Using Ball Gags

[mel gibson]

Does it defeat the purpose for you or enhance the overall experience?


Personally, I wish I had used a ball gag more, especially on my last girlfriend.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I've never used a gag, but I haven't got much interest in ball gags. They look incredibly uncomfortable. I can't say I'll never try it, but I'd much prefer something over my mouth, like duct tape or a hand, than something in it.

 

[NonConRon]

I don't like gags of any kind. I wanna hear my victims scream, laugh and beg for mercy.
That's the best part of tickling, IMO.

 

[thetmfobserver]

Personally, I wish I had used a ball gag more, especially on my last girlfriend.

Anyone else find this quote from Mr. Gibson hilarious?

 

[TickVix]

Never used any, and I think in the midst of tickling it would kind of defeat the purpose lol. However in the midst of other things....well then that's a different story, but like I said I've never used them and I don't think I will lol.

 

[BMoreTklr]

Anyone else find this quote from Mr. Gibson hilarious?

LOL absolutely hilarious.

 

[leafstk]

... and I think it could be fun to try, in the right scene..

 

[JUICEBOX]

I don't like gags of any kind. I wanna hear my victims scream, laugh and beg for mercy.
That's the best part of tickling, IMO.

DITTO

 

[gitcheycoocoo]

Never have liked gags, blindfolds, masks or any other things covering up a lee's face to the facial expressions and sounds from being fully available. However, I can see the need for a gag to quiet the noise if at a place where the noise could be a problem.

 

[BellybTickler]

It does for me, because it emphasizes my helplessness, making the intensity of the session that much greater.

 

[BMoreTklr]

Never used a ball gag on a lee.......never really desired to either. Blindfolds, yes, ball gags, no. I would think I'd only want to use one in situations where the lee is a screamer more so than a laugher. In that case, I think a ball gag may be in order.

 

[NonConRon]

Idk, gags seem a little too.. BDSMish... is that a word?
Plus it's hard enough for them to breathe when being tickled, so it also seems a bit cruel and unusual.

Anyone else find this quote from Mr. Gibson hilarious?

To tell you the truth, it went right over my head, but now that you've pointed out the obvious... YES!!! It's pretty damn funny!

Welcome aboard, MEL!

 

[milagros317]

In most positions, ball gags have the serious disadvantage of making the wearer drool.

 

[Maestro1874]

DITTO

Ditto Squared...

 

[AngelOfDarkness]

I seriously hate ball gags. It's pretty much a hard limit for me. But that's not to say I hate all gags; I am very fond of tape or a firmly placed hand.

 

[Coda]

In fantasies and artwork, they add this beautiful element of helplessness to the appearance of the person wearing one. In real life, I don't imagine they'd have much potential to enhance anything.

 

[P[a]pi]

I like how ball gags look, but I don't like the drooling they cause. That can be be stopped or decreased by just not putting the lee on her stomach though. Standing, sitting up or on her back positions should help.

Ball gags hurt my wife's jaw though (haven't tried an extra small one though). I use cleave gags and duct-tape gags on her all the time though. And I love duct-tape gags on myself, but only with a blindfold too.

 

[TickVix]

Never used a ball gag on a lee.......never really desired to either. Blindfolds, yes, ball gags, no. I would think I'd only want to use one in situations where the lee is a screamer more so than a laugher. In that case, I think a ball gag may be in order.

But if you use a ball gag on a lee.....HOW are you going to hear their safe word hmmmmmm? That ain't right lol

 

[Avenger314]

I'm not a fan of gags of any type, personally. I like to hear the reactions and laughter.

 

[BellaRisa]

But if you use a ball gag on a lee.....HOW are you going to hear their safe word hmmmmmm? That ain't right lol

You arrange different signals that don't count on words; an item the 'lee has to hold, for example, that they can drop if they need help or a break. I use this system as a 'ler and a 'lee and it works great 😎


These gag threads are always amusing. Do people really, honestly think that a gag completely silences a 'lee, rather than just altering how they sound? Those of us who love gags, including ballgags, love them because of how great a 'lee sounds when they're laughing loudly through a gag, how extra helpless they are when you ask them sadistic questions ("What? You say your ribs itch?") and they can't answer but they can definitely SQUEAL in maddening frustration ...there's nothing like it, and you can always tell those who've tried it, even if they didn't care for it, vs those who are just speculating.

 

[BellybTickler]

You arrange different signals that don't count on words; an item the 'lee has to hold, for example, that they can drop if they need help or a break. I use this system as a 'ler and a 'lee and it works great 😎


These gag threads are always amusing. Do people really, honestly think that a gag completely silences a 'lee, rather than just altering how they sound? Those of us who love gags, including ballgags, love them because of how great a 'lee sounds when they're laughing loudly through a gag, how extra helpless they are when you ask them sadistic questions ("What? You say your ribs itch?") and they can't answer but they can definitely SQUEAL in maddening frustration ...there's nothing like it, and you can always tell those who've tried it, even if they didn't care for it, vs those who are just speculating.

This. 🙂

 

[-Hari-]

Theres good things and bad things about gags, Bad things have been highlighted already, we don't get to hear the screams etc.

I do however at times, like the fact that all they can do is a sort of muffled internal cackle and cant even attempt to plausibly ask you to stop, it gives the whole thing an extra sense of helplessness.

And there's nothing quite like taunting a gagged person to "speak up" or "be to be more clear about their requests" 😀

 

[NonConRon]

You arrange different signals that don't count on words; an item the 'lee has to hold, for example, that they can drop if they need help or a break. I use this system as a 'ler and a 'lee and it works great 😎

This.... seems kind of irresponsible.

These gag threads are always amusing. Do people really, honestly think that a gag completely silences a 'lee, rather than just altering how they sound?

Of course not, but what some of us are saying is it kills the full effect of the laughter/screaming. You can completely forget about begging for mercy and pleading because all you get is grunts and whimpers. Hell, you might as well just tickle a dog if that's what you're into.

Those of us who love gags, including ballgags, love them because of how great a 'lee sounds when they're laughing loudly through a gag,

I'm sure there are myriads of reasons to like/dislike them.
It's never a good idea to "speak for everyone", though.

...there's nothing like it, and you can always tell those who've tried it, even if they didn't care for it, vs those who are just speculating.

Oh really?! Just from a reading few sentences on the web?! Doubtful.
I've tried them and gotten nothing but complaints, but if you're into pain then maybe BDSM is more up your alley than tickling is.

 

[BellaRisa]

This.... seems kind of irresponsible.

How so? If anything one has to pay even more attention to one's 'lee, and that's never a bad or irresponsible thing.

Of course not, but what some of us are saying is it kills the full effect of the laughter/screaming. You can completely forget about begging for mercy and pleading because all you get is grunts and whimpers. Hell, you might as well just tickle a dog if that's what you're into.

Gags can certainly diminish the volume of full-out laughter and screaming, but not nearly as much as folks tend to suggest. And a gag can often enhance those reactions, because the 'lee can feel less inhibited if he/she thinks a gag will keep their sounds from being too crazy-they feel more free, so to speak, and are often even louder than they would have been un-gagged; I've had this happen several times. Furthermore, the begging and pleading is admittedly hilariously garbled, but trust me you can still understand what a desperate 'lee is trying to communicate, even more frenzied

I'm sure there are myriads of reasons to like/dislike them.
It's never a good idea to "speak for everyone", though.

You're right, it's not a good idea. That's why I only spoke for those who love gags the way I do. Those who love gagged tickling but not for those reasons should add to this conversation 😀

Oh really?! Just from a reading few sentences on the web?! Doubtful.
I've tried them and gotten nothing but complaints, but if you're into pain then maybe BDSM is more up your alley than tickling is.

Yes, after this long and this many threads on the subject you can often tell just from how they describe what they imagine it would be like; it tends to be quite different from the reality one knows if they've actually done it, especially if they've done it regularly.

Who said anything about pain?

 

[ViperGTS]

I love using gags of all kinds - ballgags, cellophane, cleave gags, panties-and-duct-tape - but then that's because of my darker BDSM-oriented inclinations. 😉