone. Its force of habit. gotta love flamers..lol

Ermm. I'm not an english teacher. 🙄

I was asking why you didn't capitalize the "D" in your handle.

Good luck with your.. school.

 

[dominantler]

what can I say? Force of habit from being part of the cyber-lifestyle as well as the real life, lifestyle too long I suppose. And, you are right, the capitalization of I, Me, My, and Dominant, etc came about as part of the beginnings of the cyber-BDSM lifestyle. Maybe I'm just a bit jaded from too much exposure, or perhaps I just want to give back to a community and a fetish that has given Me so much. Again, Thanks for the input and the offer is open if anyone is interested, just contact Me via email or messenger if interested.

 

[dominantler]

Oh, and libertine..and yeah I didnt cap for a reason....Nice flame job. Wow, do I sense some hurt on your part? Maybe some Mistress made you feel less of a man than you already are? oh, did I say that? wow...harsh....ok um...bye!
And, a point Ive already made if memory serves..this is getting to be quite a long post. yeah, newsflash, professionals get paid for teaching what they know. i.e. TEACHERS, PROFESSORS, PROFESSIONAL JOURNEYMEN and ARTISANS. I happen to know several D/s schools across the US that do charge for instructing submissives as well as Dominants. How do you think they can afford to keep up room and board for their students? or pay for new training materials, or the extra water and electricity being used, and in some cases pay rent on the space rented out for the school..yeah things cost money libertine. In what world do they not? Sorry Im not a multi millionaire with money coming out all orifices to throw around. *though that sounds really painful*
Okay thanks for playing.....hands libertine and all day sucker and points him to exit stage left.

 

[dominantler]

To Crystalight,

sorry hon, thought you were being harsh, Im used to getting slammed by people for Me being the supposed new guy on the block. forgive Me if I hurt you. And in all truth, this keyboard slips on the shift key sometimes so thats probably why. Thanks for the vote of encouragement hon, I truely appreciate it.

 

[dominantler]

Oh and by the way, Hey This. Your right, I cant expect someone to take Me at My word. Nor can I expect someone to believe Me on claims of My laurels, but..hey here's an idea...(leans in and whispers to This) Try checking to see if what I say is true. Talk to the Owner of this board He knows Me quite well from IRC and can vouch for My abilities as a Dom, Hey Bro,(speaking to Myr here) Remember Vicious Himura from Gor? (yeah I can sense a few hundred of you wincing at the mention of Gor) or lets go back a bit further, maybe the handle "Kaminari" from Gorean talk radio?

 

[dominantler]

abd Debris...only My underwear and various parts of My body are edible enough *winks*