two female roommates,i tickle their feet. thoughts.

[mark]

I'm a guy, I love sports, pretty active, a nerdy jock ha, love tickling and female feet. I live with two sisters that are gorgeous. They walk around barefoot often. High arch dirty feet. Footguys know the scene, regardless one sister knows I like rubbing her feet. I tickle them playfully if we're just sitting around. I also tickle the other sisters feet too. I'm wondring if before our lease ends on a drunken rage night if I should tell them how much I love female feet and tickling them. I mean the one sister knows when I'm just goofing off, but I haven't flatout said "I have a foot fetish."

Should I tell them? Have any other guys or gals been in this situation before? Thanks.

 

[rhiannon]

If you want to take the risk that they won't let you touch their feet afterwards anymore, go ahead.

On the other hand I think it's pretty creepy to get your jollies off of people who don't know you're into something.

 

[mark]

good point, thanks.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Sure you can tell them... BUT prepare to be homeless. 😀

Really.... An easy way to make them aware without having "the talk" is to just change your desktop to a sexy pair of feet- and maybe leave a site up by "accident".

LOL Then........ sit back and see how they react. 😛

 

[NonConTickler]

On the other hand I think it's pretty creepy to get your jollies off of people who don't know you're into something.

Only tell them if you think there's a chance they'd let you do it more than they do now. If you think things could get weird keep your mouth shut. It doesn't matter who here thinks what's creepy. You gotta look out for #1, everyone for himself.

 

[WorkInProgress]

The fact that you suggest you might need to be drunk to tell them indicates to me that it's against your better judgment to tell them. I wouldn't.

 

[Adapt]

Look... None of this matters. The real question is... how did YOU get two hot female roommates, who let you rub, and tickle their feet, AND you haven't gotten with one of them? Something is fishy here. One or both of them must have the hots for you. This does not compute.... I see only two ways this happens.

1. You have known each other a long time, and they see you like a brother figure.
2. They think you are gay.

 

[rhiannon]

3. The whole story is fake. 🙂

 

[TicklingTips]

It is not the same thing as grabbing breasts, unless they feel uncomfortable or violated in the same way they would if you did grab their breasts.

Getting turned on by something doesn't mean you can't ethically do it!

And Rhiannon...shhh. Just shh.

 

[dskodj]

three's company : the fetish edition

 

[Speedbump]

It is not the same thing as grabbing breasts, unless they feel uncomfortable or violated in the same way they would if you did grab their breasts.

Getting turned on by something doesn't mean you can't ethically do it!

And Rhiannon...shhh. Just shh.

Yes, shhhh.

 

[Maestro1874]

Sure you can tell them... BUT prepare to be homeless. 😀

Really.... An easy way to make them aware without having "the talk" is to just change your desktop to a sexy pair of feet- and maybe leave a site up by "accident".

LOL Then........ sit back and see how they react. 😛

This, this is unique. 🙂

 

[badreligion]

Op , pics of said girls or gtfo .

 

[april]

It is not the same thing as grabbing breasts, unless they feel uncomfortable or violated in the same way they would if you did grab their breasts.

Getting turned on by something doesn't mean you can't ethically do it!

And Rhiannon...shhh. Just shh.

How is taking advantage of others sexually when they are unnaware ethical? Its not. Ever. You need to shhhh!!!!! Obviousley your the voice of reason and logic.

 

[rhiannon]

How is taking advantage of others sexually when they are unnaware ethical? Its not. Ever. You need to shhhh!!!!! Obviousley your the voice of reason and logic.

Thank you April! 🙂 All I have to do is quote you! 🙂

 

[smokinj]

I completely disagree, you can be aroused by tickling them and they don't need to know. Its like if they were wearing bikinis all the time and you got off on staring at them. Are you going to tell them to put some clothes on? Hell no! Please, its not like grabbing their boobs. People tickle each other all the time in public and private. You don't see people grabbing boobs in public. There is a thing called decency and respect.

The other thing is, don't tell them anything. It will most likely create an uncomfortable living situation. You might not ever get to tickle them again. They will look at you differently and probably kick you out. Remember this is not some fantasy fetish video where they are begging you for it after your admission. Just my opinion.

 

[rhiannon]

There is a thing called decency and respect.

Excatly! And decency and respect tells you not to force your fetish on other people without them suspecting. That is totally disrespectful! A girl wearing a bikini is aware that men will stare at her, totally different situation.

If you have to be afraid the other person will not let you do it anymore once they know that you get off on it, then that should tell you something!

Imagine how you would feel if you found out your urologist got off from sticking his finger up your butt last time you went there for a prostate exam.

 

[primetime]

Excatly! And decency and respect tells you not to force your fetish on other people without them suspecting. That is totally disrespectful! A girl wearing a bikini is aware that men will stare at her, totally different situation.

If you have to be afraid the other person will not let you do it anymore once they know that you get off on it, then that should tell you something!

Imagine how you would feel if you found out your urologist got off from sticking his finger up your butt last time you went there for a prostate exam.

But if I didn't know he got off on that, what harm did it cause me? as long as I don't know, I'm good. People can get aroused from shaking hands. Should someone tell the person, "when you shake my hand, I get aroused?".

 

[rhiannon]

But if I didn't know he got off on that, what harm did it cause me? as long as I don't know, I'm good. People can get aroused from shaking hands. Should someone tell the person, "when you shake my hand, I get aroused?".

Shaking hands is just a natural thing that happens every day. Tickling on the other hand usually has to be initiated - I don't say anything if an unsuspecting friend initiates it, nobody has the obligation to tell someone else "Stop that, it turns me on", but if the person who has a fetish does initiate it, then it's uncalled for. That, in my eyes, is using an unsuspecting person for their own pleasure, and it is just ethically and morally wrong and totally disrespectful.

If you look at it from the harmful side of the question, then it would also be okay to watch unsuspecting women in dressing rooms...because, hey, if they never know...what harm did it cause them?

 

[TicklingTips]

How is taking advantage of others sexually when they are unnaware ethical? Its not. Ever. You need to shhhh!!!!! Obviousley your the voice of reason and logic.

Well let me give you an example. If some attractive woman gives me a hug, or I give her a hug, it might turn me on. I don't believe that makes it unethical to hug.

Or another example - don't we all tend to stare at people we find attractive? Isn't this "taking advantage" of them for our own sexual fulfillment? I don't think this is unethical.

I also don't believe that blanket statements like "It's not. Ever." help much in ethical debate - it's very subjective. I think just the fact that you and I disagree on this shows that it is.

 

[TicklingTips]

Imagine how you would feel if you found out your urologist got off from sticking his finger up your butt last time you went there for a prostate exam.

I don't think this is an equivalent situation. You're talking about the trust and power imbalance involved in a doctor-patient relationship. Not a couple of friends who, apparently, are quite happy to allow some tickling.

 

[phant0m]

Well let me give you an example. If some attractive woman gives me a hug, or I give her a hug, it might turn me on. I don't believe that makes it unethical to hug.

If the woman is a female friend and she's hugging you as a friend and you are deriving sexual pleasure from said hug when she has no reason to suspect you are, then yeah, that's definitely a creeper thing to do.

If a random hot girl off the street walks up and hugs you, then you have every right to enjoy that hug. If your flirting with a girl and she hugs you, also totally cool to find sexual comfort in it. If the relationship is platonic then things change. It's not a black and white situation of "hugging is good or bad," there are different situations that need to be assessed based on the various circumstances.

But if I didn't know he got off on that, what harm did it cause me? as long as I don't know, I'm good.

So would it be okay for me to use my cell phone to look up girls skirts? Or plant a hidden camera in a locker room? Or maybe sneak into a girl's room late at night and lick her feet? So long as she doesn't know, than it's totally fine right? You might argue that in the situations I described the woman's privacy is being violated so that somehow makes the "doesn't know so it can't hurt" point still valid, but it doesn't. Those girls are completely unaware that they are being used for sexual pleasure without their knowledge or consent, which essentially means the OP is objectifying them by turning them into sex toys. That shit ain't cool.

 

[rhiannon]

don't we all tend to stare at people we find attractive? Isn't this "taking advantage" of them for our own sexual fulfillment?

There is no touching involved. So, different situation! But there are indeed people on this world who do think that this is not okay...in this cultures, women wear veils.

don't think this is an equivalent situation. You're talking about the trust and power imbalance involved in a doctor-patient relationship. Not a couple of friends who, apparently, are quite happy to allow some tickling.

The question is, would those friends still allow it if they knew it was sexual to the tickler? I doubt it, and he doubts it too, or he would tell them right away without wondering if he should!

Here we are talking about the trust between friends which is clearly violated.

So would it be okay for me to use my cell phone to look up girls skirts? Or plant a hidden camera in a locker room? Or maybe sneak into a girl's room late at night and lick her feet? So long as she doesn't know, than it's totally fine right? You might argue that in the situations I described the woman's privacy is being violated so that somehow makes the "doesn't know so it can't hurt" point still valid, but it doesn't. Those girls are completely unaware that they are being used for sexual pleasure without their knowledge or consent, which essentially means the OP is objectifying them by turning them into sex toys. That shit ain't cool.

Totally agreed here.

 

[NonConTickler]

OP, Whatever you do DON'T listen to the people saying you should fess up or stop tickling them. I don't care because it doesn't affect me personally, but for you to ruin a sweet arrangement because some people here are comparing something so harmless to watching unsuspecting women in dressing rooms, would be beyond stupidity.

As for violating their trust, using them for your own pleasure or whatever, I can only repeat: its everyone for themselves. Look out for #1. My own enjoyment is more important to me than any person.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

As for violating their trust, using them for your own pleasure or whatever, I can only repeat: its everyone for themselves. Look out for #1. My own enjoyment is more important to me than any person.

Most ignorant statement ever.