Umm... what's going on? (Insight, please!)

[Bored Now]

Okay. So I recently posted about how my non-ticklephile boyfriend was possibly converting to one of us, right? Well... things have changed suddenly. He hardly lets me tickle him any more, going to the point of whining and pouting to make me stop. Disappointing, yes, but he's also starting to tickle ME, totally unprovoked, and not as playfully light as before... lately he's taken to prolonged, merciless tickling and really seems to enjoy it. Now, this isn't any sort of problem because I myself love to be tickled as well and the attacks aren't malicious in any way... But he's taken such a dramatic swing from a 'lee to a 'ler that I'm really sort of confused... any advice or insight? Or is this just one of those weird guy things?

 

[TicklishSinner]

maybe he wants to test out all positions before applying for one, and maybe its just PMS for men....lol i dunno, but i can see why your confused

 

[starfires]

This is your boyfriend you're asking about? Why are you asking us, and not him?

 

[kis123]

This is your boyfriend you're asking about? Why are you asking us, and not him?

She's asking based upon experience. We are the experienced ones and he is not. He may be dealing with the implications of becoming a ticklephile and may not be ready. There are many reasons for not totally opening up.

I hope they get it together because there is much more tickling to be done!🙂

 

[Tomato_Dragon]

Could be the simplest answer is the right one. Maybe he just doesn't enjoy being tickled, and prefers to work you over.😀

 

[the_Baron]

i'm thinking: invasion of the body snatchers!

 

[TicklishSinner]

LOL...That could be Baron, but highly unlikely...lol

 

[TickledToDeath]

You have obviously unleashed the tickler in HIM! Maybe the whining is a game? Maybe he is testing out the waters on both sides of the river.
Time will tell.
You tickling him gets you tickled back.....no problem there and since he knows you love to tickle as well as be tickled, thinking that he is trying to tickle the tickler out of you is not the issue.
He just may be liking both. Only HE has the answer and it is HE you need to ask.

TTD

 

[steph]

Why not just relax and ENJOY it?? (Maybe it's just a phase anyhoo...)

XOXO

 

[TicklishSinner]

Enjoy whatever is going on and then asks questions..lol 😀

 

[Bored Now]

Thanks for all the help, guys... it's very much appreciated.

Ahh... only time will tell where this goes, I guess...

 

[Moses25]

You've created a monster. 🙂

Cheers.😀